me and my ex broke up some months ago and recently she looked me up on myspace. i ended up calling her 3 days after getting the message and it seems that she is trying to get back in the picture. jus to make this clear i am a female but when we broke up she started dating this one boy and etc. i think she crawling back to me because something happened between she and him but she dont wanna discusse it.
2007-08-06 07:09:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
an ex, is an ex for a reason
2007-08-06 07:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is your question? Do you still love her? Enough to put aside what she did? If you are still interested in her, proceed with caution, but make it clear that you don't want to be the rebound, or just there because she's lonely. After time she may open up to you about what happened but for now i wouldn't push the issue.
2007-08-06 07:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by hell0kittygyrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should just ask her: Are you interested in me again b/c Joe Schmoe doesn't want you? It doesn't even matter what her answer is because if you don't trust her reasoning, you shouldn't be bothered. If you're so important to her, she won't mind spending a few months trying to earn your trust back.
2007-08-06 07:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by Christy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no offense but i think you need a boyfriend more than a girl friend. she might want to get back with you but i think she still like the guy even though something happened between them. my advice see a pastor he/she should be able to help more then any1 on yahoo answers
2007-08-06 07:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by searchin4more 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel that way about it i would still go and meet with her and get the truth out of it unless you just dont want her back then i wouldnt go.
2007-08-06 07:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by libbynstanlo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pay attention to her. do u really want to slip in the past? just be her friend but that is it. i have an ex that tries to be in my life but i don't let him in. we had a bad relationship and now he wants to come back in. i am not letting him. i think u should do that as well. but, u know what to do so good luck.
2007-08-06 07:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by amadala02 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you still like her and wanna get bakc together then i dont see why not ... but if u are a little skeptical abt this relationship then tlk to her and see what u come up with .. and if u hate her guts then well.. sat no!!! xd...
2007-08-06 07:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by Meh... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you want to be with both, don't you think that if she went with a guy once she may want a guy again.
2007-08-06 07:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by hleichtnam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel she has ulterior motives for wanting to reconnect with you, and that she doesn't really care that much for you, then do what is best for you.
sometimes it's best to say NO....
do whatever is best for you.
2007-08-06 07:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, dont take her back. move on.
2007-08-06 07:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by Miss. American Nightmare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋