I'm a 14 year old and everytime me and my friends go to the pool there is always at least 2 guy checking me out. 2 weeks ago, this guy I guess really like me, he kept looking and smiling at me. And I found out later that he kept looking at my but. He did try and talk to me. Then this total geeky guy kept trying to talk to me and everytime I would walk up the stairs he would be watching me. Then there was these two lifeguards, one kept secertly watching me. Like when I standing a few feet away from his chair where he was sitting watching the pool, he kept turning and looking at me. I was talking to my friends. He also watched me leaving the pool? Then this other lifeguard kept walking real close to me when I was waiting for the ball to be thrown back to me from my friends. I mean close I could lean back and I could touch him. He did that another time too. And he had plenty of room for him not to walk so close. What does this all mean? i'm going back to the pool next week!! Help!!
2007-08-06 07:18:56 · 26 answers · asked by Nicole. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guy never have checked me out till this year. I have never really considered my self, hot. Trust me. I am not full of my self. I just wanted to know, why none of the guy acctually tried to have a real convo. with me. Not just staring at my but and stuff.
2007-08-06 07:24:20 · update #1
That's what guys do. Believe me, you aren't the only girl that the guys are checking out. It is practically a sport for guys to check girls out, especially at the pool where girls don't have as much on.
2007-08-06 07:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, First of all I resent all the comments that people have made in here that say guys are pervs and what have you.
The life guard was watching you because that's his job and if you look older then you are he might think that you are hot. I have no doubt that all the guys think your pretty but hon you are 14 and none NONE of them is ever going to do anything unless they are the same age or close to your age and so that's why they look
Second, if I was you I would wear a bathing suite that covers more of you up like one of those all in one things rather then a bikini. Your 14 and you don't need any of this yet stay with guys you own age and just enjoy been friends and don't get into any of all that cos you will regret it later believe me.
2007-08-06 14:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means that you're an attractive girl wearing a bathing suit... I don't know of any guy that wouldn't be looking at that. As long as they aren't touching you inappropriately or making crude comments, you should enjoy the attention you receive. Give them a wink or a wave... Unless you're not interested.
If the whole situation makes you uncomfortable, either wear a less-revealing bathing suit or go to a different pool... Maybe try bringing more friends so you won't feel like the center of their attention all the time.
Good luck!
2007-08-06 14:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI
YA THIS IS AND OVIOS ANSWER BUT U MUST BE HOT (or you ugly to them and they making fun of you) but anyway you your oviosly attractive so if u see one that not ugly give him chance (unless u got bf already then take him swiming with you make sure hes wit u 90% of time the guys checking you out should realize u got bf then look at another girl
2007-08-06 14:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by Nick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
from what i know, guys like to look at girls' chests and behinds
maybe you were wearing a very skimpy or maybe see through bathing suit??
how old is that lifeguard? if he bothers you again like that, ask him why he is basically attached to you. if it gets worse, you should report him.
2007-08-06 14:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by tigerlily9855 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you're bright.
Do you wear a tiny little bikini? Do you show off your body?
Of course guys are staring at your because they think you look good. How could you be that clueless?
2007-08-06 14:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by Couture Queen XO 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means they think you're hot, and they are enjoying looking at you and your butt.
If you don't like it, wear a swimsuit with more coverage... or put a t-shirt over it.
Get used to it... pretty girls I know get so tired of being hit on and stared at all the time. Me and the rest of my not as pretty friends LONG for that attention.
2007-08-06 14:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by nephthys76 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
okay, seriously. you're 14 years old.
the the lifeguard was watching you because thats his job. to watch children by the pool.
2007-08-06 14:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be too beautiful or too sexy.
But beware, my little kiddy. Take care of yourself. Some bad guys make use of the fact that girls like being admired, especially young girls.
God keep you safe, kiddy.
2007-08-06 14:26:25 · answer #9 · answered by hy003002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you just to immature to understand that guys are guys and are going to check your body out they are going to look at you in your bathing suit.. that's what guys do...and girls wear skimpy bathing suits to tezz them with...guys like looking at girls where have you been hiding remember girls show and guys look. that's how you get a boy friend when your mature enough to get one..is teasing and flirting with them and showing them some skin. and after a while the looking will turn into touching you so get ready..
2007-08-06 14:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋