What do you do if you have a friend who is really mean?

Question

I have a friend who is really mean to mean but when I talk to her about it she freaks out. She also flirts with my boyfriend all the time, what do I do?

thanks everyone

Answer 1

She doesn't sound like much of a friend, more like someone out to use you for as long as you'll let them. If you're unable to talk to her about it then find a new friend and cut this non-friend out of your life for good.

Answer 2

You didn't specify who she is mean to.

If she is mean to you or your family or friends, you have a problem. The fact that she doesn't respect you enough to leave your boyfriend alone is also a problem. If she isn't willing to discuss the problem, you can't solve it. Regardless it isn't a healthy relationship for you, and you should try to distance yourself from it. First though, say it straight out to her (use an email or letter if she won't let you finish it all.) If she values you as a friend, she'll accept the criticism and work to BE a friend. If she gets mean, you'll know that she isn't interested in your friendship.

Answer 3

Doesn't sound like a friend to me. If you want to give her another chance, tell her that it's not fair how she treats you and you're uncomfortable with the way she acts around your boyfriend. Let her know that you don't need a friend that puts you down and makes you feel miserable, so if she continues to be that person, you're going to have to end the friendship.

Answer 4

i CAN'T believe u SERIOUSLY still r friends with that blatch
ditch her, tell her how mean she is and dont care if she freaks out or not, its UR boyfriend!!!
and get better friends than her!

if u really love urself, u shouldnt b friends with a girl like that who just wants to harm u!

Answer 5

Whi si this girl your friend? What do you get out of being with her?
Friends are usually people who we enjoy sharing time with, often we have shared interests, we confide in them, we trust them and we have fun together. Do where does this friend come in?
If she is mean and undermines you ditch her and spend time with your other friends. I fyou have no other friends make some. However it's better to be alone than with someone who wants to spoil your life.

Answer 6

Omg That Was The Same With Me Just Stop Hanging With Them .

Answer 7

Tell her how you feel once and for all and then just leave it at that. After that, don't call her or hang out with her. If she's really sorry she'll come to you and apologize or stop acting like a B. If not then it's her loss...Hasta la vista, baby!!!

Answer 8

i agree with the first person, i have a strict rule on friends, they are there to make you feel better and keep you happy, the same way you are there for them, if they dont do that then why consider them a friend?? whats the point?

if you still really want her to be your friend then explain to her that you are really fed up with it and if she doesnt make a drastic change she wont be a friend of yours, if she seems like she doesnt care then you have been waisting your time with her!!, ditch her!!

good luck

Answer 9

Ditch her. She has low self esteem. Thats why she is mean and also why she flirts with your BFriend. Maybe after she grows up a bit, you guys can work it out. But no need for you to help her if she is mean to you.

Answer 10

She has problems and she isnt a good friend. She might not even be a friend just one of those people who use others. I would stop hanging out with her and tell her why. If she gets mad when you bring it up oh well.