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Dear friends
Honestly talking, I am very beautiful girl,people around me belive & say.
But unfortunately I am shy and can not find and attract boys successfully,please tell me what to do?
I am worried to tell others abut this problem
thank you

2007-08-06 09:05:27 · 11 answers · asked by Mona 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

11 answers

I'm a guy, and here's what I look for in a girl:

1. A pretty face (75% of first impression, 10% of overall)
2. A nice a** (15% of first impression, 10% of overall)
3. Nice rest of body (5% of first impression, 5% of overall)
4. A great personality (5% of first impression, 75% of overall)

Notice there are two categories: first impression (short run) and overall (long run).

Obviously, this is just an approximation I came up with. Personality includes: non-smoker, caring, honest, fun-loving, intelligent, and down-to-earth

2007-08-06 09:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 1 1

OK
First of all i think that there are women who are born gifted for at tracing males, though they say it can be learned.Maybe u need a professional help, but do u really believe that u are beautiful or people around tell u that? In order to attract men u must be very self confident, if u think i don't attract them, u really won't attar ct them. As i understood u are a young girl, and whom do u consider as males, ur classmates? Are u sure they can accept u as a woman? Maybe u have to look for males in other places?
Don't try to act a sexy woman if u are not, men hate it. Just learn to be feminie. Take some dancing lessons, it really helps to become feminie.
And the last thing u didn't tell for what purposes u want to attract them, if just for sex, i think it's not a real problem.

2007-08-06 16:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You need to relax. If you're as beautiful as you claim, act it. Confidence is such an attractive trait. Carry yourself as though you're beautiful...feel beautiful...and guys will in turn see that beauty in front of them.

I used to tell people I was shy for the same reasons as you, but I've learned over the years that saying you're shy is just a way of admitting your insecurities. Nobody wants someone that's unsure about themselves and their surroundings. Don't be a backdrop. Take control of the situations in front of you. Put yourself front and center when you approach a guy. Let him know that he's lucky to have you talking to him. Guys find this to be irresistible, trust me.

2007-08-06 16:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by Phenom 2 · 0 0

First, just be yourself. Next, get involved in activities and stay active such as gym, running, resturants, bars, etc. Just have fun and when you least expect it, Mr. Right will be saying hello. In others words, stop worrying and looking.

Since you are beautiful (as you say), guys will notice and they will approach. But, be nice, honest and yourself. Do not approach any WUSSY guys (those that looks, stares, smile and wave from a distanct). It wouldn't last long b/c they didn't have the balls to approach.

2007-08-06 16:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by L J 3 · 1 0

Well "honestly talking" right back to you . . . . being "SHY" is no way to attract ANYBODY.

It doesn't matter how beautiful she is . . . MEN DEFFINITELY don't want a girl who is "shy". Why? Because it's NOT ATTRACTIVE in the same way that YOU think being shy is NOT ATTRACTIVE about GUYS.

THE REAL QUESTION IS NOT -->> "HOW TO ATTRACTED MALES" . . . .

THE REAL QUESTION IS --->> "What do YOU want to attracted males FOR???"

When you know the answer to that question . . . you can THEN ask what to do about it. Because, different guys respond to different women in different ways. Being "shy" about it, means you are not prepared to ASK YOURSELF what you WANT to attracted males FOR.

If you want to attract males to want to MATE WITH YOU, you need to go about it DIFFERENTLY than a woman who wants a man to look after ( and provide ) for her and her kids.

YOU WILL INCREASE YOUR CHANCES OF CATCHING THE FISH >> YOU WANT << . . . WHEN YOU USE THE RIGHT LURE.

So which fish do YOU want?? Any idea??

Attracting males just for their ATTENTION, is not worth anyone's time and will get you NOWHERE. Make sure you are NOT one of them, because NO MAN is interested in women who don't KNOW what they want . . . . or are TOO "SHY" to admit it.

AND ALOT OF WOMEN DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT. . . . BUT THEY STILL LOVE THE ATTENTION.

Men have better things to do.

:)

2007-08-06 16:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Are you very beautiful....yeah I'm sure all the ugly girls that can't successfully attract guys feel for bad for you

2007-08-06 16:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by dick_ache 6 · 0 0

Invest in a razor and shave your back, lip shoulders, and teeth, just from what i seen from your pic.

2007-08-06 16:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by Stained Socks 2 · 0 0

your looks intimidate most guys. you need to make the first move. just be nice be yourself. good luck

2007-08-06 16:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just be yourself things will work out

2007-08-06 16:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

answer the door naked

2007-08-06 16:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 3

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