ok i'm 17, almost 18.. and this sounds completely stupid, but i've basically always just had the guys come out and tell me they like me... so i don't think i've ever really been in the position to where i was Wondering If they did or not.... until now, that is. and honestly, i can usually tell when guys like my friends and whatnot, but actually Being in the situation is completely different. and i honestly realized i Don't Know how to really tell..... this sounds lame, but this is like the hardest thing for me.. how do you tell for Sure? how do you take things? especially just through like Writing.. because maybe you text or write to the guy more than actually Talk to him... Then what are ways to tell through that and not just mistake it for his personality? how do you tell through to guys actual motives?!?
2007-08-06 09:00:09 · 21 answers · asked by sweetaction 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask.
2007-08-06 09:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by sofia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are so many different signals that people give off. The worst being those that are shy. I would say the part that really matters is... when you like the guy.. does he like you to.. and the only way to know that for sure.. is to have the confidence to ask him.. be outgoing and have some courage..
2007-08-06 16:08:00 · answer #2 · answered by Twinkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like to touch you, like just poke you in the ribs or tickle you. But if there usually like this it's probably just their personality. They could also smile a lot around you too.
There really isn't a way to tell though because it could just end up being who they are. Just straight out ask him if he likes you.
2007-08-06 16:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Screamo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i have been in the same situation before and i have learned to go with the flow of things especially in high school because high school dude are mostly either perverts or just plain stupid cause the only motives dudes have is to just get a girl to show they have one (in high school that is) as i have heard from many of my friends
2007-08-06 16:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Tom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when a guy likes you, you'll know for sure.
you get a feeling in your gut that makes you curious about him.
when he looks at you, he just smiles.
when he likes you he'll call you a lot more, wanting to hangout solo instead of a group or with fewer friends.
you'll just know when.
2007-08-06 16:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by SP. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok well....
he flirts with you.
asks you out.
smiles at you.
looks at you alot.
compliments you.
you and him hang out.
asks you for stuff like a pencil,tissue..etc
looks away when you look at him.
his friends start noticing you/looking at you differently.
people start asking you if you like him.
there are lots of ways you know. when the time comes you will notice it for sure. good luck.
2007-08-06 16:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well usally they pick on u but like seince he is prolly ure friend they hang around u alot more and they start feeling Shy Around u!! That is Wat happens in Life sometimes and If that doesnt wor then Just ASK!!
2007-08-06 16:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by Gabby H's friend!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Through interacting with him, it becomes apparent after a while whether or not he likes you.
2007-08-06 16:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by Michael F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am only in 6th grade but i have older guys that like me and i know what to do.... i think that you should give signs that you like him.. bc if he knows that you like him then he will know that he can ask you out or something. but if youjust kinda act like friends then he thinks that you dont really like him... so i thik that you should give more signs that you like him..
well i hope it turns out ok...
:)
2007-08-06 16:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ask. you are about to be 18 years old...it's time to roll with the grown ups.
2007-08-06 16:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to him about it.
You'll never know until you try.
Maybe he's shy, or maybe he just wants to be friends.
But you won't know until you try.
Good luck :)
2007-08-06 16:03:59 · answer #11 · answered by Tamara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋