Family & Relationships - 30 July 2007

I really envy women who have husbands that have high sex drives and want to make love to them a LOT but all they do is complain and ***** about it..I wish i had their problem..My husband and i have been married 12 yrs and our sex life is ok but hubby has always had a low sex drive and we usually make love 1-2 times a week..These women shouldnt be complaining about their husbands wanting them so much..Like i said i wish i had their problem..So does any other women feel the same way i do?..And no im not looking for advice just wanted to say something.

2007-07-30 01:57:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Decided to bring mum, sister, husband2b's mum and his sister to the national wedding show...

Haven't got a clue what happens at these events... how long do you spend there, what types of exhibutions do they have, would there be anything useful for a wedding abroad?????

Cheers

2007-07-30 01:53:34 · 7 answers · asked by ஐ♥PinkBoo - TTC #1♥ஐ 5 in Weddings

The reception is going to be at facility that holds 100 people for a seated, catered meal (which we are having.)

When we counted the number of people who we are 95% sure will show & who have children we came up w/27 children under the age of 12 =(

So, the dilemas are:
1) Obviously, inviting all of the kids will take up more than 25% of our guest list. Besides w/10 people in the bridal party ~ we would only be able to invite 63 family/friends & we want to invite a few more than that.

2) We are having this catered ~ if kids are inlcluded in the final guest count, that is way too much $$

Can we inlude kids on the invites to close family members, while sending other invites that have the names of the adults only ~ not their kids?

Our close relatives will probably be pissed if we don't invite their kids. However, NONE of these kids are a part of our daily lives ~ we only see them at occasional holidays, cookouts, etc, but we don't want to offend anyone

2007-07-30 01:52:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

This person was also critical of my looks/life, told little white lies, and I couldn't tell her stuff that happened to me b/c she wasn't supportive and it felt like she was using the negative stuff in my life to make herself feel better abt her life.

In the end, she told me how much my friendship meant to her but by then, it was too late for me.

What do you think? What would you do?

2007-07-30 01:50:49 · 6 answers · asked by asldfkjdfj 5 in Friends

My brother is 28, and has the brain of a child. He is lonely, and needs companions. Any help would be much appreciated. Thanks.

2007-07-30 01:50:19 · 7 answers · asked by Russ T 1 in Friends

Married 5 yrs. Hubby-2 kids from prev marry. Didn't want more kids-asked me 2 give up having. His Ex psych/emot abuse him severe b4&aftr marry(2 both aftr)still does-usual throu email-him. I say NO abuse-he avoid-psych issue-she smtimes take out on kids smhow-kids in denial-Mommy=Saint. She told kids not 2 listn 2 me (or accpt family)(only child) because not "Blood Relation". They not allwd to call me stepmom. Been to counsel 3 x togeth (sep occasions) in 5 yrs-Both alphas. Hubby mislead me b4 marry-drinking-live his life 4 kids-me as wife on backbrnr-expect me to chg 2 b like him-all 3 slobs-disrespectful-nasty teasing all time-my friends were rdy to gut him. Evry time wrk chg togeth=6-8 wks bck 2 sameold-I told stp drink & strt respect me or it over-he stp drink-but bck to sameold by July. I told not seem 2 wrk-NOW he want 2 get counsel AGAIN & will chg how treats me (incl kids)-Rdy 2 leave-scared because $-have dog I won't leave-where would we go?-Do I leave or try again???

2007-07-30 01:49:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not going to do anything with her ever again and I want to be with HIM, it was just a stupid thing I did when I got drunk. I want to be honest with him but maybe I should just pretend it never happened!!!

2007-07-30 01:49:19 · 33 answers · asked by ModelBabe2008 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is always having problems with her husband cheating even before she married him. Well she recently got a new house (in which he doesnt pay any bills). This weekend my neices were coming down from Texas (neices that I havent seen in like 2yrs. I live in base housing I have 2 children of my own (6yr old and 7mos old). My neices are (11 and 6) well after picking my neices up from the airport (i would like to mention that both me and my baby were sick that day) I got a call from my friend, she says "Girl I am sick of my husband and I am coming to stay with you for the weekend." I asked was he hitting her, she said "No, just up to his old tricks again." I said "well make him leave." she said "I dont want to go through all of that." I didnt feel well and I told her the truth. My neices are here and i didnt have the room to accomadate her and her 5 children. she hung up on me and i havent talk to her since. i called and left a msg to check on her. was i a bad friend?

2007-07-30 01:43:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I do not want to sleep any more, will that be ok?

2007-07-30 01:40:53 · 18 answers · asked by SHAWN 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, i'm 27m well educated, resonable looking, good personality, well travelled. A good one on one person. I'm not a loud person, but im talkative.But have had a girlfriend since my teens, is this how life is now? What am i doing wrong? Do i put a wall keeping people out, and thats why nobody interacts with me?

2007-07-30 01:40:07 · 20 answers · asked by Stuart L 2 in Singles & Dating

This was really the only snafu in an otherwise amazing relationship, but it's kind of a big one. He was incredibly remorseful and apologetic, and I know that if we both want this relationship to work, we should be able to get through anything, but it still hurts. I'm not sure exactly what it means though, I mean, we were IN BED. Naked. Together. I don't have to paint a picture, right? I'm just don't know what it means...Help!

2007-07-30 01:38:02 · 25 answers · asked by Divine Miss E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel so guilty; I had met her at an engagement party; we had such a time & one thing lead to another. This morning when I departed my train, I happened to sit opposite the woman. We both looked each other in the eye & swapped semi-smiles. During the journey our eyes met various times , I am a male & I feel guilty for not speaking to her. She must have felt this too, do you think I should have made the effort to start a conversation. I feel as if she thinks I used and abused her whereas I am beating myself over it just now.

As a woman or a man how would you have felt in my situation, if you are a woman, perhaps you can tell me how she may have felt?

2007-07-30 01:21:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can't do anything. I can't go out, I can't play inside (games) and it's summer vacation. My mom says she has to take care of us so she stays inside 24/7. It's me and my brother, we're both 19. It's ruined the relationships with our friends, it's made her paranoid too. I can't watch movies on our HBO because my parents puts on Parental Control. We couldn't get a job this year because we had to go to another country with my parents on vacation (even though we didn't want to) and there's no time until school starts. I don't get it, we get good grades, we always respect them, we never hurt anyone. I feel like I'm trapped in a cage.

When my dad comes home, my mom tells him everything that happened, most of them are stuff like; they didn't take the dog out today, they didn't cook for our guests etc. The only connection we have to the outside is the internet, but she keeps taking away our modems and our laptops. It's a complicated situation for us. Is this normal?

2007-07-30 01:21:26 · 7 answers · asked by Vii8o8 1 in Family

I am currently 18, 19 in December and am currently dating a girl that I have loved since grade 8. We were best friends from grade 8 until grade 12 when we decided that it was finally the right time to put effort into a relationship we both thought would work. We have been dating for the last year and 6 months and now marriage has entered the realm of possibility. We go to the same university and already have lived together for 8 months. We have seen the ugly sides of each other and are mature enough and serious about our relationship to talk thing out instead of having a verbal standoff. My question is, is 19 to young to be making this decision even tho we have known each other for about 5 years in total? She has told me she is ready to spend the rest of her life with me, I am as well. Just, is it the right time?

2007-07-30 01:20:24 · 9 answers · asked by hockeydude062002 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister's husband tells me of his sexual escapades. he takes me to see his girlfriend and is even planning to marry the lady and send her to another country to live. presently, the lady is pregnant. my sister has four kids for him and they have a very lovable home.

what do i do? should i tell my sister about her husband's escapades or keep mute? if i keep mute, guilty conscience will continue to prick me and it will be very bad if my sister discovers that i know something about this.

they have being married for 10 years now. kindly advise!!!

2007-07-30 01:16:56 · 10 answers · asked by Inexorable 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my girlfriend were together for 4 and a half years. I had to go away for 6 months and we were gonna get masrried when I got back. Well 3 weeks after I left I decided I didn't like her anymore so I just blocked her myspace and blocked her email addresses and deleted her from my MySpace friends list. Easiest break-up ever. What do you think?

2007-07-30 01:16:22 · 9 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i work the streets
its getting to dangrous now even tho the moneys good
but i need the money to look after me and my daughter
it makes me sick how the men are always married or have a girlfriend
i need to stop but how

2007-07-30 01:14:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-30 01:14:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They are going through a divorce and she has said he cannot see his children anymore because of the woman he is seeing, can anything legally be done about this?

2007-07-30 01:11:28 · 14 answers · asked by Kerry H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Alot of my guy friends proudly tell me how their girlfriends are doing so much for them just at a snap of their fingers. How do these guys train girls so well??

How do i train girls to do things for me right away, without complaints also ??

2007-07-30 01:06:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One day my husband was going to put the cover on my car and she was out side cutting her grass and she didn't know that I was standing there by my husband and I saw him look at me and then I look over there at her and she was looking at my husband, but when she finally realize that I was standing there she quickly turn her head and continue to her grass. "What do you think?"

One day before my husband and our family move into this house, we use to stay in a small apt. and one day we was out riding and we came home at 8:00pm and my husband said that he need to go get some milk from wal-mart and as time went by I stayed up late worried about him it was 2:00am when he came home but there was no milk in his hand I ask where have he been and he said he was at a topless bar, so I went in the living room and I saw dollars of one's on the table, and I said you beening females some money at this topless bar that money could by in my pocket, he said that he had order a drink and he didn't have any change the drink was a soda. So he came and ask me to forgive him and I did and every sense that day I couldn't trust him anymore and 4 years went by and we move into this house and now it's hard for me to trust him and if he can Iie about one little thing he can lie about everything like now my gusts are telling me that he could be meeting up with the neigbor in the morning. But he always says no he is not cheating on me. "what do you think about this?"

2007-07-30 01:05:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When my husband came home from work today he said me in an abusive tone almost yelling, "Who do you know who smokes brown filter cigs?" I was like do what? He repeated his ? then listed off brands of cigs that have brown filters. I told him I knew no one and no one in my family or landlord smokes. I told him that I didn't know how it got there. The way he talked there were a lot of them in the drive way. This morning I went to check and there was only one. The only person I can think of who came by who might have smoked was the cable guy.

My ? is does it sound as if my husband was accusing me of cheating? He has been known to do this at times. He even tells me when I go to make a call to my kids and mom go call your boyfriend. I don't even have one.

What do you think of this?

Thanks

2007-07-30 01:03:47 · 11 answers · asked by Msbearr 6 in Marriage & Divorce

been in a relationship with this great guy for a year . we used to go out and have a good time all the time now that we have moved in with each other he ha become a home body when he leaves hes not gone long n he tells me weres hes going ,, but 4 the last couple of months hes been acting weird while hes at work he wont answer some of my texs or ?'s acts like he doesnt want botherd all he talks about is work n this female co worker that hes ben working with 4 over 9 months and here to find out the people at his work dont even know about me .. he says he dont talk about his person life but he tells me about theres all the time we never have sex anymore he tells me nothings going on but why is he different having fun with them n acts like a couch potato at home and makes me feel he wants nothing to do with me im just worried something might be going on at work with this person why hes different with them/her then he is with me .. now his job is working with 2 mentally changelled guys .. i

2007-07-30 01:00:48 · 7 answers · asked by tmnph15401 1 in Weddings

2007-07-30 00:59:17 · 22 answers · asked by mommy_pretty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Now-a-days certain family stands purely on sexual and material relationship. Is there anything beyond that.

2007-07-30 00:44:31 · 7 answers · asked by BLOWHOT 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean, can you actually do something? For a certain person to fall in love with you?

2007-07-30 00:44:19 · 11 answers · asked by Gelopy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with a guy for the past two years now and we have break up three times. This is just because the guy who claims he loves me always break the relationship because of any slight mistake i do. I do render all sought of appologies to him but he will never forgive me. He do come back after four to five months begging me to forgive him but because i love him i do forgive him. We recently came back together after a beak up because i thought he has change but he has not, he is still the same.As am talking he is seriously annoyed with me, i have appologise to him but still he is not ready to accept my appologies i really love the guy and i can't stay without him. Can somebody help me out.

2007-07-30 00:43:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what to do when your husband gets angry either on u or on your child?

2007-07-30 00:42:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She divorced last year and was happy for a little while but is unhappy again. She lives with her 16 or 17 year old daughter. Her ex husband lives with her son. She has a lot of problems in her life right now.

2007-07-30 00:42:08 · 12 answers · asked by Michelle Y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi
I am 28 and married and I have one daughter 1 year old.
I got early married due to family pressure in my25.
My wife is average looking women, before the bith of my daughter we had good body relation but after pregnancy she has lost her shape and I lost my interest in her. mean while I get involed with another girl who is just 22 and prety gorgeous and sexy. she loves me truley knowing everything about me. we had date many times and i m emotionaly attached to her. Now I feel myself very guilty as if I am cheating my wife.
Moreover sometime(or rather many times) I felt my wife is not loving me but I don't want to cross marriage limit every time.
I told my GF leave me since I can't give any commitment to her but she is telling "don't leave me I don't expect any commitment from you"

Please help me what to do?

2007-07-30 00:27:04 · 19 answers · asked by rahul 1 in Marriage & Divorce