Family & Relationships - 30 July 2007

What would you do?
A few days ago I wrote to get advice about a man who just will not leave me alone.Thank you for the advice.?
OHHHHH! He is making me crazy and sad.Please take a peek at my question from a few days ago.I didnt have enough room to write everything here.Here are some of the things that he says to me when I break up with him.What do you think?:

Why won't you let me be your boyfriend? Why don't you want me, like I want you? Why won't you be my girlfriend? I don't understand. I just want you to want me. I just want you to touch me, to hug me, to kiss me....I just want to be with you. Why won't you let me be your boyfriend?

Why can't I ever be happy? What am I doing wrong? Why do I always have to be alone? I don't understand. What's wrong with me? Why won't you be with me? I'm so sad. I'm so very sad & alone. And you won't be with me. No one will.

I tried so hard. I really tried to be your boyfriend. I tried to be good to you. As good as I can be & I don't know what I'm doing wrong.

Sonya, I'm so alone all the time. I don't want to be alone anymore. Why won't you be my girlfriend? Why can't we be happy together? I don't know what to do anymore. I'm trying so hard to be a good man. I don't know how to be better.

I wish you'd come back to me.

With love,
Kevin

2007-07-30 08:36:40 · 20 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-30 08:36:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so i was talkin to this guy for a few months and we hung out quite a few times and went out a few times- well the last time we went out was like a double date with my friend and her b/f. well after having some drinks we decided to go back to my place and hang out for a little bit- well i hadnt eaten dinner and i got sick because i drink too much- and i never do so i was really embaressed- well he went home that night and everything was fine- i havnt talked to him since and it was a week ago- so im not sure what to think- everything was fine before and i think it would be really immature for a guy to not talk to me cause i got sick- what do you think?? im asking again so i can also tell you- i have tried to call him but he didnt return my call

2007-07-30 08:33:57 · 10 answers · asked by ADNAMA 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 08:32:55 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would u ever get back with ur exboyfriend if he cheated on u with a girl or a guy!?

2007-07-30 08:32:43 · 13 answers · asked by **spoiled ** 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy told me he liked me alot after i told him i liked him. We would be dating but he just hasnt asked me yet and i told him i wont ask him so he said he will when the time is right. A week later he has a girlfriend. How can guys do this dont they care about anyone but themselves???

2007-07-30 08:30:41 · 2 answers · asked by Nessa 2 in Singles & Dating

What qualities were important in the woman you were looking to marry and do you find you looked for the right things or do you wish your focus had been on something else?

2007-07-30 08:30:31 · 9 answers · asked by Random_Girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey everyone....here's a question for all you travel savvy people. My wedding is in April 2008. I am deathly afraid of boats and the ocean, and my future husband refuses to get on an airplane. We'd like to get away from Michigan. Please help. Looking at a 2000. budget.

Thanks again in advance.

2007-07-30 08:25:45 · 8 answers · asked by colorfulswanson 2 in Weddings

this guy that you are totally into...doesn't email you or talk to you for 6 days. Here is the situation...I am in a class with this guy. We have never really talked before in person, just a tiny tiny bit over the internet. Last tuesday, i facebooked him but still haven't gotten a response. Should i let it go...or what?

PLEASEEEE HELP!!! I'm desperate.

2007-07-30 08:25:36 · 9 answers · asked by iluvsummer'07 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 08:25:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom found out i was dating a girl. she doesnt like me doing that. so i got in trouble about that and she cried cuz her son hides secrets from her. my dad constantly lies to my mom and theyre divorced. i started dating the same girl again and my mom found out. she strated crying again. i feel so guilty and dumb for doing what i did. i hurt my mom the only person whos been there for me. i dont kno what to do anymore. any ideas?

2007-07-30 08:22:24 · 19 answers · asked by D 1 in Family

My best friend and I have always had feelings toward eachother. Even though we were with other people before (he has 2 kids not w/ me). We have had sex numerous times. But when we tried explaing our feelings to one another we just didn't believe eachother as odd as it sounds. Before he left to Iraq we had a disagreement. But a week before he left I poured out my feelings to him and confessed my deepest love (over the phone he was in Forthood). I cried and he had never expierenced anything like it from me before. Then he kind of cried and also confessed to me. He said he wished it would of happened long before. We talked everyday and all night long until the day he left. He also told me that he wasn't going to ask me to wait for him until he got back but it was good if I did. And I sure have waited!!! I love him so much. When he first left I didn't hear from him at all until he was on leave and came down for 10 days. We hung out. he doesn't want to hear much about love now :( so idk.

2007-07-30 08:22:08 · 4 answers · asked by toughcookie 2 in Singles & Dating

i like belly dancing but i dont know if that would please my girlfriend

2007-07-30 08:19:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-30 08:18:08 · 8 answers · asked by philly bob 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancée kissed another guy a few days ago and begged for forgiveness (which i did cos i'm crazy about her) but she can't give me a valid reason for doing it.

The best she can come up with is, sometimes i wish i wasn't so 'tied up' so young. What does this mean?

2007-07-30 08:17:51 · 16 answers · asked by liam316 2 in Singles & Dating

Now I know that I am. He doesn't trust me though, how can I prove it to him. If he loves me what will he do? Will he tell me to wait or will he take me back or...... will he let me go for good?

2007-07-30 08:16:31 · 31 answers · asked by Malaia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been going out with this guy for about 2 months. Im 15 and hes 16. We are having sex and see each other at least every other day. Weve never talked about our relationship. I dont know if im his girlfriend or even if were dating exclusively. Weve never met each others parents (which i guess isnt a big deal) but i want to be his girlfriend and date exclusivley. im afraid if i talk to him about it, itll scare him.
Do you think its too soon for me to talk to him about it? plus i dont know what to say to him. please help me

2007-07-30 08:15:30 · 14 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Singles & Dating

My wish would be for me to love and be loved, unconditionally for the rest of my life...while enjoying lots and lots of money!!!!!LOL!

2007-07-30 08:15:19 · 17 answers · asked by ♫☆ Y!A Princessღ ♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i have this new boyfriend & he's great... i love to bring him places with me. he takes interest in the things that are important to me. he knows i love church and he wants to go with me. problem is... my ex-boyfriend goes 2 my church. we're still really close friends..we usually sit together and hang out sometimes. i dont want either one of them to feel uncomfortable... advice???

2007-07-30 08:14:22 · 5 answers · asked by **CHRIST*a rock that is higher** 2 in Singles & Dating

Showing face or not showing face. How much would it take to tempt you to try something like this?

2007-07-30 08:14:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-30 08:12:19 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i dot into a debate about smth. he feels he is very right and i feel i am right. he then gets up and says well what you think its just stupid and walks away and mind you i was still talking. I got upset because i feel its disrespectful for anyone to say that what another person thinks is stupid. you dont have to agree with what anyone is saying but you have to respect them. He could have just said well we dont agree and its fine. he wont appologize to me becuase he thinks it wasnt insulting and he didnt call me stupid but my agrument. i think its silly coz if peopel feel strongly about smth and voice thier opinions they are a part of them and therefore calling my argument stupid means that i am stupid as well. am i being crazy?

2007-07-30 08:11:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anna 4 in Marriage & Divorce

is by another man?

2007-07-30 08:11:25 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i live in orlando florida,i met a girl the other day through my friend, i heard she told her friends i was cute however that night i took her to my crib at 3 in the morning, i was a lil tipsy but she was sober, i tried to persuade her to get "freaky" but she said shes tired, the next morning she said i should take her out sometime but when i talked to my friend he said i was "Rude to her", is she saying that because she is not interested in me anymore or she said it becasue she likes me and my friend ben??...........plz only girls answer, thankx

2007-07-30 08:10:18 · 14 answers · asked by fun-of-florida 1 in Friends

One of my good friends finally left her mentally abusive husband about six months ago, and she has been doing great. Having known her forever, I know that she is happier now (out of her depression) and feeling a lot better. Now, her ex got a promotion and a raise, and she thinks he is happier and she thinks that she should go back with him , for the kids sake.....she actually thinks he will change...she has illusions that he trying (because he bought a nice house 'for a family', etc.) but I know for sure it's just show....he'll start being abusive as soon as she comes back to him.
I honestly think he will just break her heart again (and the kids' heart too). but I have a hard time telling her because she may think I just want her to be available for me (I'm a guy)....
So, is there a way to convince her that I am being honest as a friend?

2007-07-30 08:08:23 · 12 answers · asked by Paul L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We tried it once, but all we really did was make-out, bathe, and touch. Give me some tips and anything else you know to make our shower meetings amazing!!

2007-07-30 08:07:01 · 15 answers · asked by TristaKayW 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we broke up a month ago i broke up with her
she stills wants to be friends
we met up for lunch, she suspected that i have a new gf
and began to ask me a series of questions which i didnt want to answer i simply told her i have a potential but im not seeking anything serious now but she went on how she met this new guy and how nice he is
and all the things he has done for her

i didnt get angry or anything (i guess she was hoping)

why will a woman do that
is it to smooth a wounded ego

why?? what are her motives? thanks

2007-07-30 08:06:21 · 16 answers · asked by simple J 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy and he seems to like me also. I am not so sure though. He says he flirts alot but the people that he flirts with he doesn't kiss them. So is he just using me or what?! He does whatever i ask him to. i am really confused!

2007-07-30 08:05:59 · 11 answers · asked by tinkerbelle 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are divorced. I live with my mom. I have not seen, nor heard from my dad since I moved in with my mom. I am sixteen and pregnant, which he WAS excited about at first, but now he is not. I have not recieved any money from him in over 3 months. I have no vehichle, but i still go to school and to many doctor appointments that I have no transportation to. How can i get child support form him?

2007-07-30 08:02:57 · 19 answers · asked by Jennifer S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We met up with my husband's boss , his wife and coworker at a "drunkfest" if you wanna call it that. We are all younger and my husband and I are newly weds. Normally his coworkers think I'm stuck up, but when I get with the boss's wife, we get lit and let loose. My husband and his boss think its great, we all have a great time. This time the co worker mentioned to my husband that I was "Too Friendly" I swear, I didn't cross the line at all.But now he's talkin about it to everyone at his work. He wont tell my husband or me what it is that supposedly happened. It has me p!$$ed and my husband questioning. What am I supposed to do?

2007-07-30 07:59:35 · 14 answers · asked by Suggar B 2 in Marriage & Divorce