i live in orlando florida,i met a girl the other day through my friend, i heard she told her friends i was cute however that night i took her to my crib at 3 in the morning, i was a lil tipsy but she was sober, i tried to persuade her to get "freaky" but she said shes tired, the next morning she said i should take her out sometime but when i talked to my friend he said i was "Rude to her", is she saying that because she is not interested in me anymore or she said it becasue she likes me and my friend ben??...........plz only girls answer, thankx
2007-07-30 08:10:18 · 14 answers · asked by fun-of-florida 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
corrections, when my friend ben told me i was rude to her, SHE told him that behind my back...
2007-07-30 08:13:15 · update #1
this is not good. If she really really likes you, she's not gonna talk behind your back like that. Forget her. This girl is crazy. She told you to take her out sometime and told others that you're rude? Why didn't she say to you directly? I would do that-------> gotta stay away from this girl.
2007-08-06 14:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you took her saying she thought you were cute in a sense when one is tipsy the other sober it ends up a mess if you had really had interest in this girl you should have toned your behavior down, it is not any fun to get freaky with an individual who is tipsy I say this with experience people who have had to much lose their inhibitions, they are not the same person as when they are sober you would have gotten alot more response from her if you had just of not had any thing to drink, talked with her found out what kind of guy she was really into instead of blowing it by getting drunk
2007-08-07 07:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by junie moon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are disgusting when they are 'tipsy' and you started off on the wrong foot by pushing this person into a potentially bad situation. What are you talking about 'because she likes me and my friend Ben' Why don't you call her and ask her out and if she refuses, you will know that you went too far. The name of the game is truth and to get to the truth you have to TALK to the girl to find out where you stand.
2007-08-06 23:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's interested in getting to know you better before getting freaky. Otherwise why would she tell you to take her out?
Call her and apologize for your behavior that night and make sure you don't do that again. Be respectful. Take her out on a fun date (not necessarily an expensive date) and just call it an evening when you part that night. No hanky-panky and don't even bother trying. Let her make the first move.
2007-07-30 08:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by curious gal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well a first DATE and YOU wound up drunk??? And YOU tried charming this young lady with drunken suggestions of freak stuff---not only was it immature, crude, disrespectful and stupid--it was rude. Like you?? Why??--would you like a date that did that to you?? Stupid question--I think you would like it !!! Let me say--would you like a wasted evening with a silly obnoxious girl?? NO !!---- Try being a man--courteous, respectful, interesting---mature. Maybe show some charm and class----other than that--you will never do good with the nice gals. Rude is in the dictionary--can you look it up and see where you went wrong?? I know--you will write me and say you are all offended and upset----get over it and grow up or don't bother to ask questions here
2007-07-30 08:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she was just trying to get out of there and be nice so she wouldn't have to deal with your"freaky" sh*t any more!!! I would definately be offended by your behavior at your house, and what she meant is that your were RUDE, by coming on to her in that manner, instead of being a gentelman and offering her a safe place to crash, she had to worry all night about you hasseling her!! Yeah, i'd say that ones over, you blew it!! Unless she's into second chances, call her and appologize for being drunk, if she gives you another chance, then my advice DON'T DRINK THI TIME!!!!!
2007-07-30 08:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one...You were rude, you drank too much. It sounds like she's interested but a real lady enjoy's being the center of attention. Ask her on a date...at least spend some money on her before inviting her to bed...men!!!
2007-08-06 04:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by inhis_image 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find you rude if you tried to seduce me at the end of an evening and expecially if your were drunk. Get a grip, man. Women get tired of drunk men all the time.
2007-08-06 12:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she might be interested in you but she felt uncoftrable when you tried to get "freaky".
2007-07-30 08:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by awesome possum. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know what the hell you're talking about. And only rappers have cribs.
2007-07-30 09:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Twinkle♥Toes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋