Family & Relationships - 30 July 2007

WAIT..LET ME EXPLAIN...IM INVOLVED WITH A MAN THAT MARRIED A WOMAN A COUPLE OF MONTHS AGO FOR THE WRONG REASONS.... RELIGIOUS PURPOSES ONLY...HE SAID IT IS TEMPORARY... I LOVE HIM AND HE SHOWS ME HIS TRUE FEELINGS THAT HE LOVES ME TOO. WHAT SHOULD I DO? I KNOW MORE ABOUT HIM THAN HIS WIFE...

2007-07-30 09:41:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so my friend is in love with her neighbor. Hes her age. He has a baby momma and my friend has been sleeping with him. She doesnt know what to do cause she loves him. She tried saying no to him but they still end up having sex. What do i tell her? should she move out of her house so she wont ever see him again? And the worst thing is that she talks to his babys momma!!! PLEASE HELP ME SO I CAN HELP HER!!

2007-07-30 09:40:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My.boyfriend.of.4.years.thinks.im.cheating.on.him.2.days.ago.i.lost.my.phone.on.the.EL.and.he.called.my.phone.and.im.guessing.a.male.picked.up.but.since.that.day.he's.been.real.distance.and.don't.talk.alot.until.we.had.an.disagreement.and.he.tells.me.he.wants.to.be.single..could.this.be.him.acting.out.in.anger.i.really.need.to.know.cause.i.don't.want.to.lose.him

2007-07-30 09:39:15 · 14 answers · asked by Latoya w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 09:38:58 · 21 answers · asked by aj_marshall333 1 in Singles & Dating

ok someone just said " im about to have a blunt" what does that mean?

2007-07-30 09:37:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My siblings and I have agreed to take over our parents finances and health care before it gets to a point that they don't understand. But, I have a horrible feeling that we are doing something wrong. My parents are freely giving it over, and my siblings and I have a really wonderful relationship. I just feel so guilty... WHY? I haven't done anything wrong.

2007-07-30 09:36:26 · 4 answers · asked by lester 3 in Family

Women might get emotional, a bit hurt. But from my experience men take rejections far more seriously than women. They become down right vindictive. I've rejected few guys from the past. One guy wouldn't stop emailing me..calling me crazy, this other guy had anger issues, this one guy was in denial, he couldn't believe that I was rejecting him. He tried to point out my flaws. So why is it that women blame themselves for being rejected and men seek revenge?

2007-07-30 09:36:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know i shouldnt be going through his business but Gosh he always comes home late and all that other crap.. Him and Her dont even do anything.. so like.. im really curious..

2007-07-30 09:34:59 · 54 answers · asked by Sniicker D 1 in Family

My wife and I married in June and she is in transition to join me in the West. I've prepared our home for her but want to make sure I help her to transition with as little stress as possible. Also, I want to make sure we learn how to navigate our cultural differences in terms of how to relate to each other. We have had a couple instances where she was upset by something I said (too honest I suppose) - we recovered nicely though. I believe it should be fair compromise - neither culture should dominate the marriage. Are there any professional organizations or Websites out there that can help? - PS. She is highly educated and comes from an excellent family - no money issues etc..

2007-07-30 09:34:42 · 4 answers · asked by CaribSON 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you had a source that would be great! Thank You in advance! :)

2007-07-30 09:34:37 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Jennifer♥ 4 in Weddings

... minor child, including, but not limited to, medical...school records, may not denied to a parent because the parent is not the child's primary residential parent. Full rights under this subparagraph apply to either parent unless a court order specifically revokes these rights.....".
Does it mean the non-custodial parent should have the same rights as the non-primary residential parent stated above ?

2007-07-30 09:33:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 22 years old, have long blonde hair, tan skin, size 34 C, blue eyes, and I'm 5'4''. I love the beach, playing with my puppy, reading good books, shopping, and being kinky. ;]

I work at Hooters in my spare time, as I am a college student in California. I also ride horses when time allows, and love to have long, meaningful conversations. But then, again, I also love to have long, meaningful se.x lol.

Would you date me? Because I've only had 3 boyfriends in my life, so maybe there is something wrong with me...

2007-07-30 09:32:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does it mean?
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does he care to much to argue with you or not care enough

its really a petty argument, that he could resolve if he just let his pride down a little.

2007-07-30 09:32:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

First Of All Im 27(28 In October) This Guy Is 45- I ThinkI Should
Pay Him Back- This Guy Was In Love With Me And We Spent Alot Of Time Together - He Took Me Out For Dinner About 8 Or 9 Times (Since We Started Hanging Out In Jan Of This Yr) And He Always Paid- I Never Had Feelings For Him In That Way(Theres Nothing There) Well He Doesnt Want To Be Friends With Me- HE MADE IT CLEAR THAT HE DOESNT WANT TO BE JUST MY FRIEND-HE SAID EITHER I GO OUT WITH HIM OR HE DOESNT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH ME- ID NEVER HAVE A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM EVER! Do You Think I Should Pay Him Back Or Not? I Think I Should Because That Was Very Sweet Of Him To Do That- I Think It'd Be Wrong Not To Pay Him Back- HE SAID HE DOESNT WANT IT BACK

PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR OPINION- I Need Help

2007-07-30 09:31:37 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now (I'm 19 and in college), and I am still a virgin. We have taken lots of time to discuss our lives together, and sex in general. I do love him, and feel ready to express myself to him in that way, but I am christian, and the bible says to wait untill marriage. He definately respects me, and wants me to wait untill I am ready, no rush; the problem is I feel as if I am, but this problem plagues me.

Should I do what my religion says, or what I feel I want to do in my life?

2007-07-30 09:31:03 · 20 answers · asked by CutiePieAshley 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a new boyfriend. I love him dearly but I have been single and happy for four years and raising my daughter alone. I have become very independent and private at home. I will not be in a living together situation for quite some time so how do I get him to stay home without hurting his feelings? He has been at my home almost everyday since I met him.

2007-07-30 09:30:54 · 8 answers · asked by hot_coffeebeans 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

help plz!!

2007-07-30 09:30:27 · 26 answers · asked by nicki 4 in Friends

I'm still kind of figuring stuff out with my sorta ex boyfriend and I'm not looking to date anyone right now. I've kind of been asked out by a couple guys though and I don't really know what to say, so I just say I'm not available. The reason I don't just say "I'm not looking to date right now" is because they don't really ask me out in the way that I'm positive it's for a date. One guy asked me if I wanted to 'go get food tomorrow at 6'. So I'd hate to tell him that I'm not looking to date right now, only for him to say "I wasn't asking you on a date". How can I tell if I guy is just wanting to be friends or really asking me out on a date?

2007-07-30 09:30:03 · 16 answers · asked by sarahjaniepoo 4 in Singles & Dating

She wants a boyfriend that would be nice and understanding. would give her attention when she needs it? At the same time she wants to be herself??

I used to date a girl and gave her what she needed and even try to understand her. At the end 18 months, she says " she wants to be herself?" Breakup occured weeks later.

She got a new boyfriend...and still tells me thats she tells her new boyfriend the same thing. "She wants to be herself?" too.

Any girls can clarify? What's " I want to be myself " suppose to mean? Arent yourself when you're in a relationship after such a long time?

2007-07-30 09:27:10 · 1 answers · asked by Good and Evil 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i kinda need help with getting a boyfriend! must work on all sorts of guys! just nothing to bad! nothing that would give me a horrible rep

2007-07-30 09:24:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got out of a relationship last year and I haven't been dating. I have a one year daughter and I am very limited to do things. I want a man so bad. I am very lonely, and I am tired of being lonely. I am not over weight or bad looking. What to do? Most of these guys out here don't even care anymore. They just want to sleep with me. I am not a sex kitten. I want a relationship. HELP.

2007-07-30 09:24:03 · 4 answers · asked by Jamonican 4 in Singles & Dating

in september 2006, she went to one school and i to another. i still have feelings for her but dont know what to do. should i just move on or call her or what???? HELP ME!

2007-07-30 09:23:40 · 19 answers · asked by CT230R 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to try new positions, all we ever do is missionary and cowgirl, we both like it how it is, but i just wanna try somethign new....should i ask her to try it or just tell her to i.e., turn over



no lectures about sex please

2007-07-30 09:22:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok Ok..I deserve everything & then some of what everyone has written. I am overwhelmed by the response from MEN telling me I am a man Ho.
Look I have a GREAT paying job plus I have my own biz. I spent money like running water on ugly woman to make them feel better. They repay me with amazing sex my wife never pleased me like they can. Mind you with respect to my wife she was a virgin in 1980 raised in the bible belt with morals at 19 she was a great catch. I am the only man she has been with.
She says it is MY fault she can't please me since I am her teacher sexually. She is sexy but not naughty. I can not ask my wife to let me f*** in the *** or swollow my c**. She is the mother of my kids. I know the ugly woman are great lovers and are willing to do everything with no questions asked.
She has I think no intentions of letting me in the marriage bed again.
I have informed lovers I need a place to stay but they reused me full time. I am paying their bills.
Depressed & Sad :(

2007-07-30 09:21:52 · 26 answers · asked by i_cheat_onmy_wife 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Curly hair or straight? Bangs or no bangs? That kinda stuff...

2007-07-30 09:20:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So ya its kind of what it says up there, and I was thinking about doing like a beach-type dinner. There's about 20 of us. Anyone have ideas for food or another way to have a goodbye party?

2007-07-30 09:16:34 · 5 answers · asked by ShOrtnSweEt 1 in Friends

okay.....anyone got any suggestions i can do with my bf.........we have gone to the movies and stuff but i want something more exciting to do.........i cant really think of anything.....i need some advice on wat to do........

2007-07-30 09:12:26 · 21 answers · asked by Dominique F 2 in Singles & Dating

Mark has practice or games about 2-3 times a week which we never miss.My question is this enough?Should we be bringing him to the batting cages or practicing with him too?Once in a while Mark will ask us to go throw the ball to him and we allways do but we never ask him if he wants to go out and play.I would really like to know what other parents do with thier small children that are in little league.

2007-07-30 09:11:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i know im just a teen but i feel that time will never come for me i dont want to have children get married have a boy friend have a first kiss nothing not that it's gross i feel nothing that exiting will happen to me i dont want the kid thing to happen until when im older and dont want to be engaged underage that's not it i just feel that im not that lucky for someone to have a crush on ME! yes sometimes i dont like who i am and just hate that so do you agree that im just not cut for all this stuff when im grown or reach high school and go on a date and they ask ME or something like that?

2007-07-30 09:10:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy I know at work and his suspicious (spelling?) behavior with kids makes me think he could be trying to find a child to molest. I know he used to be into porn on his home computer is there a way to find out if he has children's porn on his computer so see if my assumptions are correct or if I should just ignore my feelings and give the guy a break. Note: People do bring thier kids to work and he is always going out of his way to play with the kids and he himself acts very immature and seems to relate to kids more.

2007-07-30 09:10:23 · 9 answers · asked by p_a_m_i_e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships