Family & Relationships - 30 July 2007

Do you love your life partner more than your own parents?
(Similar to the question: "If your mother/ father & wife/husband was falling from a cliff, who would you save? ")

2007-07-30 11:39:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Most of my friends are away and most are guys anyway.But I like this guy that works at a restaurant I like going to with my guy friend to lunch.I think he likes me,we hold our looks for a really long time(5secs) and he does look at me,my guy friend was telling me so.Me and my friend always sit at the same place opposite the bar where the waiter works.Is that silly?I really like him so I started speaking to him from across the bar I said"When do you open"and he said "at 11,you wanna come here tomorrow again" it was a joke I think I said no I have work then my phone rang so it probably put him off we spoke for a little and then when I left he waved goodbye.I feel upset,I want to quicken up the process-I duno what to do im really attracted to him,he seems shy.help please

2007-07-30 11:36:15 · 22 answers · asked by sxy latina XXX 1 in Singles & Dating

hey guys...what do you look for in a girl?...what attracts you more: her looks or her personality?...and which do you think is more important to go by when judging her?...would you be attracted to a girl who isn't very good-looking, or would you go for a girl who's got great looks but isn't very hot in personality?...

2007-07-30 11:35:16 · 17 answers · asked by sexi_kanani 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 11:34:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have a pretty darn good relationship. He is very "intimate" with me when we are together, always gives me a hug and kiss when he leaves. Is there for me when I need someone to talk to. Here is my problem...I feel like he is more affectionate with our 15 yr old daughter than he is with me. Like today, he was hugging on her..etc and I have noticed that if she goes to sit by him, he always automatically puts his arm around her(all of this completely innocent of course), but when I sit by him, he does once in awhile, but I feel it is an effort. We have talked about this sort of thing before and he tells me that he believes he and I already have a connection and that he is trying to get closer to her because he feels like he is "losing his little girl"so to speak. I do try to understand that, but everytime he does this I feel left out. I try really hard to not feel this way and I never say anything in her presence. I would like honest but kind answers please and thanks.

2007-07-30 11:34:36 · 13 answers · asked by ShineOn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husbands family is going through a rough time right now and he wants to invite his younger brothers to spend the weekend with us to kind of get away. I've been sick for about a week now and haven't really gotten a whole lot of sleep and thought I could catch up this weekend. So, not only is our apartment really cramped with just the two of us and I don't really know how to act around younger kids, but I'm also sick so I feel like it's going to be a very awkward time. My husband says he's irritated that I won't try to be helpful, but I don't see why we can't just pick them up for a couple of hours and take them to a movie or something. I feel awkward letting people stay at my house, even my own family. In a house so small I feel like I don't have room to play hostess. Am I being irrational? Thoughts? Comments?

2007-07-30 11:31:17 · 6 answers · asked by Jennie 3 in Family

we parked down the street from her house and she spotted us, then put personal protection orders on us. is what we r doing considered stalking

2007-07-30 11:29:59 · 10 answers · asked by stephanie p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is society not ready to accept a man or woman over 40 still living at home with mom or dad or both?

What is the BIG CRIME?

OR, is it jealousy?

2007-07-30 11:29:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-30 11:27:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it seems some husbands don't care you watch her wife, but other husbands seems to get angry or upset.

2007-07-30 11:21:02 · 19 answers · asked by narziso23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mmk..i know everyone says it will just come to you. but i mean like what if i don't use enough tongue or too little. or what if i don't move my lips right...or what if i tilt my head the wrong way? some one help me. please.

2007-07-30 11:19:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

first dance?
father daughter?

2007-07-30 11:15:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

!!! I need some advice please?
Heres the situation. I'm 26 female and hes 25. We met on eharmony back in april. He lives an hour and 45mins away from me. We've been on three dates. Talk, and text eachother throughout our day. He wants to move fast and I dont. He gets annoyed when I cant meet up with him because I have errands and stuff to do after work, and thats a far drive to do after 5pm. I'm not ready for sex with him yet. It seems so difficult already. I think hes awesome and cute and funny and handsome. We click when we talk, he lets me know everything hes thinking. I'm having issues with him living far away from me. I havent told him that. Just seems we cant be a normal couple if he lives an hour and 45 mins away from me. I'm guarded with my feelings still with him. My question to u is what should I do, and what do you think i'm doing??

2007-07-30 11:15:03 · 8 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys what do you think of girls with tattoo's? What if she had one on her arm or back of neck?

2007-07-30 11:13:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If not, how can you tell he's just using you?

2007-07-30 11:11:22 · 5 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-30 11:11:14 · 9 answers · asked by Trouble 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 11:08:06 · 5 answers · asked by corazon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't understand. I mean I understand that I'm overweight, but why can't guys look past that? Does it matter? Are there guys out there that like bigger girls?! Grr. I'm tired of it. What do I do?

2007-07-30 11:05:58 · 23 answers · asked by Shelby Lynn 1 in Singles & Dating

it is probably going to be a difficult question..i was engaged many years ago to a guy that was so wrong for me.i ended up in hospital with an ectopic pregnancy,all he wanted to do after the op was fight with me..nine years on i have long left him,have no children,but i feel all my life i have only went for certain types of people because of my desire to have children..all of my relationships have gone wrong..i am with my current fiancee a year and a half and he knows of what happened before..it's just that i suffered a very bad drink problem after my ectopic and i have got a bad temper..he knows everything going on in my life right now concerning my job and family and that i suffer very bad panic attacks.he can treat me very well,spoiling me with small presents..but when he gets in a mood he will use everything he has against me..tell me how he hates to be with me,tell me he doesn't want to have children or get married..and tell me i am a child for the way i am with the panic attacks.

2007-07-30 11:05:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hey there

sowy for all the "!" and "?" in the title of my question, i just want all the attention i can get *blush*

i need to change the id, i don't want any colours or numbers in it. i want something cute, easy to remember, i had my mind set on "summersong" but of course it is taken. oh, and not my name, country, city, or pet

gimme your thoughts!

2007-07-30 11:03:15 · 9 answers · asked by lady xanax 3 in Singles & Dating

Mom was on a trip, I did wrong stuf, bad friends made up my mind. When she came back I got punished but she wasn't harsh. I was grounded but she treated me w/ love and allowed some fun. Since during the time I messed up I didn't wear a bra, mom got me some bras made of thick material that covered a lot of my breasts, give much support and clip w/ 4 hooks,just to compensate for the time I was braless. I didn't like them but didn't complain. My punishment is over, no more restriction, I'm completely forgiven,my relationship w/ mom is great, But she decided to keep me wearing those bras. Now I complained a lot, but she said they are good for me and won't back off until I leave home. She was loving but firm and said This is not a punishment but for your own good. I really want bras w/ full coverage, much support , no see through andn 4 hooks, and dont want complaints, ok? Said they are good and decent, just what a good girl like me needs. What do I do? Just obey without complaining?

2007-07-30 11:02:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anabela 1 in Family

Because if she is my sister-in-law's cousin(by blood) then she should be my cousin by marriage.
If she is my sister-in-law's cousin then she is my cousin too by marriage. Right?
Because I am her cousin's brother (in law) so my sister (in law)'s cousin is my cousin too but by marriage. Right?

2007-07-30 11:02:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-30 11:02:58 · 20 answers · asked by loopy 1 in Friends

Is it because they care? Or is it because they sense a challenge??

2007-07-30 11:01:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 10:59:52 · 27 answers · asked by unreal_tomcruise 1 in Singles & Dating

im an incoming freshman in high school and we have uniforms. they dont flatter me very well and the shoes have a high heel and when i wear them i am almost 5 10. ive never had a boyfriend and i doubt i ever will because im taller than most guys! i hate it. should i date older guys or just wait for the rest to catch up?

2007-07-30 10:54:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need someone who i can email about this problem i have?

2007-07-30 10:53:33 · 2 answers · asked by iluvmoi100 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 31 and have wanted to have a family for about 5 years now. No one has seemed to worked out. I've looked at myself, made positive changes, dated several men, I work out, have a good job, have my own friends etc. so I consider myself stable and a good catch. I've been dating my current BF for 3 yrs now..I feel like it's been too long to go without a proposal. And not to mention everyone I know has gotten engaged or married and it hurts so bad. There's a wedding coming up that we are supposed to go to together and he's a groomsman...I can't bear the thought of going to this wedding. I'll fall apart and will embarras myself. I mean I could go and try to keep it together but I know when I see the other bride walk down the isle..OMG I can't even think about it.
Anyone felt this way? Please nice responses only....

2007-07-30 10:51:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

... the best man and maid of honor have sex? Even if one or both are attached to others?

2007-07-30 10:50:09 · 18 answers · asked by Striker 2 in Weddings

her whole family believes they have magic powers, one of her brothers thinks he can control the weather, its so bad that when ever its a nice day they thank him, they ask their house for power to help ward off evil spirits and same with their trailer, now im good for letting people believe what they want to, but this seems a little extreme, we've been going out for over a year now, and ive asked her to prove it to me that she can do magical things, but apparenly you can only see the powers if you have powers yourself, also they beleive that their witchy ancestors had St. Patric (yes as in St. Patrics day) and his mom as slaves and then he revolted against them and nearly killed them all, the problem is, is that it bothers me every time she brings it up and i told her how i feel and she just gets defensive and mad about it, and im not sure what to do.

2007-07-30 10:49:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating