Family & Relationships - 30 July 2007

why lie to your kids and then tell them not to lie to you. Seriouly why do parents lie.

2007-07-30 10:11:26 · 6 answers · asked by beautifull103087 3 in Family

2007-07-30 10:08:39 · 13 answers · asked by Abi 1 in Friends

then by accident you heard them slip out a fart. What would you do? Would you walk off and leave? or would you act like you did not hear it? or laugh at them? and what if others around you saw your date aNDheard your date fart loud....how embarrassed would you be?

2007-07-30 10:07:23 · 22 answers · asked by NEWPORT BEACH GIRL 4 in Singles & Dating

When I was in kindergarten, during show-and-tell, I told everyone my mother had died. I went into detail as to having found her on the floor etc. I can remember my teacher asking me if maybe she wasn't asleep and I told her no, they took my mom away in an abulance. Well, my dad worked with a guy who had a son in my class. He heard from his son that my mother had passed on and came over the next afternoon to give dad his condolences. Think of his surprise when my mom answered the door. I guess according to mom, he had a very strange look on his face and asked to see my dad. Why would I ever make up a story like that???? What is the biggest lie you told as a child?

2007-07-30 10:04:40 · 7 answers · asked by 4532 3 in Family

My brother has been living with my mom for a year, not paying a dime, not buying food, and he's even stolen from her to buy things for his estranged wife. He borrowed money swearing it was for his child, yet used it to buy some woman dinner! His wife abandoned her kids 6 weeks ago and moved away to "greener pastures". They are still married, have an 8 year old kid, and now I found out my brother is DATING this other woman who has kids.
I said "You shouldn't date until you're divorced. Either be married, or file divorce papers. Pick one!"
He said boo hoo I'm so lonely boo hoo but yet has made no move to file for a divorce.

I think that's just wrong. Am I old fashioned, or is he just doing yet another bone-headed move, avoiding reality?

And what kind of woman would date a married man who steals from his mother, doesn't have a home, and refuses to file for divorce to avoid his wife's psychotic rage?

2007-07-30 10:04:15 · 24 answers · asked by Sabine É 6 in Marriage & Divorce

here is my problem me and my husband have been married for a little over 4 months and sex is all I can think but he wont give it to me but once a week normally and I cant handle that all I think about is sex he knows I am in my prime and we are trying to have a baby but he just refuses to have sex with me more then that and it is always on the weekends. To have sex during the week I would practically have to take advantage of him. I think about sex all day and night he tells me that I am beautiful and sexy he makes me think he wants it then I get shut down once we are in bed he has even turned down all of my advances even the blunt ones that say hey this is what i would like he once told me that he felt that was all I wanted from so I started being more romantic and that didnt change anything I get I am stressed and I am tired what if the kid hears us but it doesnt change when the kid isnt around SOME PLEASE HELP this is causeing alot of problems for me emotionally and in the marrage

2007-07-30 10:03:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For personal family reasons we have to up the date - and not a cent saved for this! So now, What do I do? Where do I start? HELP!

Need a nice cheap - cheap - cheap wedding.... and have until October 20th of 2007!

2007-07-30 10:02:34 · 16 answers · asked by indiansbearsandangels 3 in Weddings

I broke up with him because he told me he had to girlfriend and i said he had to break up with one of us and he said he dont want to so i said it was over! Im crying and i dont know how to deal with it and how should i get over it! I wanted to go with his friend but i dont know how to hook up with him???? I need help

2007-07-30 10:02:27 · 5 answers · asked by Titishana 2 in Singles & Dating

What is stronger - the compulsion to have children or the desire to stay with someone you are in love with? Would you sacrifice the chance to have children for a partner that didn't want kids? And would you settle for less with somebody else, because they want children as much as you?

2007-07-30 10:01:26 · 47 answers · asked by ladywotlunches 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 2 close friends from college. Friend A lives near me and is very close to me. Friend B is another state and we have drifted apart somewhat, but I still consider her a very close friend. For ease of planning, I asked Friend A to be my MOH and Friend B to be a bridesmaid. Friend B says she understands why I would I would pick Friend A to be my MOH, but has turned down my invitation and refuses to be a bridesmaid. She says her pride is hurt. What do I do? I really want Friend A to be my MOH.

2007-07-30 10:00:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i'm looking forward to go to california to search for my dream girls as they said u can find her their

2007-07-30 09:59:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay this is pretty stupid but you win if you answer this question first. I just wanted to see how fast someone could answer it. [:

2007-07-30 09:59:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently moved to San Francisco so I don't really know anyone and the past few weekends I've been going to singles bars to meet people. I'm pretty shy in these types of social settings, so I usually just sit there by myself sipping a drink. Is this ugly? If you saw me sitting in a bar by myself what would you think?

2007-07-30 09:56:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you do to make sure you have fun when that happens?

2007-07-30 09:56:39 · 17 answers · asked by #1 wifey 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my boyfriend for a while & i trust him, & he says he trust me, but i'm having a dilema here, because he has a friend, a girl friend, whom he's known for years, thing that bothers me, is that every Sunday, i dont get to hang out with him cause its their day to hang out. & i've hung out with them before, but she ends up leaving right away and it just feels really weird & he gets kind of quiet. now he doesnt tell me till after they hang out. *note: this girl just got out of a breakup with HER boyfriend.
so now i have a guy friend (guy B) who is saying we should hang out. thing is, he tried to get with me before me & my guy got together. and my guy knows, him & i were watching tv the other day and guy B was wrestling(they're both pro.wrestlers, only guy B is younger than my guy, & wrestles on WWE @ times) & we talked about it.
so point is, to give my boyfriend a taste of his own medicine, i'm planning to hang out with guy B this week. is it a terrible mistake??? thanks!

2007-07-30 09:56:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I want my boyfriend sooo bad. I mean not just sex, I just want him to hold me and tell me how much he loves me and stuff.
But this morning the first thing out of his mouth was he doesnt like it that Im horny all the time.
And now Im scared he isnt attracted to me anymore. I mean, most guys would love waking up to their girlfriend playing with themselves.. right?
How do I make myself not want him all the time or not even want him to hold me. I think its ruining our relationship.

2007-07-30 09:55:35 · 5 answers · asked by steph 2 in Singles & Dating

She has known this guy for a while now (5-6 years). They have never dated but according to him and her there has always been an unspoken understanding between them. I have come across some of their past dialogue and it appears that he has stated on more than one occasion that 'what they have has no expiration date.' I finally met him about 6 weeks ago and to say that there was an uneasiness on his part would be grossly understating the situation. He failed to make consistent eye contact with me and remained very distant with my girlfriend and I. She later commented on the fact that she believed he was uneasy also. My issue stems from the fact that she still has this past dialogue (with him)archived in her email. Does that mean that until she feels we're going further,(in a relationship) she'll continue to hold onto that possibility of life with him?

2007-07-30 09:53:47 · 3 answers · asked by Lee 1 in Singles & Dating

still can't seem to let her into my heart. I was hurt by my first love and to this point this was 8 years ago i am still not able to let her see my softside or be all lovey dovey with her, i put up this macho front and i don't know why or how to get rid of this i so badly don't want to be like this but i have been doing it so long i have forgotten how to open up and be more of myself to share my emotions and my softer side with her. Please help me!

2007-07-30 09:52:22 · 6 answers · asked by imatrickha 1 in Family

I go to an alternative school and my dad calls it the reject school and it makes me feel like I am not worth nothing and it hurts really bad.. I used to be an A student and then things at home went down hill and my grades slipped for a year and a half and I was a d- average and after I went to the alternative school I started getting A's I am an A student now and my mom congradulated me and my dad didnt say anything supportive at all when he saw my report card... He never says anything supportive about my school and I feel like I'm not even his daughter, how do I cope with this and or change it?

2007-07-30 09:49:58 · 20 answers · asked by Stefanie 1 in Family

well i was dating this girl and one reason we broke up is b/c we're 2 dif religions. so does anyone know b/c they have dont it or anything...but could it work still...i mean what will our children be, and i believe dif then she does so what ? i dont think it would work RIGHT? i really love her but i dont think its possible is it? if so i would really like to know really .....any help please...shes catholic and i'm apostalic...completely dif...

2007-07-30 09:48:31 · 18 answers · asked by Dan The Man 2 in Weddings

I just sold a couple of shirts on ebay and the method I chose to ship out the items is Parcel Post. This is my first time so I have no clue what to do. What kind of box do I use? Where do I buy this box? What about the labeling? I don't have a label printer so I would have to go to the USPS office.

Please tell me everything you know. Thanks!

2007-07-30 09:46:20 · 6 answers · asked by Mila 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

whatever that is

2007-07-30 09:46:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

give a wedding present?

2007-07-30 09:45:37 · 13 answers · asked by **** 1 in Weddings

Staying separately, miles away from the disneyland park and buying ticket for the disneyland park or within the disneyland resort and getting the tickets..... especially when your visiting paris just to see and go to disneyland.....

Please help asap....

2007-07-30 09:44:55 · 9 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Friends

If a child grew up while his/her parents got divorced, would that child be less likely to divorce once that child became an adult and got married?

2007-07-30 09:44:24 · 41 answers · asked by Derek 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There are certain words and subjects that will end a date for me... like "prison, restraining order, talk of addictions, extensive talk of ex-girlfriends... etc etc". Not that I have heard any talk of prison or what not - thankfully I have not... but it surprises me when people don't see warning signs like this early on... so what do you consider a warning sign? What are your no -no words or phrases?

2007-07-30 09:44:19 · 17 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone.

I live in an apartment and have a lady with her two young children living above us (one is 2, the other about 5). I hear her screaming at them at all hours, and have also heard her threaten to hit them. A little while ago I heard the youngest one was screaming his lungs out in pain, and the mother was telling him to shut up. My Step-Dad is considering talking to her, the landlord or maybe reporting her to child services, but I don't know if it's our place to. We haven't physically seen her hit them, but have heard her threaten and them cry. I really don't know what to do as I have never been in this situation before.

Any help, advice or stories are greatly appreciated!

2007-07-30 09:43:07 · 8 answers · asked by LXC 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had an Australian friend in highschool as he was an exchange student. Very nice guy and the ladies loved him. What do Australians think of us? Oh and if your from Australia do you guys like Fosters beer?

2007-07-30 09:42:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is it wrong if i get aroused by fornicating in public places ????

2007-07-30 09:42:35 · 3 answers · asked by Ari jay 2 in Singles & Dating

plz help i am starting high school and my weight matters to me i am 13 i weigh 132 and i am 5'6 i think i am fat but people say i am over reacting what is a health weight for me? should i lose weight? and when i go shopping i only wish i could fit in a size 5 plz help what should i do to lose my butt

2007-07-30 09:41:32 · 14 answers · asked by Vanessa 2 in Friends