I've been with my boyfriend for a while & i trust him, & he says he trust me, but i'm having a dilema here, because he has a friend, a girl friend, whom he's known for years, thing that bothers me, is that every Sunday, i dont get to hang out with him cause its their day to hang out. & i've hung out with them before, but she ends up leaving right away and it just feels really weird & he gets kind of quiet. now he doesnt tell me till after they hang out. *note: this girl just got out of a breakup with HER boyfriend.
so now i have a guy friend (guy B) who is saying we should hang out. thing is, he tried to get with me before me & my guy got together. and my guy knows, him & i were watching tv the other day and guy B was wrestling(they're both pro.wrestlers, only guy B is younger than my guy, & wrestles on WWE @ times) & we talked about it.
so point is, to give my boyfriend a taste of his own medicine, i'm planning to hang out with guy B this week. is it a terrible mistake??? thanks!
2007-07-30 09:56:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hell no!!!!!!!! Girl let him know what it feels like to be treated like that, and if he doesnt like that then thats his problem. but wait............. WWE????????
2007-07-30 10:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are doing it because the guy is your friend and you enjoy his company, there is nothing wrong with it. If you are doing it to make your boyfriend jealous, you run the risk of losing the boyfriend (by pi**ing him off), and the friend (by giving him the wrong impression).
Is it worth losing everything just because you are jealous?
2007-07-30 17:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMHO, it's wrong...you're not simply using Guy B, but using him to alienate Guy A. How can this be a good idea?
You very well may end up losing both of them!
2007-07-30 17:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ok if you can't tell guy A that him hanging out with his "friend girl" makes you uncomfortable than you shouldn't be trying to "get revenge" I think you should tell him that he needs to tell you when he hangs out with her and there's nothing wrong with asking what they did just as long as you're not like "...and then what happened? ...and then what happened? but if you have a friend that's a guy and you want to hang out with him than do it. but this old crush dude (guy B) seems kinda creepy and not safe to hang out with if you want to remain faithful to Guy A (your boyfriend.)
2007-07-30 17:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno because you seem like your being a jelouse girlfriend just bcuz ur bf hangs out with one of his girl ( freinds) so i dont know but if you do just say hun im gonna go hang with #2 and i wont do anything so dont worry hun and then do it just dont to it behind his back because i have a feeling he will get pissed and you will ruin everything at least just make sure to TELL him
2007-07-30 17:01:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a terrible mistake. cuz if he has his day. you should be free to have yours.
2007-07-30 17:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋