Family & Relationships - 30 July 2007

my lease is up in april, my boyfriend stays withme every single night of the week, he has a house. i want to move in with him but do not know how to bring it up. it would make more sense to live together and split the bills since we are together all the time anyway. i dont want to askhim to move in and scare him, and i dont know if he is thinking the same things i am. its like we live together now in seperate residences, we have only been dating a year, but i feel you should know by now if i am someone you would be able to live with. i dont want to bring this up a month a before my lease is up but i dont know when would bea good time. its not like im asking to be married, eventually i would like to be, but that is not what i am asking for now. should i wait for him to bring it up or bring it up myself?

2007-07-30 09:08:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this one kid and hes really nice and he told me he liked me and i told him i liked him too which i did and then 2 weeks later my friend asked him if he still liked me and he siad no and then about 1 and half weeks later he asked me if i would give him head! i dont know what i should do! i still like him please help me!!!!!!!! hes asked me twice within 5 days!

2007-07-30 09:08:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to know if I can do this.....here is my situation---

I got married September of last year. We seperated in November. I am NOW pregnant by my ex (that I got back with), and I am still married. I need a divorce. Can I get it while pregnant? Help me someone!!!!!

2007-07-30 09:05:45 · 4 answers · asked by mommauvtwo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well let me start from the beggining my parents are spliting up, my dads an alcoholic, and in a deep depresion. there was only one day out of my whole life (im 15) that i can remembr where he wasnt drunk. my mom says he was sober for a year, she said we did family things. it was perfect when he wasnt drinkin but he picked it back up. me and my dad always fight because of his drinking he is a violent drunk. well about a month ago me and my dad got into it real bad and he called me a ***** and told my mom to make me leave. this was around 1am. my mom decided after that she was done with him. now i think he blaims me for her leaving him, hes always pushing me away and telling me i never cared before i shouldnt now, well last night he was saying alot of things like hes going to hell, and just pretty much dropin hints he wanted to die. i got worried about him and went to his hide out in the back yard, i found him cuting, there was blood all over... im scared. i just need some advice about

2007-07-30 09:05:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am almost 19 y/o guy and All my friends r turning their backs on me. All my friends even my best friends r turning their backs on me. My two best friends have girlfriends now and just seem to blow me off to hang out with their girlfriends. We r supposed to hang out and they just blow me off wht is going on with my friends. I am sick of how my friends have changed so much. I think it has to do with them having girlfriends, thats why I have never had or never will have a girlfriend, I do not want to turn into them. They have betrayed me and turned on me and I will never do that to friends.

2007-07-30 09:05:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i have been with my bf for 4yrs and we are talking about marriage and went engagement ring shopping . he is a really great guy to me and treats me like a princess. BUT One huge problem is his parents. Curently he works out of state and is home every other weekend, but they want to make him do everything for them. they also try to control his life and what he does. So, our time together is limited. I understand he has to help parents but isnt there a limit?? Anyways i ask him if things are going to change when we get married and i am going to always come first and he said Things have to change right? i was like but will they and he said he didnt know. I mean we will be living in another state when we get married and wont come home often. but should i just deal with things or what?? i mean will things really change when we get married or stay the same or get worse?? i know i should talk to him but would like any advice anyone you guys could give me

2007-07-30 09:03:49 · 15 answers · asked by davidslilprincess 2 in Weddings

What is it what attracts you?
Guys and Girls

I have a smell and voice.

2007-07-30 09:03:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok,i'm 16 and I'm a virgin! i have been with my boyfriend(19) for about one year.He's not a virgin and wants me to have sex with him.My first problem is my family,if they found out they would kill me because it not ok with my culture! My friends told me just do it,and nobody will know but I'm so scared ,I know its gonna be so painful for the first time and it hurts female so much ! I dont want to loose my boyfriend cause I do love him and I think its time to do it now! Most of the girls in our school are having sex , So I was wondering why cant i have sex with my bf?!? What should I do? I really want to be happy with my boy but my parents do not let me :( Can I trust my friends and just loose it?!?

Thanks for ur advices~

2007-07-30 09:02:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's a typical girly girl.

2007-07-30 09:02:06 · 16 answers · asked by questiny!! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why r people so mean to people that work in the public,. like cashiers, or tellamarketers? don't they know that we are just people trying to make a living like everyone else.

2007-07-30 09:00:55 · 18 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he told me he loved me and i was the best girlfriend he had ever had...right before he broke up with me. he said he just got tired of me and maybe in a couple of months we could go back out. a week later he said he couldnt stop thinking about me. and of course it was the same for me.do u think he really likes me and how do i get him back. its really sad but i still love him.

2007-07-30 09:00:48 · 5 answers · asked by Stephanie H 1 in Singles & Dating

That’s a statement, not a question

2007-07-30 08:59:14 · 27 answers · asked by Mr Brightside 1 in Singles & Dating

I had my birthday about 3 months ago. My boyfriend of 9 months didn't get me anything. when he said he was low on cash and should have me a present by my party i said whatever i'm just pumped for my party. At my party i never got anything from him. i talked to one of his best friends about it who happens to be one of my good friends too. He said that my boyfriend had talked to him about it and said he felt really bad because he really wanted to get me something nice, but didn't have any money. He also doesn't have a job but gets about $20 a week. I never talked to him about it and never really let it bother me that much. Then i saw one of my friends boyfriends get her a really nice ring for her birthday i it all came to me that the stuff that he has got me has been really cheap and not seemed to have alot of thought in it. We have never had a fight and i'd rather not bring it up to him and start something. I still really ignored and angry with him, but i just don't know what to do.

2007-07-30 08:58:45 · 5 answers · asked by kristen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What should I do?

2007-07-30 08:58:45 · 8 answers · asked by sugarplum 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 08:58:44 · 2 answers · asked by YaYa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He is a teacher at St. Rita, and a DJ.

2007-07-30 08:58:16 · 3 answers · asked by smitty.0579 1 in Weddings

2007-07-30 08:57:57 · 1 answers · asked by 408 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes, jokingly, my Fiance has said things that have hurt me. I know for sure they most likely stem from my own insecurities, you know? Its nothing about my appearance, or anything like that. More about my own personal beliefs, and he may crack a joke, and it hurts. He doesnt mean it to hurt, and I know that if we arent communicating, I can take what he says wrong, and he may say something that will strike a nerve not knowing one was there. But I am wondering, how can I explain to him that his comment has hurt me, or bothered me, without making him feel bad? It was really an honest mistake, and like I said, I am partly to blame, but do you have any suggestions on how to bring up something, without alienating him or hurting him?

2007-07-30 08:57:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Need to make a dream come true for five kids?

2007-07-30 08:52:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

she likes woman and men!!!

2007-07-30 08:51:59 · 38 answers · asked by xღ♥ღx---Rachel---xღ♥ღx 1 in Friends

Just want some opinions.....

My ex husband and I realized one day that we were better friends than husband and wife. It wasn't exactly that simple but ultimately that is what it has come to. He and I have a very good and close relationship. He and I were married for eight years. He was more of a father to my son than his own real father. Son hated him as a teenager because he tried to father him. Now 21 and grown seems to have a great respect for him. My 13 year old daughter has always loved him.

Ex and I have an 8 year old daughter that will be in the wedding. My parents, My sister-in-law and brother(who are divorced from each other), my aunt and several family members have received invitaions. My aunt sent her repsponse card with my two children listed as coming. She was called by the ex and said it would be best if the kids didn't come. I talked to him about this and this was the wishes of his new bride to be. These kids love him. Why would she have a problem?

2007-07-30 08:51:02 · 13 answers · asked by baadwoman 2 in Weddings

you see, we have these friends and they have 2 sons. one is 2 years older than me and the other one is a little younger than my big sis. so we're all pretty much in each others age ranges. anyhow, we've been seeing them alot for the past 2-3 weeks and we get along SUPER good. and we invited them last night to our pool and jaccuzzi, which are TINY. and now my dad keeps on asking me if we like them and why we were in such close contact and my mom the same, and we were barely getting to know each other and i was beggining to like their youngest son, when my dad forbids us to see them that often. and now i cant help but cry and now im grounded for something we didnt do and such. and now i hate my stepdad. hes not even so friendly. and so my mom is always starting to talk about their son to me and that im too little for hell knows what and such when we were merely enjoying the night! what do i do to get all this anger and sadness out of me. i cant keep living like this and im not doing any

2007-07-30 08:48:06 · 1 answers · asked by CollegeObsessed<3 3 in Family

i mean iam young(around 16!) and i barley kno any country boys as really great friends, plus none that i kno really like me. so my q is
what is the best way to introduce myself?

how can you tell that they are a true country boy?
lets say that i see a country boy that i like at a fair. how do i introduce myself, so that i get to kno him betta?
how do i ask for his #?
should i ask for his #?
should i act real girly?
should i act like a total country girl? like i am.
should i act really intelligent?
how can i tell if he likes me to?
are most of them shy?
plz help me.

2007-07-30 08:48:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hello again, I have a question that I have heard the answer one sided I wanted to know if there was anymore opinions before I make a decision... This is the problem my husband & I have been together for ten years. I am the giver of the relationship & he is the taker. With ten years under our belt you would think that things would be different but they are not. I recently had to give him an ultimatum quit drinking or sign divorce papers. Now I am not one to give this choice but I am tired of the side effects of his drinking meaning he gets very violent towards me. I have come to the point in my life that I am tired of letting this go on. What I mean is that I am tired of fighting with a drunk & I am tired of being man handled as you call it. 10 years is enough. Now I love my husband and he is not like this all the time only when he is drunk. I have given everything up in our life for him because of our relationship. Now he has to make the decision if he is going to give it up, right?

2007-07-30 08:47:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want you help me in my life.

2007-07-30 08:46:36 · 9 answers · asked by cobra_love_forever 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-30 08:46:09 · 47 answers · asked by Andrea 2 in Friends

If one is getting married what are you wanting to pay for nice pictures?

2007-07-30 08:45:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-30 08:40:55 · 11 answers · asked by can_i_have_a_snack 3 in Family

need some ideas, I am tired of the routine.thanks in advance!

2007-07-30 08:38:14 · 2 answers · asked by Canela 3 in Singles & Dating

it hurts

2007-07-30 08:38:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships