she likes woman and men!!!
2007-07-30 08:51:59 · 38 answers · asked by xღ♥ღx---Rachel---xღ♥ღx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
time for some new friends
2007-07-30 08:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try to be as supportive as possible. If you need some time to process the change, let her know that you are still her friend and will support her, but you're surprised. When you feel prepared, talk with her and let her know that you will still be her friend. It may be strange at first, but she is not any different than before and she will need friends and family to stand by her. She may need to talk to you about her experiences. Is that alright with you? If so, let her know.
My lifelong best friend is bisexual and we had some problems at first because she would go on in graphic detail about her interactions with women. I didn't have a problem with it because it was between two women, but just because it was too much information from a friend (heterosexual or not). She kept doing it after I asked her to stop and so I just started going into detail about men I'd been with. It got her to stop pretty quickly! :) Otherwise, it hasn't been a problem. She's still my friend. It's a good lesson in tolerance of others.
Good luck. :)
2007-07-30 09:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by arwen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the right word for that is bisexual, not bio. But anyway, your friend should still be the same old person they always were before as far as their personality goes. Being bisexual is something that should only effect her in her sex life. You're not afraid of her coming on to you are you? If you are, then you should just tell her that you are not bisexual but would like to remain her friend as always. Let her know that you might not want to hear about her bisexual affairs but want to keep your friendship going. There are lots of girls and guys in the world who also like women and men. It has become a normal everyday way of life. It will only effect you if you allow it to. Don't be afraid of her. If she knows how you feel about it, she should respect your wishes. Hang in there! It'll be alright!
2007-07-30 09:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. It's really not that big of a deal, nor does it really affect you that much. Just say, "cool" and go on the way you've always acted with your friend. And it's not BIOsexual - it's just BIsexual.
2007-07-30 08:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like if shes biosexual she attracted to Science as well
2007-07-30 08:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by Lewis T 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you're a a dude EXCELLENT. ..im joking.. Your're friend's sexual orientation has nothing to do with you ..unless they are approaching you ..flirtatious I would keep that to myself personally BUT when a friend is a friend ..you continue being a friend. Even if you don't like their decision on the matter ..you still be a friend.. You never know when someone is confused about things and may turn to you for help.
2007-07-30 09:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jackofalltrades216 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me. Between you two nothing has changed. She is still the same person she was before. Her preference has changed. I had to talk to my friend about how i didn't like women like that but i valued her friendship. As long as she didn't hit on me everything was good. We were friends for many more years to come till we moved away. Let her know you value the friendship..if you do.
2007-07-30 08:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by jade2311 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because your friend has decided that she is bisexual does not mean that it is mandatory for you to do the same. So it should not be a big deal. If you are friends, then it should not ruin your friendship. If it bothers you for her to talk about that part of herself, then let her know and she can edit herself when she is around you..
2007-07-30 08:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unless your friend is hitting on you, then its none of your business, and dont need to 'react'. what people do in their bedrooms is their personal business. What goes on behind closed doors, stays behing closed doors. If you feel pressured to participate, and are not comfy with the idea then I'd be concerned. Otherwise your friend hasnt changed, they are just growing into their personal preferences, this one happens to be a sexual one.
2007-07-30 08:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by southamptonkitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bio sexual ? That's a good one. Nobody "turns" bisexual, it is inside them from birth. Some just take awhile to realize or accept it. If you are a real friend, don't react at all. If she hits on you, just tell her that your friendship is more important than a sexual relationship.
2007-07-30 08:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is a true friend you should respect her decision and her path @ which she will be taking. She is still the same person...just likes differnt things than others. Stick by her side. Be a good friend! Good luck!
2007-07-30 08:54:50 · answer #11 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋