Family & Relationships - 30 July 2007

I recently started dating a boy from work about a month ago. He's Mexican and I'm Caucasian. He speaks some English & I speak some Spanish so we make it work when we're together. I go to school 2 hours away and have to go back in a week. We really care for each other and he recently told me he wanted to try to make it work while I'm at school. I do too but we have trouble understanding each other on the phone. We text message each other but I'm afraid that won't be enough to stay close while I'm away. I'll only be able to return about once a month and he'll only be able to visit me about once a month. Any tips on how to remain close despite the distance & cross our language barrier?

2007-07-30 07:58:39 · 4 answers · asked by Erica!! 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend is getting married to this creep next year. The thing is her boyfriend has made passes at her sister since last year. He has done different things to her and she hasnt know how to react. The guy is 30. HELP. How can I tell my friend or should I tell her.

2007-07-30 07:57:03 · 23 answers · asked by J S 1 in Family

mine was i was 13 i was rollerblading home and i was just standing outside my doorway before i went inside and my worst enemy saw me with 2 friends he started cursing at me and came up to me his friend went behind me and grabbed my hands while my enemy took the hose that was on the ground and tried to use it but it didn't work so i saw the opportunity and i kicked the guy holding me with the rollerblades right on his foot then turned around and hit him in the face he went down then i went after the enemy i kind of like speared him and kicked him in the nuts with the rollerblades and then kicked him in the mouth with the rollerblade and he started to bleed. the 3rd guy didn't do anything he just ran away. after that anytime i saw my enemy if i was alone he would jump me with his friends if he was alone i would jump him with mine. it went on for another 2 years until he moved away. i'll never forgot that fight it was one of my greatest physical fights. he was also a bully in school....

2007-07-30 07:52:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 07:52:19 · 26 answers · asked by kelsey s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The stay-at-home Mother of four sons, 11yrs, 9yrs, 5yrs, 3 yrs old, was discussing camp plans with her 11 yr old when a neighbor she didn’t know was at the door with her 3yr old in her arms.
The Mother was mystified, because the 5 and 3 yr old NEVER left the very, large yard before when the two older brothers were home.

The Mother doesn’t do drugs, has been married to the Father of the boys for 13 yrs, helps support her husband with Cub/Boy Scouts, T-Ball, Basketball and Football activities, takes the boys to church, library and various appointments.

CPS came out and told her, “If it happens again the children WILL be taken away!” This was after she had solved the problem using the “Love and Logic” parenting methods and making the yard more secure.

Their sons are ALL BOY and full of energy. She Loves them dearly and does as much or more than anyone else would do to make sure they grow into kind, responsible, and strong men.

Does CPS have the right to remove these boys?

2007-07-30 07:52:08 · 22 answers · asked by lafekken_9X9 2 in Family

My wedding is coming up in a few more weeks my husband doesnt want kids to go to our reception only kids from our family and anyone kids from anyone that's going to participate in our wedding. I feel bad telling my friends that there are no kids alowed at the reception especially since I have a two year old daughter myself. Do you agree with my husband? How would you tell people in a nice way that there are no kids allowed?

2007-07-30 07:52:00 · 32 answers · asked by pm 3 in Weddings

Should you get married so stupid boys don't flirt with you and touch you, etc?

2007-07-30 07:51:04 · 24 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Is Europe getting to the breaking point of blacks and Muslims refusing to assimilate and changing the white culture in Spain and the rest in Europe.

How is this different with the Mexicans here in America refusing to assimilate?

Is a race war coming?

2007-07-30 07:49:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Heres the situation. I'm 26 female and hes 25. We met on eharmony back in april. He lives an hour and 45mins away from me. We've been on three dates. Talk, and text eachother throughout our day. He wants to move fast and I dont. He gets annoyed when I cant meet up with him because I have errands and stuff to do after work, and thats a far drive to do after 5pm. I'm not ready for sex with him yet. It seems so difficult already. I think hes awesome and cute and funny and handsome. We click when we talk, he lets me know everything hes thinking. I'm having issues with him living far away from me. I havent told him that. Just seems we cant be a normal couple if he lives an hour and 45 mins away from me. I'm guarded with my feelings still with him. My question to u is what should I do, and what do you think i'm doing??

2007-07-30 07:47:47 · 6 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 07:47:05 · 11 answers · asked by dynamic1980 1 in Singles & Dating

A few days ago I wrote to get advice about a man who just will not leave me alone.Thank you for the advice.?
OHHHHH! He is making me crazy and sad.Please take a peek at my question from a few days ago.I didnt have enough room to write everything here.Here are some of the things that he says to me when I break up with him.What do you think?:

Why won't you let me be your boyfriend? Why don't you want me, like I want you? Why won't you be my girlfriend? I don't understand. I just want you to want me. I just want you to touch me, to hug me, to kiss me....I just want to be with you. Why won't you let me be your boyfriend?

Why can't I ever be happy? What am I doing wrong? Why do I always have to be alone? I don't understand. What's wrong with me? Why won't you be with me? I'm so sad. I'm so very sad & alone. And you won't be with me. No one will.

I tried so hard. I really tried to be your boyfriend. I tried to be good to you. As good as I can be & I don't know what I'm doing wrong.

Sonya, I'm so alone all the time. I don't want to be alone anymore. Why won't you be my girlfriend? Why can't we be happy together? I don't know what to do anymore. I'm trying so hard to be a good man. I don't know how to be better.

I wish you'd come back to me.

With love,
Kevin

2007-07-30 07:46:47 · 3 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My son is 15 yr old, his dad, my boyfriend at that time forced sex on me against my will and I got pregnant 15 years ago. After 2 yrs we split up but I still let my son see his dad. His dad has done other terrible things to me and was a drug user but I still would let him see his son. The dad has left me alone for years and doesn't give me a hard time. He calls my home to speak with our son and comes to pick him up and brings him back. They go fishing, holidays or work.
Now my present boyfriend doesn't want my son to be around him because of the things that happened in the past. He doen't want him near or in my home to see his son. He doesn't want me to speak to him. I feel all is in the past and it is best to get along with his dad for my son's sake. I don't want him to be mad at me later in life for not letting him see his dad. Am I doing the wrong thing?

2007-07-30 07:45:35 · 25 answers · asked by magee 1 in Family

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and our relationship has been good but now it is falling apart slowly, we don't even have any romance maybe once every two weeks, the love isn't there anymore and we rarely communicate and sure don't go places anymore, it isn't him that is the problem it is me, it is like my interest in him have faded away. On the other hand I met this guy from the internet that I am truly interest in but one thing about him he is not ready for a relationship, he is a laid back person just chilling and taking his time, we see each other every now and then. I have to continously bother him by calling him and texting him just to come over to see him and when i text him things that surely not related to sex he will not respond. If I text him regarding doing romantic things he will respond in no time. Am I just wasting my time? Do he seems like he is just trying to get and easy piece of you know what? What would you do if you were in my shoes?

2007-07-30 07:44:29 · 12 answers · asked by BabyGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

It's just an arbitrary number, but what do you think about people who have extremely large families?

2007-07-30 07:41:57 · 25 answers · asked by J F 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

One of my male friends said....and I quote....."I will never commit to any woman. I will be single forever". Well, he just called me and told me that he now has a girlfriend. I'm happy for him, but I'm jealous in the same sense. Now, out of all my friends, I am the only single one! I'm 26 and I've never been in a long term relationship. I'm starting to think that there is something wrong with me. This can't be normal! I'm not as picky as I used to be, but I think that I should be somewhat choosy when it comes to potential boyfriends. As long as they approach me respectfully, I will give any man who approaches me a chance unless they are way older than me, or the same height as me. I feel like a loser. Does anyone have anything positive to say to me to make me feel better? What can I do other than wear a shirt that says "I'm single!"??? I don't want to be single anymore!

2007-07-30 07:40:54 · 4 answers · asked by Nicky 2 in Singles & Dating

How can i become a good kisser??? do you have tips i can use when kissing??? please respond!!!!!

2007-07-30 07:40:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how many people think that there are good guys out there who will take care of a womans kids and raise them even though he isnt their biological father?

2007-07-30 07:39:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-30 07:35:22 · 24 answers · asked by bigern 1 in Marriage & Divorce

WHY can't it be the other way around ?! women fought HOW LONG for equal rights ??? EXCERSISE THEM ! ! !

2007-07-30 07:35:14 · 7 answers · asked by Provocative 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 07:34:19 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ Try to ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I appreciate honest answers from women out there. I have been married for 6 months and I am not happy. I brokeup with my boyfriend of 4 years 1 year ago (it was never official, things just kind of fizzled), then reconnected with an old friend and we married 6 months later. I guess it is a rebound, I don't know. Well, my husband is a great guy and does everything to try to make me happy, but I am not. I only think about my ex all the time, I miss him too much, feel bad for how things ended (as we never really officially ended things) and love him dearly.

I wish most of the time I wasn't married so I can go be with my ex and marry him instead. I know he was so heartbroken when I got married and became very depressed.

Now that it has been 6 months that I am married, I ask you will I become happy? So far I am not? I am sad. Will this change?
Should I get divorced, I am so confused....

2007-07-30 07:34:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i heard from many people that americans treat people from kuwait as terrorists

2007-07-30 07:32:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a guy puts his arm over you while u were walking. how would that make you feel? would it get you mad? will you push away?
answer honestly plz.

2007-07-30 07:32:08 · 42 answers · asked by GOW insane 2 in Singles & Dating

i always wanted to be a doctor. i'v got admission in med school that is 1 and a half hour drive from my home...so i have to live in a dorm...and i am not happy :(
god had given me the perfect opportunity but i am always depressed and sad. i can meet my boyfrend. its like i am living in hell :(
i dont know wat to do
i know i sound stupid but i feel soo unhappy ...cant even concentrate on my studies...my whole life is just falling apart !

2007-07-30 07:31:55 · 5 answers · asked by Sidu 4 in Singles & Dating

....and the check wasn't signed? Would you send it back with a thank you note? Would you just tear it up and still send a thank you note? Would you call them and ask what they want you to do?

2007-07-30 07:30:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Have you ever felt a little attracted to him? Is that normal?

2007-07-30 07:29:38 · 16 answers · asked by Biker Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

ok me and this boy started out as the best of friends in september and at the beginning he hated me and i just dnt no y, he hates my guts, wont talk to me but he looks at me through english, geography, and in history he comes and sits on sam's chair, sam sits next to me. and i just dnt no wot to do. oh he sits on sam.

2007-07-30 07:29:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 07:29:10 · 1 answers · asked by somalika 1 in Singles & Dating

I have known this girl for quite some time, we have never dated but we have been very close, a while back she was raped by someone of a popular family in the town, nobody believed her, i stuck with her as the whole town hated her, and eventually me too. We stuck together for a long time, we loved each other immensely, but recently when i confronted her that I loved her more then just friends, she didn't feel the same way now it hurts to see her, or hear her voice, she still wants to be friends, but the way I see it i have two choices:

1. Cut off all comunications with her, in an attempt to get over her, even though I love her...

or

2. Keep in touch with her as a constant reminder that I failed to win her love...

Any advice would be helpful, and i mean ANY...

2007-07-30 07:29:08 · 2 answers · asked by Gordon P 1 in Singles & Dating

so im going away for the weekend with my boyfriend. We have been going out for 6 months now i love him and he love me.. he is a caring person attentive with me and he does not pressure me about sex... i was the one that mention it.. i am 20 and he is 22... so my question is 20 old enough to have sex.... i believe that i am ready but the only thing that is keeping me form having sex is the chances of me getting pregnant i have looked up different types on contraceptives but im still a little scare... any advice or anything....... i am not a person that believe that you should have sex until u are married..

please only serious answers
no if you are asking this question then you are not ready please none of that


10 points for the best answer possible...

thank you...

2007-07-30 07:26:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating