Heres the situation. I'm 26 female and hes 25. We met on eharmony back in april. He lives an hour and 45mins away from me. We've been on three dates. Talk, and text eachother throughout our day. He wants to move fast and I dont. He gets annoyed when I cant meet up with him because I have errands and stuff to do after work, and thats a far drive to do after 5pm. I'm not ready for sex with him yet. It seems so difficult already. I think hes awesome and cute and funny and handsome. We click when we talk, he lets me know everything hes thinking. I'm having issues with him living far away from me. I havent told him that. Just seems we cant be a normal couple if he lives an hour and 45 mins away from me. I'm guarded with my feelings still with him. My question to u is what should I do, and what do you think i'm doing??
2007-07-30 07:47:47 · 6 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him too SLOOOOWW DOWN!
u dont want to move fast and u shouldnt be pressured into doing that.
let him know that and if he likes u enough, he will except that and wait for you.
and u could tell him to come down and see u sometimes, u dont always have to be the one wasting the gas LOL.
and long distance relationships can work. just look at some couples in college. they dont nesseciarlly go to the same school, but they will travel the distance because seeing the person makes it all worth it.
just ask yourself, is he worth the hassel. and if the answer is yes, then stick with him.
2007-07-30 07:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by anysportzchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest meeting a guy in an everyday situation. Go out and explore the world. Don't find someone online and think that he's great. The truth is that there will alwayse be someone better for you than the one your with. So if your not 100%, keep looking.
2007-07-30 14:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Michael S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all may be going good, but watch the little flags, If he's getting pissy about little things like you can't show up, when you got things that need to be done, what about some bigger things, how will he re-act? I mean, I hope it's all good, But just take the time you need, if only to see how his true personality comes out. If your meant to be, why rush anything? People need to take a little more time before they jump into serious relationships.
2007-07-30 14:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: move on. He is just a player... a charming, cute, fun player, but a player. The test is simple, keep doing what you are doing, but no sex and see if he hangs around. Bet you he doesn't.
2007-07-30 14:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really click, and he does make conversation with you, then you should just keep it where it's going. Try to make him understand that you want things slower. If he doesn't understand it just say I'm sorry I can't be with you.
2007-07-30 14:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by Samson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to slow down. maybe ask him if he can get a hotel stay for a week to see you. or, vice versa
2007-07-30 14:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by Sabrina Devareoux 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋