My friend is getting married to this creep next year. The thing is her boyfriend has made passes at her sister since last year. He has done different things to her and she hasnt know how to react. The guy is 30. HELP. How can I tell my friend or should I tell her.
2007-07-30 07:57:03 · 23 answers · asked by J S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You girls really need to go and tell your friend who is getting married!!!1 Beleive me, you think marriage is a commitment for life! you know this guy is NOT committed, and just imagine if he is doing this to her sister then who else is he doing this to? The single most important thing you EVER DO is tell her. You cannot let her marry and trust this man with her life? No you can;t!!!!!!!!!Just imagine if she gets pregnant you know he will be out cheating on her and beleive me serious flirting is really really bad it is IT IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 Why don;t you sit down with this girl and her and you and her mother and the girl who is getting married? I think you guys could ask event their mother , and tell her what is going on.. You wouldn;t want to marry someone who is flirting and trying to get with a 15 year old, especially the sister of the girl he is supposed to marry. Think if you dont say anything, they get married she gets pregnant and he ends up having an affiar and leaving her after a number of years, She has the right to know and make her own decision if she wants to marry him or not she might still decide to marry him even after you tell her but your conscience would be clear, and she would know and be able to make her own choice whether she wants to gamble her entire life on a creeepy *****. If he is this bold to do this i really think he might end up raping the 15 year old sister or force himself on her and that is really really bad you know/? You are asking this quesiton on here becayse tou already know what to do right DO THE RIGHT THING SHE REALLY REALLY HAS TO KNOW I KNOW I WOULD WANT TO ......... i would be devastated but she has a right to have someone who will commit their whole heart and life to her and beleive me there is someone else for her NOT HIM. pLEASE WRITE IN AND LET US KNOW WHAT HAPPENS i KNOW your friend will be hurt but this is the best thing good luck
2007-08-04 16:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by babymalai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her older sister now. If he marries her this could go on for years and this man could take advantage of the little sis and maybe even rape her. He sounds like a real creep.
If she wont listen to you tell the police what is going on. They will at least have a talk with him and scare him maybe. If your friend does not feel safe and no one listens remember she can always tell the police.
2007-07-30 08:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If her sister isn't saying anything, you need to tell her to open her mouth. Otherwise, your freinds deserves the creep she's marrying. Unless you get to be a bridesmaid. When the Priest/Pastor says "does anyone have cause whey they should not marry speak now or forever hold your peace." That's when you step up, smack the guy had with you hand flat to leave a big red hand mark.
2007-07-30 11:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her she could be marrying a pedophile. That's what he
is messing around with her 15 year old sister. I suggest that you talk to
the girl and then go with her to talk to her parents. They will not put up
with that. Tell the 15 year old she does not have to put up with that. At that
age it is scary as you don't know what to do. It is time for your friend to
know and her parents. This girl could wind up pregnant or worse. You
aren't doing your friend any favours keeping this to yourself. Good luck
as you are between a rock and a hard place. x
2007-08-07 00:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her right away and be sure you have proof of it because when someone is in love they can't see what is happening in front of them because if you tell her she might not belive you because the only thing the guy is going to do is denie it and say your makeing this up so get proof because if you don't you might lose your friend to that creep.
2007-07-30 08:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by .:Wanda:. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How does the female experience approximately it? At 15 one might desire to ask your self no count number if she's in place to make her own judgements. If she knew what she became doing with the guy--e.g. he wasn't forcing her into something, then despite they're doing is consensual and no one's company yet their own. If she desires to tell her sister she will have the skill to. And if her sister is being deceived, nicely she ought to check out the guy she has a similar opinion to marry!
2016-10-01 00:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Warn your friend about this old man trying to molest her sister. This man sould be reported for making passes at a minor child. I f something is not done, this could turn out to be a dangerous situation and your friend will not be happy with this going on.
2007-08-04 16:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. My friend's fiance was hitting on me, and so I told her. She didn't want to believe me, and we lost touch for more than six months. Meanwhile, they got married. He still hits on me when he gets the chance, but I just am very careful not to ever be alone with him.
The truth will always come out...It's a very precarious position to be in. I was loyal to my friend and it cost me dearly. I am fortunate that it worked out in my case, and that she is still my friend. I await the day she figure out that I was telling the truth..but we don't talk about him any more.
2007-07-30 08:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by Deb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! call the police and report yourself as annoymous. That way your in the clear. But seeing an issue to this extent I feel like you are involved and you should do something.
2007-07-30 08:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by it's me again 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you want your friend to avoid telling you something similar?
Yes, it will hurt her to know the truth. But it will hurt her and everyone else in her life if the truth keeps being avoided.
2007-08-06 20:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by Beth Rorie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋