Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and our relationship has been good but now it is falling apart slowly, we don't even have any romance maybe once every two weeks, the love isn't there anymore and we rarely communicate and sure don't go places anymore, it isn't him that is the problem it is me, it is like my interest in him have faded away. On the other hand I met this guy from the internet that I am truly interest in but one thing about him he is not ready for a relationship, he is a laid back person just chilling and taking his time, we see each other every now and then. I have to continously bother him by calling him and texting him just to come over to see him and when i text him things that surely not related to sex he will not respond. If I text him regarding doing romantic things he will respond in no time. Am I just wasting my time? Do he seems like he is just trying to get and easy piece of you know what? What would you do if you were in my shoes?
2007-07-30 07:44:29 · 12 answers · asked by BabyGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know what you should do. Maybe you should dump him.
If I was your boyfriend and knew about this, you're history.
Do him a favor and don't waste his time anymore. Leave him and tell him the honest truth. If your relationship isn't sound. Learn more about relationships before commiting to a long term one.
2007-07-30 07:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by balls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem we have when we're single is that we don't know enough people to have a good selection to choose from. I was either lonely or frustrated with the few girls I liked enough to go out with until I found a good volunteer group that I started working with. About that same time, I started looking for a church I could be comfortable with, and my life started opening up as I met a lot more quality people who had more to talk about than sports, drugs and rock and roll. So try a big church, or start playing the banjo and going to bluegrass festivals.
2007-07-31 03:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by Robbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the Internet guy is just into the sex and no romance...and yes there is a difference. Time to move on, it sounds like you are trying to get excitement back into your life and having two guys like this will not work. If you are not interested in guy one, move on. You are the only one who can make changes in your life, if you want it bad enough you will see for yourself that this is not what you want and get on with finding out what you do want
2007-07-30 14:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by MMMomma C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would go on , and find someone else, There are alot of men out there that are waiting to get with a girl who is serious. I have had similar situations in the past, don't ever rush into any relationship, It never works out for some reason. Good luck !
2007-07-30 21:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of it all, its time to stop draggin your boyfriend along until you find someone better. You guys need to go your separate ways. It's done. Leave it at that. As for this other guy, sounds like all he wants is a piece of a** and nothing more than that. if that is the kind of relationship you want, then go for it. Otherwise you need to just be on your own for awhile and you will find the right one. I wish you the best of luck! :)
2007-07-30 14:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ButterCup♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I were in your shoes, I would ask him.. I know you may be freaking out saying "What is this lady trying to do????" but I would just ask if he feels uncomfortable talking about things related to romance.. If he is, & u r not okay with that, find another man.. and as for your boyfriend, do you think he is feeling the same way about you? Do you think he lost his interest in you? Talk to him about it.. because to me it sounds like as if you guys want to break up.
2007-07-30 14:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by addie-scarlett♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I understand your problem .you & your boyfriend are together from 4 years .I know your love is true.You have to troust your boyfriend first of all. You don't even have any romance with your boyfriend,please do not continously bother your boyfriend.
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2007-07-30 15:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me personally i would leave it alone b/c im in the same situation that u are it its gona bring bad things. If the guy only wants sum that means he'll get sum then be done with u plan and simple.
2007-07-31 15:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by skeeter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have had a boyfriend for four years and no ring or marrage talk. That means that you suck in bed and you one of many that he has.
2007-07-30 14:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by sjr8208 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break it to u
but the love is gone
time to move on
2007-07-30 14:47:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋