Family & Relationships - 30 July 2007

i have diarrhea and the pharmacy in my city is closed for the night. how am i going to sleep?

its hard to control and i am worried that i will mess or ruin the bed since its uncontrollable :(

what should i do to try and prevent ruining the bed?

2007-07-30 10:47:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i've been disappointed when i hear all that divorce and bad marriage stories ,

2007-07-30 10:47:11 · 22 answers · asked by roro 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he was never there for me, my family is never there for me and i feel as though i have no support group at all. my emotions are always bottled up inside. it feels sickening in my heart and stomach. he could care less about me. it also makes me sick that other older people act like my dad is a victim and it makes me look like I was a rebellious child. There is no reason at all for pity on my father. He made millions of dollars and could have cared less about his children. Why are children of deadbeat dads looked down upon?

My dad was worthless to us and people want me to pity someone that does not want to communicate with me and society looks at is as there is something wrong with me. People, he does not care about me. I don't care what you say, he doesn't even answer the phone when I call.

I hate people that don't understand and try to make you look bad.

2007-07-30 10:47:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have two kids, 10 year old boy and 12 year old daughter. The boy is easy, I will get him a suit. The daughter I am a little unsure of.

Obviously a dress would be appropriate, but what color, type etc. She is not in the "bridle party". So I don't need to match it?

At first, I though a white dress, but then I was thinking that is reserved for the bride.

I am divorced so I can't push this off on the wife.

2007-07-30 10:45:31 · 11 answers · asked by bjmarchini 2 in Weddings

I have been wanting to be with a girl lately. I have guy tendencies. I want a cute girl. But I have a boyfriend. And it is no where near his fault. HOW DO I DEAL WITH THIS!!!!

2007-07-30 10:43:31 · 2 answers · asked by Ren 1 in Singles & Dating

my husbands son got a cell phone for christmas he is 13. he was told to never use the internet or text message. he went instead and charged up to 180 bucks on the phone with buying 100 of it in games. the rest went to text and accessing the internet. he purchased from the phone membership for runescape online game. we told him he was getting membership for his birthday next month. also knowing we don't have tons of money he bought 100 bucks in games. our bill was 300 and threw a red flag. now cingular did take off the charges after i called and begged. thank GOD. shouldn't he loose the phone till he is more mature and not use internet game runescape for going behind our back and charging it on our cingular bill. we did not know he still had internet still. we though cingular took it off since the last charge of 60 showed up. so what would you do?

2007-07-30 10:43:18 · 22 answers · asked by trish 3 in Family

Ok so If a friend invites me to do something I almost always end up having fun. Sometimes I dont, because I feel like I dont fit in. Im 16, is it because most of my fiends are like 18 or something? If I feel comfortable Im a very humorous fun outgoing person. But heres the thing. I dont like going anywhere with many of my friends unless I can leave whenever I want to. A life long friend of isnt always nice to me but she is fun and I love her as my friend.shes 19. I dont like to spend the night at my friends. Im uncomfortable spending the night at my 19 year olds house but not my 14 year olds house. Im extremly uncomfertable around boys and men and Ive been hit on, but never abused. I just cant be myself most of the time no matter how hard I try. But I dont talk alot sometimes and arrrrrrrrg.Either from experience or what you think any help would be aprecciated.

2007-07-30 10:43:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How can i get my annoying little brother off my back and leave me alone??!!! He won't go away!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-30 10:40:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

!!! I need some advice please?
Heres the situation. I'm 26 female and hes 25. We met on eharmony back in april. He lives an hour and 45mins away from me. We've been on three dates. Talk, and text eachother throughout our day. He wants to move fast and I dont. He gets annoyed when I cant meet up with him because I have errands and stuff to do after work, and thats a far drive to do after 5pm. I'm not ready for sex with him yet. It seems so difficult already. I think hes awesome and cute and funny and handsome. We click when we talk, he lets me know everything hes thinking. I'm having issues with him living far away from me. I havent told him that. Just seems we cant be a normal couple if he lives an hour and 45 mins away from me. I'm guarded with my feelings still with him. My question to u is what should I do, and what do you think i'm doing??

2007-07-30 10:38:32 · 16 answers · asked by Crazy Heart 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my sister dont know what to think. he hasnt actually done something but all these years he was not the touchy type, then all of the sudden he always wants to hug us, kiss us, make us sit on his lap, and do all these touchy things that he never has done before. and he always looks at us like studies r faces, and stuff. then we recently went to hawaii and when we were in r bathing suits he always tried to look at us. and when we went snorkling im pretty sure he was looking at r butts and its just so wierd how all of the sudden he "wants" us. is it just us or can this be leading to a molestation?

2007-07-30 10:37:41 · 49 answers · asked by ☼mexican chica☼ 1 in Family

I had a first date with a guy on Friday night. Today I received an e-vite to a get-together at his house on Wednesday night.

Should I accept on such short notice? Or should I wait for him to ask me individually? I don't want to come across as desperate or too eager.

2007-07-30 10:34:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my family doesn't have a ton of money and I don't either! I was just thinking about this the other day though because I will probably marry my boyfriend in this next year or at least get engaged in this next year. Where do you come up with all the money though if I don't really have much to save and my parents don't have tons of money? Do you get a loan or what? I mean I don't want a big extravagent wedding. Really just close family and friends. But still it WILL cost some money and I don't know where we would get it from so I just wanted to know what others did becaus I KNOW not everyone has money to throw around with out saving for years!

2007-07-30 10:34:34 · 14 answers · asked by Marissa Marie 2 in Weddings

my sons girl friend, mother of his 2 children, up and left, he
sees one child each two days per week.their ages are nealy 2 and 3 this coming augest. well the youngest has had two burns on his hand in under six months, she said one was caused by her hair striaghtners, which she blamed the children for turning on ,and this weeks one was by an iron that her sister left on. didn't look like an iron burn to me as they where two seperate burns on one finger.. Anyway we have the eldest lad tonight. and his eye is all sore and weepy. and he told my son that mummy burnt his eye. last week when we had him. he noticed a small cut on my sons hand and said ,"daddy sore finger, jack got sore leg", when my son had a look he had 4 marks on the calf of his leg, that were still there when i saw him 3 hours later, when asked , he said his mummy did it. the kids are living in filth with two dogs doing their business all over the house, when my son picks them up, they are never dressed, running round

2007-07-30 10:29:45 · 16 answers · asked by valda54 5 in Family

Well im in a religion that has arranged marriages and well the guy that im with his name is Frank and well theres just not that spark you feel when you kiss them you know so should i tell my parents about this or just marry him?

2007-07-30 10:29:21 · 15 answers · asked by Swedishgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He has very little patience even when sober but zero after a couple of beers. His first reaction to anything is yelling and if drinking - you absolutely cannot argue with him! Well, you can, but you'll never win. Also, he gets very mean and will bring up anything from the past that will hurt me. He acts this way with his kids also but fortunately they are all grown now and away from home. So ... it's just me.
If I walk away from him I can usually calm down but sometimes I get so angry that I feel violent and I have NEVER felt like that before. I realize my reaction is my problem, not his, but I don't know how to deal with him anymore!

2007-07-30 10:29:03 · 7 answers · asked by Susan N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok Guys. Imagine this. You have a partner/married. A much younger girl tells you that she finds it hard not to over step the mark when it comes to you. How does it make you feel? Freaked out, flattered, good about yourself?

2007-07-30 10:28:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

coz i would never say anything like that to her to offend her i know she didnt mean it like that but she needs 2 watch herself coz sum black girls in ma class wanted to buss her ***.

2007-07-30 10:28:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have dated the same guy for almost 7 yrs. I have decided its time to get the perks of a marriage, and he says he will not marry me.
I have decided I am not going to have sex with him anymore if thats the way he feels.
What do you think. Is it me or is it him. Have I just been made a fool of?

2007-07-30 10:26:10 · 25 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

THEY ALWAYS LIE RIGHT TO MY FACE. AND THEYVE DONE IT BEFORE I JUST NEVER DID ANYTHING. i want to leave them but theres no where else to go or other people to hang out with. everyone else i know is weird

2007-07-30 10:25:30 · 9 answers · asked by ...... 2 in Friends

2007-07-30 10:24:51 · 34 answers · asked by tasha w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I decide what I want to spend more money on?

2007-07-30 10:23:19 · 14 answers · asked by chiple 1 in Weddings

My guy and I have been together for a while now and we've been experimenting a bit with different things but I find he can always turn me on really easily and I cant seem to do the same quite as easy. And tips?

2007-07-30 10:21:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 10:21:24 · 5 answers · asked by ma$e 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to get party supplies for my son's birthday and the theme is Pokemon. Let me know where I can get it. I've already asked Party America and they don't carry Pokemon. Thanks!

2007-07-30 10:20:40 · 2 answers · asked by rhonags 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

phisical &mental

2007-07-30 10:19:56 · 4 answers · asked by scandalous51 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend has been married for almost 4 years , she and her husband have 2 children ages 1 and 3 1/2 . Their marriage was going good until about 8 months ago, she said he has become distant, he spends most of his time at work or with their children, she also says when they are alone their is very little communication. She also thinks he is cheating.

She doesn't know what to do. She wants to work it out. But she doesn't know what to say to get them talking.

What should I tell her?

2007-07-30 10:18:55 · 11 answers · asked by nbabmorefan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother is using everything of mine. Including my Computer my PSP and even my Bike. Just recently I came home from a trip to see that my tire's were completely flat most likely of a tear. I also noticed that the seat had been raised on the bike. What should I do this is ridiculous. I've done everything for him and all he does is take advantage. Even when I tell him he can't use my stuff my parents tell me that I am being unreasonable. I also lent him Battlefield 2 recently and he still uses my computer even though I spent a extra $40 for the game. He says that it won't run on his computer as well and it lags. However it works just fine and he still uses my computer to play games and go on the internet even though he has a laptop of his own.

What should I Do!?

2007-07-30 10:16:40 · 8 answers · asked by Eric J 2 in Family

i love him he is 41 so sweet and kind, he cares a lot about me but the problem is that he has got a family. i dont know why he cares a lot about me,
oh god
help me !!

2007-07-30 10:16:33 · 26 answers · asked by hanna 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-30 10:13:41 · 20 answers · asked by Nata 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-30 10:12:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce