Sometimes I want my boyfriend sooo bad. I mean not just sex, I just want him to hold me and tell me how much he loves me and stuff.
But this morning the first thing out of his mouth was he doesnt like it that Im horny all the time.
And now Im scared he isnt attracted to me anymore. I mean, most guys would love waking up to their girlfriend playing with themselves.. right?
How do I make myself not want him all the time or not even want him to hold me. I think its ruining our relationship.
2007-07-30 09:55:35 · 5 answers · asked by steph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't have to change who you are to please him. apparently you two aren't compatible in the physical way. This can cause major problems, now and later!
2007-07-30 09:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a dilemma that is very uncomfortable for both involved. I'm a gay man, and I spent my whole life between 18 and 40, begging for 'some stuff'. I was married "in the legal sense", for two years. I came home one night when I wasn't expected, and found her in bed with another man. I packed some clothes and left them sitting in the bed watching me. (I was in the Navy).
Two days later she came to my ship and told me she wanted me to come home, because I was "the best sex she had ever had".
I told her that I hoped she missed it really bad,because she would never get it again. We were divorced a year later. I still can't figure out why it took so long.
A couple years later, I came out. I've learned a LOT about life since. I understand your feelings. But it makes me think to myself, 'is there anyone else?'
I know you don't want to hear from a gay man, but I'm here to tell you, "IF YOU ARE GETTING IT LESS AND LESS ", there is a good possibility that there is some one else.
You should not come right out and ask him, but if you keep your eyes open, you'll notice a change in short order. If you find this to be the case, get out of that relationship NOW, or at least ASAP. Don't try to hang in there. Find some one you can trust!!!!
2007-07-30 23:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by bigguy3214 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your craving attention sweetheart,i went through the same thing,some guys just cant keep up lol.if you love him you have to respect that,its not because he dosnt find you attractive,he just hasnt got a big affectionare side as you have,talk to him about it,have a heart to heart,
2007-07-30 17:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just keep it down and if you want it too much you can do it privately in your own room
2007-07-30 16:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what the prob is ..i mean i would love it .....you might want to ask him cuz that is weird
2007-07-30 16:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by daniel h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋