She has known this guy for a while now (5-6 years). They have never dated but according to him and her there has always been an unspoken understanding between them. I have come across some of their past dialogue and it appears that he has stated on more than one occasion that 'what they have has no expiration date.' I finally met him about 6 weeks ago and to say that there was an uneasiness on his part would be grossly understating the situation. He failed to make consistent eye contact with me and remained very distant with my girlfriend and I. She later commented on the fact that she believed he was uneasy also. My issue stems from the fact that she still has this past dialogue (with him)archived in her email. Does that mean that until she feels we're going further,(in a relationship) she'll continue to hold onto that possibility of life with him?
2007-07-30 09:53:47 · 3 answers · asked by Lee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it means that she has memories, and fond ones of she and he together.
That doesn't mean that they will run off together, but just because she is in a relationship with you, doesn't mean she needs to erase every good memory she has with her ex's.
2007-07-30 09:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like they are very attached and she probably isn't giving you the full story. If you really like her, you will at some point have to ask her to choose between you and this other guy. I'm not sure if you would be ok with this guy being a part of her life in the long run, especially knowing they have feelings for each other.
2007-07-30 16:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by marm212 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely, women want to keep everyone theyve done. even if they didnt "date" hes probably just awesome in bed. watch this dude
2007-07-30 16:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by juicy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋