sexy waiter,how the hell do you hit on a waiter?

Question

Most of my friends are away and most are guys anyway.But I like this guy that works at a restaurant I like going to with my guy friend to lunch.I think he likes me,we hold our looks for a really long time(5secs) and he does look at me,my guy friend was telling me so.Me and my friend always sit at the same place opposite the bar where the waiter works.Is that silly?I really like him so I started speaking to him from across the bar I said"When do you open"and he said "at 11,you wanna come here tomorrow again" it was a joke I think I said no I have work then my phone rang so it probably put him off we spoke for a little and then when I left he waved goodbye.I feel upset,I want to quicken up the process-I duno what to do im really attracted to him,he seems shy.help please

He could of given the waiter his number to give to me if he actually liked me though,when my guy friend went to the toilet he didnt start the conversation i had too!

he doesn't wait he works at the bar

Answer 1

just ask him is he seeing anyone and if not ask if he might want to get together sometime. if he says he would like to get together then give him your number and wait for him to call

Answer 2

If he has the last shift of the day, go there towards the end (with your friend of course). stay until they start cleaning with just some drinks. then ask when he gets off. tell him you're in the mood for another drink, but your friend has to leave, so you were wondering whether he would keep you some company. (and ask it flirtingly, of course.)
remember, he may think your friend is your boyfriend, or otherwise has an interest in you!
maybe that's why he hasn't made a move yet.

good luck!
.

Answer 3

You have to remember he's on the job so he's really not supposed to be chatting up customers. If you want the process to go faster, just go up to him and give him a piece of paper with your number on it. I am sure he will call since he seems interested in my opinion.

Answer 4

Well just go in there and sit in his section than flirt with him while he waits on you.Maybe if you go in with a girl he be a little more courageous to ask for your number.Otherwise you can always leave it on your slip when you pay than see if he calls.If not, its not the end of the world-either he's not interested or already committed.

Answer 5

Go to the restaurant again and make sure he waits on you. Leave your number with the bill.

Answer 6

Next time you go there write him a note on a napkin, I used to wait tables and had a hot guy do this once, totally loved it and we dated for a bit.

Answer 7

well u could maybe give the waiter ur number and write "please call me" under ur number. but leave ur number with a some what big tip like 10 dollars maybe. it will make them wana thank u for the tip while they do call u.

Answer 8

when he gives you the receipt, write your number on the back with your name. give it back to him. if this doesn't work, then just tell him that you want to know if he wants to go for lunch sometime. (say just as friends if he acts weird) if he says no (which I doubt) then ask for his number and tell him you'll call. this should help!

Answer 9

jst wen he brings u ur plate b sure ur sittin alone at the table jst incase somethin embarassin happens(hopefully not!) and ask him wit a sweet smile ''wen do u get off??(wait for the answer)...wanna do somethin wen ur done??'' and take it from there

Answer 10

leave him an extra tip n leave ur phone number on top of the bills
goo luck!