Family & Relationships - 30 July 2007

We met on yahoo personals over 3 years ago, and have been dating exclusively. His profile is still active on yahoo personals--sometimes as recently as in the last 24 hours--but hasn't been updated in over 2 years (the age is the same as when we met). He says he cares about me and he has been planning a future with me. I don't know how to ask him if he's talking to or looking for another girl without sounding like I'm spying on him.

2007-07-30 14:09:23 · 15 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

In the past my boyfriend (who is very popular with the ladies) was always overly nice to every ex he dated, he was the sweetest guy and did everything to please the girl and they always ended up cheating on him. Now for some reason although he is really good to me in almost every way he does certain things sometimes that upset me and when I confront him about his ignorance and we talk about it, he says "I spent my whole life being nice to girls and they cheated and left me and even though I am not an nice to you sometimes (not an asshole), you hang around" I mean they are not big things or I wouldn't be with him for 4 years in august. I just think because I have always been extremely nice to him in every way, doing what he wants and being sweet, do you think that I have been too nice? Why does he act like this when I have been the best gf he has had and never cheated and he says that too" I mean its weird, should I back off from being so nice all the time and be a *****?

2007-07-30 14:06:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 14:06:12 · 10 answers · asked by Howard C 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a huge crush on him but he doesnt know it because i dont have the power to tell him me and him are best friends karla tells me to tell him i love hanging around with him.but i dont know what to do. please help

2007-07-30 14:02:56 · 6 answers · asked by latina123456 1 in Friends

I have posted this, and didn't get any good answers.

He has stuff at my house, and I do NOT want to let him in to get it. If I let him in once I get home he will try to talk me out of everything I've been building the strength to do. I want him and his shyt out of my house. Can you give me a way to do this?

I don't want to just throw his stuff out, although it is my house. But I will. Any advice for a girl who wants to end this leech-lover relationship? PLEASE HELP.

2007-07-30 14:02:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 14:01:57 · 1 answers · asked by eldbowers 1 in Singles & Dating

help im always taken advantige and i never get even get a thank you

2007-07-30 13:59:46 · 10 answers · asked by kaykay8956 1 in Friends

he is coming home in 2 months from a very long deployment. he loves everything, but is a simple man. im stumped! we live in virginia...is there any where special i can take him?

2007-07-30 13:57:47 · 10 answers · asked by @aX-roads 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-30 13:56:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Let's say there was this girl that you really weren't all that interested in, and you KNEW she liked you. Would u spend time hanging out with her just so you two can "mess around"? (in other words.."hit it and quit it") OR would you just automatically leave her alone?

2007-07-30 13:55:35 · 10 answers · asked by colorfulgarden 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 13:53:43 · 2 answers · asked by queenmumcarole 1 in Weddings

my husband and daughter birhtday is the same day I need to find an invitation that is for both he is 30 she is 11 any suggestions now is a good time.

2007-07-30 13:53:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hi my name is Ashley and I need some advice. My husband spanks my son and gets very angery with him. I try to get him to stop but he decided to go to far on here today when I simply asked him to help me cook dinner tonight hamburgers without his name is reojw. I asked him to simply show me how to cook hamburger without bread crum or anything? I just wan'ted some help. I never ***** about work actually I greet him at the door. I never never never said I would not get a job I gave him all my tax money at the bigginning of this year to get stuff for the house that we needed. I worked 2 jobs. I am willing to get a job but without a babysitter or daycare how can I do this.? I can't leave my son at home by himself. I am trying to work things out but he gets mad if I ask him to get off the computer or the game? So yes I did throw my rings at him after what I seen on here? What is going on? I try with all my heart to protect my son. IDC if he spends time with me or not.

2007-07-30 13:52:40 · 11 answers · asked by lostinlove1919 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it that Every time I find a man he turns out to be a Major jerk?

2007-07-30 13:51:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've tried giving subtle hints, but he just doesn't get it. suggestions, please!

2007-07-30 13:48:58 · 21 answers · asked by Nicholas 1 in Friends

my grandaughter insists that i marry her.

2007-07-30 13:47:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

hi, im 27 and i have been single 4 the last 10years. I have tried everyting to get a girlfriend...EVERYTHING!! im successful, have a nice body, handsome, the works. i even gave up a 100k per year job(im an IT tech), just to go 2 uni to meet women, but all the girls in my class r all taken&they pay me no interest. My mates are all maried&have kids&im sick of being the 3rd wheel. i dont know y things are real bad in my life, i perform best when i hv a girl&i feel tht in life i am so incomplete..i ask out girls, but they only say that they already have someone and just reject me. I dont want to go up to just any girl and get bumed out (my mates told me tht was the way to do it, but obviously it just aint coz they just embarass me and say 'what do you want?' or "get lost". why do i have such bad luck?? i really dont want to live anymore..

2007-07-30 13:47:10 · 2 answers · asked by vanilla_thrilla01 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is going through a divorce, and I told her I'd research this... Can legally write write a separation aggreement without using a lawyer...?
Thanks in advance.

2007-07-30 13:45:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we have been dating for 2 months, last weekend, he took me dinner, we went to see the show, he spent about $200, so I wrote him an email to thank him for the wonderful weekend. but he didnt reply, so I called him bcos I miss him and asked him if he got the email, he said yes, then he said he had a good time too. he says he prefers face to face talk, then phone calls.
but b4 we used to exchage emails a lot, does this show his less interest? I know he has access to internet during work and not that busy.
by the way, he went to do a std test today as I require him to, he told me he is interested in long term and we regularlly date on weekends, but Im not sure how serious he is to the relationship.

2007-07-30 13:44:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been friends for a long time and my best friends boyfriend called me one day and asked me to get and room with him! I freaked out what do I do sould I tell my best friend.
I am scared she will be mad and me and i will lose her. She has always been there for me.
I am scared to go to there house cause i can not face her or him.
there are happy they have 2 wonerful kids.
I dont want him at all but i dont want to lose our friendship help me please!

2007-07-30 13:43:51 · 13 answers · asked by lost girl 1 in Friends

I've had this crush for the past year. Now I'm wondering, what was I thinking!?

2007-07-30 13:42:57 · 8 answers · asked by sugar1973 2 in Weddings

2007-07-30 13:42:01 · 10 answers · asked by Sweetbpecan 2 in Weddings

No one ever said parenting was easy. I am the parent of a 13 year old girl, the youngest of 3. We found out a couple of months ago she had been smoking marijuana with her best friend. Of course the promises came that it wouldn't happen again and now it is my understanding she has been "exposed" to it again. She is telling me that her only exposure was being around people who were smoking and blowing it in her face outdoors and that is what would make her test positive. I am pretty sure that is a load of bologna. I need some confirmation that if the only exposure to pot she had was last week, outside, with someone blowing it in her face while she was talking, that it isn't enough to make the test positive. Any feedback is appreciated.

2007-07-30 13:41:31 · 11 answers · asked by KAM 2 in Friends

My husband told me he didn't love me or want the responsibility of our child. He still calls and emails just to talk about his day. Is it immature for me to ask him to stop? I don't want to be strung along and even though he probably thinks he's doing a nice thing by talking to me and checking in, it actually hurts more when he calls and writes and gives that kind of false hope. He even called to see if I knew anyone who had a pickup truck for sale and just to tell me about some physical test he passed today. I'm not saying I'm going to be bitter forever, I just need a couple weeks of space and talking to him makes me really sad because I think about all of the good times.

2007-07-30 13:40:08 · 30 answers · asked by Lorie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What would you do?
A few days ago I wrote to get advice about a man who just will not leave me alone.Thank you for the advice.?
OHHHHH! He is making me crazy and sad.Please take a peek at my question from a few days ago.I didnt have enough room to write everything here.Here are some of the things that he says to me when I break up with him.What do you think?:

Why won't you let me be your boyfriend? Why don't you want me, like I want you? Why won't you be my girlfriend? I don't understand. I just want you to want me. I just want you to touch me, to hug me, to kiss me....I just want to be with you. Why won't you let me be your boyfriend?

Why can't I ever be happy? What am I doing wrong? Why do I always have to be alone? I don't understand. What's wrong with me? Why won't you be with me? I'm so sad. I'm so very sad & alone. And you won't be with me. No one will.

I tried so hard. I really tried to be your boyfriend. I tried to be good to you. As good as I can be & I don't know what I'm doing wrong.

Sonya, I'm so alone all the time. I don't want to be alone anymore. Why won't you be my girlfriend? Why can't we be happy together? I don't know what to do anymore. I'm trying so hard to be a good man. I don't know how to be better.

I wish you'd come back to me.

With love,
Kevin

2007-07-30 13:40:07 · 13 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How about you guys? What's your say in this... and are you entitled to a successful, rich wife for just being good looking, sexy, hot, etc while not being successful yourself?

2007-07-30 13:39:24 · 20 answers · asked by thasaintamour 4 in Singles & Dating

This guy at work is always making eye contact with me, across the room and while walking by me, and he usually holds the eye contact till I look away. He doesn't really smile or anything, but the eye contact happens very often. It's very intense, especially since I don't know him that well. We don't talk much, but he is very nice when we do talk.

The strange thing is, I've noticed when he IS talking to me, he'll hardly look at me. He stares at the wall or the floor. What do you make of this?

2007-07-30 13:38:44 · 3 answers · asked by melissa 5 in Singles & Dating

i've known my new boyfriend forever but got with him recently. we had sex several nights ago. it was rushed because we didn't want his parents to come in on us. anyway when i got home to shower, i saw a couple of white stains on my undies. i think it's his sperm. can i be pregnant?

he's my first boyfriend and that was my first time.

2007-07-30 13:37:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my brother wants to know if he is really the father of his son. thank you for your help.

2007-07-30 13:37:29 · 6 answers · asked by k 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

okayy......i have like a guy, lets just call him bob, for a loongg time, but i also know that another guy,lets just call him fred, has had a crush on me for a longg time, and i only like him as a friend, and fred knows that i know about his crush on me.....So i was just wondering if i went out with bob, would that be a really really mean thing to do to fred?? lol, kinda confusing but if you can help please write......thnks!!!!!

2007-07-30 13:35:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating