stroke of bad luck...?

Question

hi, im 27 and i have been single 4 the last 10years. I have tried everyting to get a girlfriend...EVERYTHING!! im successful, have a nice body, handsome, the works. i even gave up a 100k per year job(im an IT tech), just to go 2 uni to meet women, but all the girls in my class r all taken&they pay me no interest. My mates are all maried&have kids&im sick of being the 3rd wheel. i dont know y things are real bad in my life, i perform best when i hv a girl&i feel tht in life i am so incomplete..i ask out girls, but they only say that they already have someone and just reject me. I dont want to go up to just any girl and get bumed out (my mates told me tht was the way to do it, but obviously it just aint coz they just embarass me and say 'what do you want?' or "get lost". why do i have such bad luck?? i really dont want to live anymore..

Answer 1

Perhaps you have some special interests or hobbies that there are groups of like minded people that attend. If you were to join one of these groups you never know who'll you'll meet and just might end up finding a female that has the same sort of feelings that your currently experiencing. You had me sold that you were having a run of bad luck until you started sounded like you are feeling sorry for yourself and saying that it isn't worth living any longer. Get over it and stop feeling so sorry for yourself as it sounds like you have all your mental factulties and are in good health, so be grateful for these. Somewhere in this big universe is a woman that is looking for her Mr. Right and you might just be the fella. So my advice to you would be to go out there and try and find her. Probably when you are least expecting it someone will come into your life. Best of luck.

Answer 2

We are on the same boat, I feel the same way I am 32 yrs old I make about 120k a year I am a DA. But, it seems that every guy I run into they always turn me down once I start talking to them. I have a feeling that people are scare to date successful people because I seen some people that look sorry as hell and they are married with kids and the whole works. I can not even get friends, so don't think about not wanting to live anymore, eventually you will learn to cope with that stuff and just be yourself you just need to find and interest and I guess I found mine in making money once nothing else worked out for me.