Hi my name is Ashley and I need some advice. My husband spanks my son and gets very angery with him. I try to get him to stop but he decided to go to far on here today when I simply asked him to help me cook dinner tonight hamburgers without his name is reojw. I asked him to simply show me how to cook hamburger without bread crum or anything? I just wan'ted some help. I never ***** about work actually I greet him at the door. I never never never said I would not get a job I gave him all my tax money at the bigginning of this year to get stuff for the house that we needed. I worked 2 jobs. I am willing to get a job but without a babysitter or daycare how can I do this.? I can't leave my son at home by himself. I am trying to work things out but he gets mad if I ask him to get off the computer or the game? So yes I did throw my rings at him after what I seen on here? What is going on? I try with all my heart to protect my son. IDC if he spends time with me or not.
2007-07-30 13:52:40 · 11 answers · asked by lostinlove1919 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He has told his co-workers I am a ***** I think he has cheated but don't wan't to admit it. Some girl told me so I don't know what to think....
2007-07-30 13:53:34 · update #1
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070730172213AATEwYx&pa=FYd1D2bwHTHwLL9uEOs4QgGW5qcvmTzJL5a9Xx7YKF1k4A--&paid=asked&msgr_status=
Thats his question...
2007-07-30 13:54:04 · update #2
I have tried and all he does is sit on his butt.... I help clean cook and I do things around the house. He weighs 215lbs so it is not like he does alot. I am only 100lbs at the most....
2007-07-30 13:58:53 · update #3
Is this your son or both of yours? It matters not either way, if you fear for your son get the hell out. I don't care about all the other stuff if you fear for your son GET OUT! There are shelters, protective orders, go to the police or your county attorney.
2007-07-30 14:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by Glinda W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In his question - he says you will not go to marriage counseling - why not?
The two of you are not communicating effectively, that is a problem that can be fixed by learning new tools from a counselor. Screaming, yelling and throwing things is not the answer. As far as spanking, many parents disagree on discipline, that is another issue the counselor can help you with.
If you are unsure how to cook something, I suggest you utilize the internet and all of the wonderful sites out there devotedto cooking - or pick up a few cook books.
2007-07-30 21:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he has cheated and he likes to control you. You have no say-so now so he knows you won't rebuttal him. Protect your son at all costs. if that means leaving him, getting a order of protection so be it. You can get a job and be independent. When you leave you might have to receive a little government assistance for a while to help with daycare. Make sure this is what you want to do and don't let him know you have this in mind. Good Luck.
2007-07-30 21:03:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mekia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to first get a baby sitter to get the child out of the house for a couple of days and you two need to figure out what in the world you are doing. He says one thing you say the other on answers but it is getting you know where. You two sound like you are on the verge of ending this. If he cant get of the computer or game he need not be calling you names to his buddys. You know what get a job take your child and go somewhere else and let him find someone else to call names. You can do it if I can with two kids you can with one.
2007-07-30 21:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by lyttledarlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two are no good for each other or your son which is what you should be thinking of you both are blaming each other and you both just need to go your seperate ways, get out do it now dont wait till something bad happens.
2007-08-03 18:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out of this relationship fast. This type of behavior can lead to physical abuse and even death. Seek professional counseling fast.
2007-08-03 16:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by maestra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys seem willing to go on Yahoo answers, why not talk to a counselor? Everyone here isnt qualified.
2007-07-30 21:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mergler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys need some serious help. find a good marriage counseler.
2007-07-30 20:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you find peace. We're all praying for you out here.
2007-07-30 21:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get marriage counseling! ASAP!!!!
2007-07-30 21:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by dm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋