Family & Relationships - 30 July 2007

smoke inside our house. Should I care? She lives about 4 hours from us. We are both in college right now, so a visit to her is out of the question. Plus, I won't stay in her stinky, cigarette/doggy poop house. My son gets sick every time we go to her house.

2007-07-30 14:54:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my fiance and i spend a lot of time with another couple we know. between this couple and us, we have a lot of mutual friends. they're all single. we always make time to spend with our single friends whenever we get the chance (which isnt often due to where everyone lives, but we still take any chance we get. the other couple happens to live less than a five minute walk away, so we just sort of end up hanging out with them). so our single friends always end up jelous of us and this other couple! its so annoying! we always always always take the time to spend with all our friends when we get the chance, so it doesnt feel fair when they get jelous of us and the other couple! how do we (my fiance and i, and the other couple) deal with our single friends jelousy?

2007-07-30 14:54:06 · 0 answers · asked by Ashley M 7 in Friends

my boyfriend sweats as if he has been out the shower and not dryed yet... when we are doing our personal bussines he starts to sweat and i get filled with his sweat, even drips of sweat drop on my face and i hate it... what should he do to make it stop?..

2007-07-30 14:51:31 · 5 answers · asked by Valeries Mommy 2 in Singles & Dating

personally, i think its all about the inside, not the outside.

2007-07-30 14:49:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so here is the deal: I have always heard that older women, some of them anyway, like younger men. I LOVE olfer women and can think of nothing better than having the opportunity to be with one. My question is, how does a younger man go about "seducing" a mature married woman if you will. Are there things that work more often than not?

2007-07-30 14:48:26 · 21 answers · asked by MinusLinus 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I had made plans for a big, traditional wedding this fall. Two of my bridesmaids and I are no longer friends and the other one is too sick with her pregnancy to be in the wedding. His groomsmen all live out of town, and it has become a hassle to get them to do anything. A lot of our guests live out of town also, and so we really are not too sure if anyone will or can show up to the event. I am disappointed because I feel that it would be a waste to go all out with the planning if no one is there to see it. What suggestions do you have that me and my fiance could do for a wedding. I don't mind if it is small, but I want it to be beautiful. Location, reception ideas, decorations????????

2007-07-30 14:47:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am trying to find her, plzz help and she lives in michigan

2007-07-30 14:45:10 · 2 answers · asked by wyandot_chick 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been together for a while now and we are serious. I love him with all my heart. We do not live together yet. I want to suprise him with something to show him how much I love him.. something kind of big but straight from the heart..

Any ideas?

2007-07-30 14:45:01 · 2 answers · asked by =({MommyOfTwo})= 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

we like each other but then she had issues with being single (her ex), then (im not aggressive) however i became more assertive, then good signals, then mixed signals. i wasnt sure if she was ready or not. then i had my own problems (work college home etc). i didnt have enoungh time to focus on us. so when i got the chance to discuss she said im dating and were friends ur not for me. i became a little attached and got hurt. i can c us together (we are so much alike 85%) since shes Affectionate with her friends and me , how can i not go out with her and not kiss her for the first time to show i am the one, or even go out? mayb it was bad timing. i dont wanna show her im hurt or act like something is going to happen and its not. there is so much potential between us.

2007-07-30 14:43:54 · 7 answers · asked by ace 2 1 in Singles & Dating

For the last 8 yrs my husband has been involved with one or more of these areas. I've made it very clear how I feel. I think it's cheating, he calls it "entertainment".

To me: watching porn, roll playing & acting out fantasies is entertainment.

Five years ago we entered the swinging lifestyle for about a year. It started out fun & ended in disaster. He became emotionally involved with someone. I was crushed. Their emotional tie just about killed me. We met them five years ago and their relationship ended last month. As far is he says, they weren't physically involved outside of our two trists.

Today he left his email open and yes, I found several different hook-up sites. I read emails. I feel deceived. He says he's a freak and that it's just entertainment. I say he's cheating. He hides it, he sneaks and he lies about it. If it's not cheating, then why lie?

Is it worth ending a marriage, 4 kids later? Can we find common ground? If it had ever stopped I may have trusted him.

2007-07-30 14:42:52 · 20 answers · asked by CeeJay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been working here for nearly 3 years.. i have got a few closed friends here but now they have all quit.. now i feel like i am alone, got no one to have lunch with.. the reason i couldn't get along well with other was because we are so different..we talk about different things, we are of different citizen.. i feel so much like i am alone now..
i am feeling so boredd, lonely and..sad.. What should i do...?

2007-07-30 14:38:54 · 2 answers · asked by Bruu 2 in Friends

2007-07-30 14:35:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we were friends up until she said i made her laugh because i told her that someone in my family died i got mad as hell and cryed because me and the woman who died were very close anyways i told her i could never forgvie her for that and dont want to be friends anymore so we stoped talking well my mom saw her the other night and she asked about me and said she had to come see me my mom told her it was up to me i still have not forgave her and dont know if i can should i be friends with her again and forgive her i forgave my ex"s for something he did that is the thing my mom dose not want me talking to my ex:s but said it was up to me if i talk to her or not not fair in my book i am 30 years old long story anyways if i can get past my exs and forgave him should i her not sure i can get past what she did throw thanks for the help.

2007-07-30 14:30:39 · 8 answers · asked by betty m 6 in Friends

OK, I have been with my fiance for about a year. When I think about having sex with him I have an orgasm! yeah weird huh? I squirt too soo..i thinks its bad. Sometimes I even feel hard. Do yout hink this is bad for me to have theese feelings?? I mean just of the thought of it makes me feel that way..

2007-07-30 14:30:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Boyfriend has been gone all summer for Army Basic Training. I would like to get him a gift for when he returns.
-(we are both Christians......if you catch my drift) -

I thought about a watch? but what else?
I feel very pathetic but I'm hoping the great ppl on yahoo can help.
I'm trying to steer away from mix CD's and cards. He loves soccer and he loves our country {obviously :) }
We have known each other quite awhile but have only been going out for 4 months.
Also should I give the gift..whatever it ends up being, at his welcome home party- or some other time.

2007-07-30 14:30:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 14:29:31 · 13 answers · asked by Deb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-30 14:29:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

yes my hubby knows and hes cool with it as long as i dont get to seriuos with another female and thats cool with me so is it still wrong cuz my hubby is cool with it?
no i shouldnt care what ppl think, but sometimes i just want the advice!

2007-07-30 14:27:46 · 19 answers · asked by colombiana_29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and i like him too..he's recently asked me to be his gf n i said yes...but here's the problem
1. i never get to see him because the peeps i live with nevr let me see him...wat shud i do...i nevr did or am going to do anything stupid so i dont understand...what do u think i shud do

2.he leaves in a couple of wks n i'll only see him on holidays..he swears it will work but secretly i doubt it..do long distance relationships work?

2007-07-30 14:26:11 · 1 answers · asked by slims 2 in Singles & Dating

And I think it's starting to effect my relationship with my fiance. I am told I get cronic depression from my father, and I'm not sure what I can do to over come the depression. I've tried everything, from medicine to exercise. Nothing has seemed to help. I know you're probably thinking "It's just in your head" and I wish it was. But I'm thinking into the future and I don't want to have kids if they have to go through this also.
Please tell me what I can do to "silence" the depression.
And if it helps I'm 17.

2007-07-30 14:24:30 · 3 answers · asked by Keisha 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 14:24:17 · 2 answers · asked by Deb 1 in Weddings

i dont give it up easy ...... why dont i get booty called.. men please answer... am i intimidating? i am a powerful woman

2007-07-30 14:20:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're in talks about the wedding, but in the back of my mind I do not want this person to come at all. Over the past 3 years she has been nothing but rude to me and that is putting it nicely. She makes my future husband's and my life a living hell. Normally this would be an easy answer, but she happens to be the bestman's girlfriend. Hopefully they will break up before than, but you never know. I know the easy way out would to just invite her and ignore her, but dealing with the spawn of the devil isn't that easy.
Chances are in favor of her causing some sort of drama or some how drawing the attention away from me and onto herself... pretty much ruining my day and making it a waste of time and money.

Suggestions and comments are all welcomed.

2007-07-30 14:20:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My cousins from the Philippines all Drink, Smoke, go to parties ect. I've had some bad experiences before with people like this during school. I have no intention of giving in and joining them even though that means being alone. 2 of them smoke Hemp peroidically it stinks literally. What do you guys think? Any Advice would be nice guys.

Edit: Ages are: 15, 17, 18x3, 19x2.

I'm 17. Also the legal drinking and smoking age is much lower than in the US. Or so I'm told.

This Vacation sucks alot I want to hang out with them but I've lost nearly all my respect for them. Btw any people without something to say that makes sense, should keep it to themself.

2007-07-30 14:19:52 · 14 answers · asked by Draquoir 5 in Family

im married but i also like chicks. is that so wrong! ive only had 1 exprience and would like to have another one. im a freak and i like it!

2007-07-30 14:16:16 · 32 answers · asked by colombiana_29 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy and we talked for some time, last time I heard from him was over a week ago when I tried to call him back he never answered his phone, I repeteadly try this with no answer. I don't know what happen because we were talking an getting along just great he used to call me every evening but all of the sudden I haven't heard a word from him. Do you think he just doesn't want to hear from me anymore? If this helps I am 24 and he's 34

2007-07-30 14:15:02 · 48 answers · asked by Golden Girl 3 in Singles & Dating

to send pics of you and your bf doing... stuff to his ex in a desperate attempt to get her to leave us alone?
she never talked to us, or about us since
but i do feel bad
even if it wasnt my idea
the pics got all over the place at first
but they died down after a week
and we havent heard from her in a longgg time
so it worked
we tried to reason with her
then we tried to tell her off
then we just got ugly
and then... well
so idk
i don't feel super horrible tho
so...

2007-07-30 14:13:02 · 1 answers · asked by Crystal L 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 14:12:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

>Attractive? Physically? Very. But the more I think how special you are. And how ordinary I am. I know we cant have a solid long term relationship. I want a solid long term relatioinship. The biggest problem we seem to have is money. We think differently on that. I want to be your friend if that's posible but I cant see us being anything more than that. What do you think?


He just emailed me that. I love him so much. What is he thinking? Please help.

2007-07-30 14:11:36 · 6 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Singles & Dating

based on looks

girl A
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girl b
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2007-07-30 14:11:13 · 1 answers · asked by teenage_drama 1 in Singles & Dating