Family & Relationships - 30 July 2007

Hi,am in love with this guy we met online ,we being friendly for 4months now but these days he does not talk to me so freely he ignores me dont know whats the reason i keep asking him several times but his attitude changed now he asked me if i can meet him alone i dont know if i should meet him or not he has a girlfriend and she has left him and now wedid cyberchats . i dont know how far he serious with me pls advice me .i even ask him we will meet with friends in group but he wants me to meet him alone .....

2007-07-30 16:55:48 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girl, if I were a fly, I'd be all over you, because you're the ****!

Excuse me, do you have any raisins? How about a date?

Something tells me you're sweet. Can I have a sample?

I put a drop of tear in the ocean last night for you. And I won't stop loving you until you find that tear drop

Damn, Sugar, settle down. I'm diabetic

What's that on your face? Oh, must just be beauty. Here, let me get it off. Hey, it's not coming off!

2007-07-30 16:54:24 · 24 answers · asked by harryn 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 16:52:56 · 24 answers · asked by nuclear_natalie 1 in Singles & Dating

hi there my future husband has taken out a loan for 1500 and we are wanting to elope here in california. near oceanside or modesto because i live here in modesto and he lives in oceanside. so i was wondering if you guys could find something for me so that we could get our license and get married by a judge or an officient for about 100-150 that would be great because we are using the loan for rings (mine will be 859 and his will be 129) we were going to use the rest of the loan on getting married and then on buying things for our future home. so if you guys could let me know anything at all that would be great. or if you could point me in the right direction i would greatly appreciate it! thanks!

2007-07-30 16:47:54 · 8 answers · asked by *beautifulbabe* 2 in Weddings

i don't know what to do i'm still a virgin and so is he. we've been together 2 years and frankly he's been really patient and we've talked about it but sometime i feel like we should but most times i don't. he's a sweet guy but i don't want us to break up over sex. what should i do? I've already told him i'm not ready and he kinda hints ALOT that he is but i just wanna maek sure i'm a virgin 'til marrige or whatever.

2007-07-30 16:47:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 16:45:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

from what i've heard, y'all prefer some meat. explain to me then, the trend of paper thin women being praised as the standard of beauty in media.
what is going oon??

2007-07-30 16:44:42 · 25 answers · asked by maya 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I thought this girl was hott but I'm too much of a chicken to ask a girl for her number because I don't know wether their straight, gay or bi so my lesbian friend who's not afraid asks the girl for her number and gets it.
Well i assumed this girl was straight but if she was would she give her number to another girl?
or do you think shes bi or gay?

2007-07-30 16:43:24 · 5 answers · asked by ... 5 in Singles & Dating

MY BOYFRIEND AND I WERE AT A FRIEND'S HOUSE AND WE STARTED TALKING ABOUT WOMEN WHO SHOP TOO MUCH. MY B/F MADE THE COMMENT THAT DURING THE TIME HE WAS MARRIED(HE'S BEEN DIVORCED FOR 10YRS.)HE TOLD HIS WIFE THAT SHE WAS ONLY ALLOWED TO BUY ONE OUTFIT A MONTH!!! SHE WORKS IN THE REAL ESTATE BUSINESS AND HE IS RETIRED MILITARY,THEY HAVE ONE CHILD TOGETHER.HIS REASON FOR TELLING HER THAT IS BECAUSE SHE ALREADY HAS TOO MANY CLOTHES.I TOLD HIM THAT NO MAN WILL EVER BE ABLE TO TELL ME WHAT I CAN AND CANNOT BUY WITH MY MONEY,ESPECIALLY WHEN THE BILLS ARE PAID AND MY CHILDREN ARE TAKEN CARE OF!! NEEDLESS TO SAY,HE GOT VERY ANGRY WITH ME SAYING "the truth is finally coming out" AND I TOLD HIM THAT I WILL NEVER BE SUBMISSIVE TO HIM OR ANYBODY ELSE. DUE TO THE FACT THAT WE DO NOT LIVE TOGETHER OR PLAN ON LIVING TOGETHER WHY DID HE GET SO ANGRY OVER SOMETHING THAT DOES NOT EVEN PERTAIN TO US? WE CHOOSE TO LIVE SEPARATE BECAUSE WE NEED OUR SPACE,SO NOW HE IS NOT TALKING TO ME.AM I IN THE WRONG?

2007-07-30 16:41:51 · 3 answers · asked by Slim&Sexy 2 in Singles & Dating

I am away butt me and my bf is at home . We really like each ther i think bout him all the time but the problem is his cousin is trying to set him up with a pretty girl i trust him but not her

2007-07-30 16:39:44 · 10 answers · asked by trinibaby_kiki1415 1 in Singles & Dating

kay so im 18 and with im with my lover Jamima... ... i want to do her SO BADLY but my penis never goes up.... WHATS WRONG WITH ME??

2007-07-30 16:39:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think my newphew is in deep trouble, he's datting 2 girls at the same time what should he do?

2007-07-30 16:37:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend invited me and my boyfriend to her wedding and we went. Now 8 years later we no longer keep in touch, should I invite her to our wedding which she'll know about since my boyfriend will be inviting her cousin?

2007-07-30 16:37:15 · 11 answers · asked by Pinky 2 in Weddings

not to see other ppl we pretty much asked like we are together but there's this guy i hate and she decided to go to the movies with him and stuff and he keeps telling her that he will beat me up so i can leave her leave her alone and to kiss him on when she sees me so i can leave her alone, and shes been giving hr phone number to other guys and stuff but she says she loves me but she lies to me and is always with guys at summer school my english teacher was there teaching and told me she saw her being all ovr other ppl, so what do i do ireally love her im really sad i've kept my end of the bargain :-(

2007-07-30 16:37:08 · 1 answers · asked by lil_weezy20006 2 in Singles & Dating

I just recently told my guy friend that I got my belly button pierced about 7 months ago. Well, it turns out that he is completely against the idea and is refusing to talk to me. He says that it's degrading and that only self-conscious people do it. He's blaming his beliefs on his extreme conservatism. I am very offended and surprised at his reaction and I wanted to know if anyone agrees with him.

Personally, I think he's overreacting and if he really was a true friend, he would look past the naval ring and get over it. He said that it completely changes me as a person and he can't look at me the same way anymore. But it's not like I flaunt it, and if I did, he would have found out about it a long time ago. Besides, I wear moderate clothing and It's not like I show it off to every person that I meet. I don't think that he's in the position to even say his opinion like that to me. He's not my boyfriend or my father, just a friend, and apparently not a very good one.

2007-07-30 16:36:58 · 18 answers · asked by thepinkpipster 3 in Singles & Dating

I recently just started talking to this man but as I was leaving his building...I met another man who showed interest in me....so I was wondering if I can get away with dating two men that live in the same building?
(Before I get any negative feedback...I am young...20, and really just want to have fun...and I live in Manhattan...the building is more than 20 floors).

2007-07-30 16:27:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 16:22:28 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband is awesome, he works very hard at Wells Fargo, is taking part time courses and still has the time to make me smile everyday.

Unfortunately, everything he does for us and our future does not seem to be enough to help me stop being a complete b..... to him. I try really, really hard. I have even started therapy, am taking some anti depressants, getting rid of negative friends and environments, I have even picked up new hobbies to help me release stress and keep me busy while I am looking for work.

Still, sometimes I get frustrated because he does not help me with chores unless I get mad at him or yell. He does not listen to a word I say about anything and seems to think his ideas are always best, which they usually are. I have made some pretty stupid mistakes, maybe that is why he does not listen to any of my suggestions...I dont know. I am not sure if it is me that is causing him to think so less of me. Help! I have not idea what to do anymore.

2007-07-30 16:21:10 · 13 answers · asked by tuckerjess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering....Are braces a big turn off to guys? I would guess yeah, but wanted to check

2007-07-30 16:20:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i been dating this guy i really love and the thing is that all of a sudden he channged we use to be hang out together 24/7 but now all he does is leave with his friends to his choaches house to the gym he has practice tues and thurs from like 6 to 9 when he use to go to places he would call me or if he was somewhere i dint know he would call me to tell me that he was going to be home in some mins but he has changed he gets home and goes straight to the computer and im afraid that he is cheating on me or i dont know if its just me or i lost his trust because year a go i found something in his myspace that made me go insane and when ever he goes out somewhere i go crazy thinkink about that he might be with another girl??? help plz

2007-07-30 16:19:27 · 22 answers · asked by CHEEKZ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 16:19:17 · 19 answers · asked by LizzWeasley 5 in Singles & Dating

what i mean is like having a glass of wine??? or something else that will add up to the exitement for the both of me and my partner. something which is unforgettable and a little bit funny

2007-07-30 16:17:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have friend who is now getting gigs a model. She has lots of friends and even more now. When she was down and sad and heavy she talked to me often, via email too. And I was there for her. Yet now i am going thru a lot in life and she will not talk to me. it hurts a lot. She has these modeling jobs and magazines now and now she has many people lusting and looking at her. I am now invisible and worthless in her eyes now i guess. It makes me mad because this kind of treatment from women has followed me thru life. i am beginning to hate her and I want her to leave me alone forever. For me, its just another women who has been cruelt to me and then is rewarded for it. She is loved by everyone now. She is married and her husband cheated on her but she went back to him cause of his status i guess.

2007-07-30 16:16:08 · 21 answers · asked by Misunderstood 2 in Singles & Dating

i have this crush on this boy but i dont know if he likes me he flurted with me a couple of times but theres this boy in my class who tells if someone likes you or not and he never said that that guy likes me hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeellllllllllllllpppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppp

2007-07-30 16:14:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just read some old questions and it sounds like most of you dont like muscular guys...is this possible? I am somewhat muscular, but I recently have intensified my work out and I just be pretty muscular soon. But how is it so? I dont think you girls appreciate the time and effrot put by us guys who work out just to please you - you prefer fat or skinny guys? I am pretty intelligent as well, so maybe you like that, but please tell me that you dont prefer fat/skinny guys over toned, muscular guys.

2007-07-30 16:14:12 · 20 answers · asked by metro900 3 in Singles & Dating

Would it be worth it to buy a wedding ring set made with these? We don't have very much money but would like something that looks real enough and would still last forever. (or until we get money for a real set)

2007-07-30 16:12:21 · 13 answers · asked by Sheena B 1 in Weddings

if anyone knows her or email address contact me

2007-07-30 16:11:38 · 5 answers · asked by deer_slayer_1982 1 in Friends

2007-07-30 16:10:48 · 40 answers · asked by The G Man 1 in Family

I've been wanting to ask out this girl out for a while, but didnt get a car until recently, and she lives 40 minutes away. I've hung out with her a few times, but I havent asked her out yey. My guy friends are telling me to forget about her because I'm going off to college and shes still gonna be in high school. They say that the college girls will be hotter and that I should just focus on getting laid. I think in my mind that I shouldnt have to forget about her because she lives less than an hour from me. Also, the age difference feels weird. I know its only 2 years, but I'm in college and shes in high school. So what do you guys think? Should I ask her out or wait a little longer or what?

2007-07-30 16:09:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-30 16:09:40 · 4 answers · asked by Love Warrior 2 in Singles & Dating