Hi,am in love with this guy we met online ,we being friendly for 4months now but these days he does not talk to me so freely he ignores me dont know whats the reason i keep asking him several times but his attitude changed now he asked me if i can meet him alone i dont know if i should meet him or not he has a girlfriend and she has left him and now wedid cyberchats . i dont know how far he serious with me pls advice me .i even ask him we will meet with friends in group but he wants me to meet him alone .....
2007-07-30 16:55:48 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would be much safer if you were to meet him along with one or more of your friends. Who's to say if he's telling the truth or not. Safety comes first. I met this girl a few years ago and she was in high school at that time. She calls me up and starts crying, because she met this guy alone and got raped. I don't want you to be the next victim. She's luckily to be alive. Sadly to say she never learned her lesson the first time and got raped by a different person after that. Safety comes first.
2007-07-30 17:08:13 · answer #1 · answered by rjksmooth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO, do NOT meet him alone period. You do NOT know him even tho you might think you do. He HAD a g/f but they broke up. There must have been a reason of course & you'll never know the reason why either. I honestly think since his attitude is changing, maybe you should give it some serious tho't to stop w/the cyber chats all together. Something just doesn't sound rite to me. You surely don't want to become another statistic. You DO NOT know this person, & honestly, I think it might be a good time to break away from him. PLEASE think about this seriously. But do NOT meet him, especially alone. Something is going on w/him & his atttude change that puts a big red flag on the whole situation as far as I am concerned. BEWARE!!!
2007-07-30 17:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a youngin? How old are you? An adult would never meet an online person alone in this day and time? come on. I will share some news with you, there was a story where this guy met this online girl alone and they found him three days later dead.
The reason he wants you alone is because you sound so desperate and the lure "ignoring you" worked and has caused you to falsely feel emotions that you would not normally have. But there is one emotion that is now inside of you and you better listen to it - "lack of trust." He has already proved to be suspicious.
What's worse is, you are probably not the only one who he has gotten this way. Don't continue to be dumb, okay? Put the guy on ignore and move on.
Good Luck!
2007-07-30 17:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by imnokitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not meet him alone! If you want to meet in person,meet as a group. There are too many creeps online and you never know who this person really is. If you do meet up with him, be sure to let your friends know where you are going and what time and how they can reach you just to be safe.
2007-07-30 16:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a no-brainer. DON'T meet the guy.
Besides.. you can't possibly fall in love with a guy you've only been talking to on the internet for a few months. When you grow up some, you'll realize what love is. But for now, be smart and leave this guy alone.
2007-07-30 16:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by Raina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not, absolutely, do not meet him alone.
He may have just been friendly with you to have sex with you and when you took 4 months and nothing happened he may have gotten less encouraged by you.
Do not meet him alone or at all.
Do not tell him where you live or hang out.
He may just be another sexual predator after you.
2007-07-30 17:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by pop89eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not a good idea to meet him alone. Have you seen those Dateline NBC specials? You might be chatting with Chris Hansen!
2007-07-30 16:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jon S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't go alone!!! go with at least 1 of your freinds!!!
i have had to do investigations about kids how have talked 2 other people online and go to met them and get kidnapped... trust me...it is very hard 2 find the suspect when there is no one 2 tell us his name or what he looks like
2007-07-30 17:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by sargent_GUSSMAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, thats a no go!!! If you want to go home that next night, Id say no...DONT let him talk you into going alone. If you can't trust him now when you havent even met him, you cant trust him at all.
2007-07-30 17:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by innamorta2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT!!!!
i read this thing and the same thing happened to this 16yr old
the guy came over and raped her then asked where the girls younger sis was.
if you value ur life dont without somebody safe beside you
2007-07-30 16:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋