Family & Relationships - 30 July 2007

I am a stay at home mom w/ PT jobs. My husband works a 40hour work week.but I do EVERYTHING I mow, weedeat, cook, clean, laundry, budget, grocery shop, take care of the 6 pets, get luches ready, work, pay the bills...ect(I think you get the point). All he does is work and watch our son for maybe 4 hours at a time. So can you explajin to me why I am still waiting for my gym membership, my pedicure, my manicure, my massage, and my break. He made these plans before he ever talked to be so I had to go ask my family for money to pay bills since my husband already gave the money to his brother so they clould go rent a car, drive to dallas texas, stay at a hotel and go to six flags for 2 days. He never even invited me. I don't think he deserves it. YOu know he never once thought where the money is going to come from for day care. Or how I was going to work.(there is more to the story but no more room) Am i just jealous or do I have a good reson to feel unappreciated and forgotton?

2007-07-30 18:17:23 · 15 answers · asked by wonder81084 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-30 18:16:51 · 5 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy who comes in to my work that I like a lot and who obviously likes me. It took me forever to ask his name because I was in a relationship before and did not want to act on anything. Now that I am single again, I want to ask this guy out (he is kinda shy, but has opened up ALOT since I started making small talk with him. However, most of the time I try to talk to him, my tongue gets tied and I end up saying something really silly (for ex: he has one button undone on his shirt and his tie tucked in it. I say, "hey, your shirt is eating your tie" and laugh (wtf! why do i say this?!). fortunately he laughs too, and explains that he does not want to get it messy at work (he works in a funeral home)). I really like him a lot and he really seems to understand my warped sense of humor. What should I say to him (to ask him out) without sticking my foot in my mouth again?
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I feel like I really connect with him because I feel like I can be myself around him (when I don't go saying something silly) and he understands that about me.
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2007-07-30 18:16:31 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ Tiesto 3 in Singles & Dating

My BF is far away from me. Went abroad b4 10 months. R there any romantic thing we can do online or by phone?
Cs we r boring with just talking...

Thanx in advance!

2007-07-30 18:16:12 · 2 answers · asked by cutie 3 in Singles & Dating

I have lived in my sub for 2 years now and the man behind me has creaped me out from the day i moved in. no one ever sees him unless he is cutting his lawn, there have been strange banging noises from his home. tonight my husband and i were out side and heard a girl crying it got to the point where i went to look for his address but could not see it. so i stood under his window and heard a girl saying "please stop it hurts" I ran home and called the cops but when they went to the home the girl and another girl along with the man came to the door and told the police everything was okay. even if everything is okay (wich it does not sound like it is) these girls are very young and he is in his mid 40's. what do you think about this and what would you do

2007-07-30 18:15:48 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer H 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

What the fascination of having sex outside anyways..My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and we have never done that and i know neither 1 of us would ever want to do that cause i think making love is a private thing between 2 people not to be viewed by the whole world lol.

2007-07-30 18:09:36 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my wife starts this job at a convience store where they sell gas and food she works from 3 to 11 at night she is off monday and tuesday she tells me that she is going in to learn how to cook the food there so at 6 i go to the store and she told me she would have to work the whole shift becuase her boss said the day before she told me she would only have to work from 4 to 7 so i leave to go home i told her before i left i was going to her uncles house for a while and then home well at 9:45 she calls and ask me if i would come get her she was off well she told me when i picked her up that she didnt clock out so she could proveshe got off and left at 8:30 she said she called her uncle and didnt call the house becuase she didnt think i would be here so she says she walked to her cousins house whitch is 100 yards from her work and then she decided to call me her husband when i picked her up she wasnt in the store she was standing out side like she was just droped off do u think she is up 2

2007-07-30 18:09:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok heres the deal my boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me a while back and i still like him alot i havnt been able to get over him but i was at skate country last friday and this other guy was majorly hitting on me like he came up behind me and hugged me for like five minutes and leaned in to kiss me twice but backed off both times cuz there was too many people around then he whispered to my friend and said i want to kiss her but not right here so im thinking of asking him out but the problem is i still like my ex alot and i dont know who to choose my ex who i really really really really like but i dont think he still likes me or the guy i really really like who im almost positive likes me? please hlp a girl out!

2007-07-30 18:06:02 · 24 answers · asked by Michelle B 1 in Singles & Dating

This 'he' is almost a year older than me and may still have a thing for one of his old friends, who absolutely hates me. One of my best friends, who has known him most of his life, has told me that he can be a liar, but that friend lies too. Everyone else says that he'll go out with me, but I really can't see that. I did ask him out before, and he said that he definitely would've said yes, if it hadn't been for 'family problems'. I don't know if I should believe him. And, to make things worse, I keep dreaming about him too. It seems like he's taking over my mind, and I'm completely lost. I'd talk to him face-to-face, if he wasn't seven miles away.

2007-07-30 18:03:46 · 3 answers · asked by Pixie 4 in Singles & Dating

From experience which is better?

(i know her pretty well)

2007-07-30 18:02:17 · 21 answers · asked by Jason Hasda 1 in Singles & Dating

he starts accusing me of cheating when i haven"t, and smashes things up! i have children too. should i forgive him or kick him to the kerb once and for all?

2007-07-30 17:52:42 · 17 answers · asked by bealbtl 1 in Singles & Dating

Well I am 17 and still in school. There is this girl at work that I really like. If she comes over to me or walks by she sometimes says "Hi" and I can say "Hello" back but I cant say anything after that. I get really nervous when she's around, I know I have to be myself but I just can't figure out what to say. Also if she is helping me with my work if I get jammed up or when I help her when she gets jammed up I am constantly wondering, (Do I smell good? or Do I look alright?) I know i smell good because people compliment me about it randomly throughout the day but when I am around her it changes :(. The other guys have no trouble talking to her or any other girl that works there, I sometime's wish I could be more like them :( but I am me. And at work is the only time I see her but I really wanna start talking to her just so she knows I like her.... Please help

2007-07-30 17:49:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Suddenly her thoughts come in to my mind and i think think think................. n its goes on............., at the last i end up wasting lots of time orelse iam a confident man i kwn how to divert my mind. But why i losing myself in her thoughts once in a while.

2007-07-30 17:48:11 · 34 answers · asked by Feel 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you think could be wrong with an adult female who's never had a relationship last longer than one year

2007-07-30 17:43:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really want them to think I am responsible enough to have another pet. Also I want my dad to stop yelling at me whenever there is a mess in our house.

2007-07-30 17:42:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

That is, what about him- or your view of him- caused you to become attracted to him not at first, but AFTER a period of time?

2007-07-30 17:41:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend drives me crazy when she _____

2007-07-30 17:40:30 · 12 answers · asked by die 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

current. He pays off and on, he has had two bench warrents out on him and one of them is still current. However, my issue is that he is a youth pastor at a local widely known baptist church. He also is a youth advisor. He has not paid any child support in months nor seen my child, and missed her birthday. He lives with his parents, two min. away from me. I feel like he is a hypocrite, and I want the truth out, what's the best way to handle this?

2007-07-30 17:29:46 · 14 answers · asked by single mami 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I cheated on my wife and I got herpes. She'll get pretty upset if she knows that I cheated on her, but she's not really that smart, so I think there's a way out. Are there any good herpes articles or magazines that can give me something to tell my wife? Her gyno keeps filling her head with nonsense about me cheating. Which I did, but she doesn't need to know.

2007-07-30 17:25:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How can you tell that you are ready to establish a relationship with your lover?What tells you or shows you that if you date him/she that it is defenetly going to be worth wild and last for a long period of time?

2007-07-30 17:20:54 · 8 answers · asked by devilishlilsoul8 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked out this boy to the movies and he asked me if I'd ever kissed a boy on the lips and I said no...I think he's planning on doing so at the movies if he does how should I do it? HELP MEEE

2007-07-30 17:19:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do guys like Blondes sooo much?????

2007-07-30 17:17:51 · 16 answers · asked by Sexy Lady 1 in Singles & Dating

Hmmm I am very tired to write the whole story about one girl that I found online...a month ago (besides yahoo answers does't allow many space for such things...).

In brief:
I am 21, and very unlucky in the "love things", never been with a girl and so on. I have a few contacts with girls indeed...

And it was the night of 8th June, I was browsing for girls in Mirc...and then write just so to one girl. She asked me, if I have pictures, and weexchanged our skype usernames for the purpose.
I expected to see some ugly little teen...but when I saw her for the first time, it was jut the contrary, nice face and so on.

So the time passes and we chat for anything...the conversation is going very easy. Unexpedtidly one day she invited me to hang out.
I agreed of course, but she said "ok I have some exams in the Uni, lets wait a few days". I said OK.

And then the problems started. I saw that with every day she is just trying to escape. The last time was yesterday...

thanks!

2007-07-30 17:14:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...and how long did it take you to get to that point in the relationship?

How long did it take you to be able to go #2 in front of them (with the bathroom door wide open)?

When a couple does things like fart, pick their nose, or use the toilet in front of each other, what is lost and what is gained in the relationship?

Does this harm the overall attraction factor? Do some of you still hide these things from each other even though you're married or have been together for a long time? Has it kept things more "mysterious"?

2007-07-30 17:11:02 · 11 answers · asked by cpc26ca 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I remember hearing something that meant that.

2007-07-30 17:10:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well wich feels better please tell me is there any difference.

2007-07-30 17:06:34 · 5 answers · asked by Jordan 1 in Singles & Dating

So today I had sex for the first time with my girlfriend of 2 years (She was a virgin as well) I'm wondering is, why didn't it feel as good as I thought it would? (Don't give me crap answers about my gf) Frankly, I was disapointed in the results. She said it really hurt for her, and shes still hurting hours later. Is this just because it's the first time? Or we were both virgins?

2007-07-30 17:05:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because i know most girls do this to win a boy over and i was just wondering if boys do it has nothing to do with my life im just extremely curious as to this question so PLEASE ANSWER and whoever tells it the best gets ten points BEST ANSWER

2007-07-30 17:01:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been watching Big Love on HBO for the past two seasons and I like the idea of having multiple spouses. I brought it up to my wife and she doesn't like the idea. It's not like I want a second wife, I want to give her a second husband. There's just so much to do around the house and I don't have 36 hours in a day.

What's the best way to convince my wife that having a second husband is good for our family?

2007-07-30 17:01:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-30 16:58:46 · 15 answers · asked by anaknivictoria 2 in Other - Family & Relationships