ok heres the deal my boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me a while back and i still like him alot i havnt been able to get over him but i was at skate country last friday and this other guy was majorly hitting on me like he came up behind me and hugged me for like five minutes and leaned in to kiss me twice but backed off both times cuz there was too many people around then he whispered to my friend and said i want to kiss her but not right here so im thinking of asking him out but the problem is i still like my ex alot and i dont know who to choose my ex who i really really really really like but i dont think he still likes me or the guy i really really like who im almost positive likes me? please hlp a girl out!
2007-07-30 18:06:02 · 24 answers · asked by Michelle B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you ask the right question. The thing is, you can't be absolutely positive about the feelings of the either guy. So, why don't you ask if they want to continue a friendship? It might happen that they are simply not prepared for anything really serious, so you can at least try to prepare them by asking the question. I feel, that the first guy wants to have a relationship with you, but can't afford it financially, while the second guy is "on his feet" financially, but is not really interested in having you as his friend. So, probably, the first guy is more preferable. But if you are not sure about him, I would recommend you to try "clearing up the air". Communicate, and you will get the right answer!
2007-08-02 02:24:18 · answer #1 · answered by Viktor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well I don't know how well you know this new guy but if you're positive you like him then I say go for it! But since you still have feelings for your ex I think it's really really REALLY important that before you get into a new relationship with this new guy that you let him know that your last relationship had a rocky ending. It seems as though you really really liked your ex and it means a LOT for you to even just consider moving on, it's a first step :) congrats! That alone shows that this new guy must mean quite a bit to you, unless you're using him to make the ex jealous? I'll let you be the judge of that though, good luck! :)
2007-07-31 01:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, well I know how you feel about the whole ex thing. I'm somewhat the same way. I think that if your ex is truely over you, the only way for you to get over him is to go with this guy. If it doesnt work out, and you still like your ex, chances are, if he likes you at all, he's going to be jealous that you went with another guy. After that, your ex may want you back, or maybe it will just be time to move on.
Hope I Helped!
2007-07-31 01:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by HelloBetty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get over the your ex boyfriend. It may be hard (i know how it feels) but getting involved with an ex usually never ends good, this other guy seems nice, i say its about time to stop liking your ex. Go for the new guy!
2007-07-31 01:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by Boy17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I had some what of the same problem but mine was more really wierd ****** crazy ***** but still liked her kind of situation in other words very complicated and she broke up with me and i was like reallly really liked her and finally got her back but this set off a chain of events that wasnt exactly fun so inother words if u really really like this guy then think about why u like him? was he good to u? do u guys laugh and have fun a bunch? is it really worth fretty over him? and is it time to move on? and u dont want to get soo into this guy that ur fricking out about him every waking moment so chill and think it over and have fun
2007-07-31 01:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bf of 4 months is not enough to really be in love, I could understand if it was 1 yr or more than I would tell you it's to early for another relationship, it would be having him as a rebound and he would be hurt by you, as you stand right now, ask him out, it doesn't hurt to see what the outcome would be.
2007-07-31 01:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by J1 M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on -
If you still considering your EX - its mistake
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get going with the bloke you like -.
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All go through life nevr knowing when and where we meent Mr Right or Miss Right.
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Depending on your age, just take time.
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Please dont be too foolish in rushing in to new relationships.
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Get to be friends - then see how your friendship progresses.
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Hope this helps
2007-07-31 01:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex is an ex for a reason but you should not enter another relationship while still caring so much for your ex...you need to take some time off and get your head on straight.
2007-07-31 01:09:36 · answer #8 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey your ex is an ex. go live for the moment and move to find a better deal
2007-07-31 01:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by curious6710 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ow you must be hot. well dus needs soul searching. but it depends what you are ready for right now coz 1 guy is probably more into having fun and not getting settled down and the other is looking to settle down. so which 1 are you?
and yes listen to your heart this time like the other one said
2007-07-31 01:12:08 · answer #10 · answered by l33nix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋