2007-07-30 16:58:46 · 15 answers · asked by anaknivictoria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell them the truth, but tell it according to their age and on a need to know basis. You don't have to go into a lot of detail, but be truthful. I always told my kids anything they asked. My daughter often said I told her too much, so that's why I said don't go into a lot of detail. Be forthright and don't act embarassed. After you answer their questions ask them if they understand and if there is anything else they would like to ask. Also reassure them that they should come to you with any questions and not their friends. Whatever you do don't laugh or make them feel guilty.
2007-07-30 17:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by zento1110 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon the age of the child who is asking. If the child is under age 4, it is ok to just say it is when a married man and his wife, connect their bodies together between their legs. An older child with some knowledge about the human anatomy and names for body parts should be told the correct names for the vagina and the penis and told exactly that intercourse is: the connecting of a male with a female by putting his penis into her vagina. It is always best to tell the facts in an unemotional manner, so that the child does not become confused or negatively impacted by the information.
2007-07-30 17:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the age of the child. I would suggest getting some books on the subject. They have really nice books you can both read and look at together. From books for very small children to the bigger kids. Explain things as you go along. Let them know to ask if they have any questions.
Regardless, it's uncomfortable. So just grin and fake like it's no big deal. I did. :)
2007-07-30 17:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by magikal01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the age of the child--small children dont need a long lecture on the facts of life.If you need to talk to a son or daughter and dont know how there are plenty of parent and child books out there for help.
2007-07-30 17:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by dove2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old the child is. It matters. You can talk about it as the way people reproduce and share love when they are married . We bought books that showed age-appropriate illustrations and explained what sex is for and that babies come from it.
2007-07-30 17:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on the age of the child. This is what they mean by "age appropriate" sex education. There are probably books about this and if you really have questions, you should probably consult the experts by reading a book.
2007-07-30 17:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the age, but always be truthful, and always lead into it in a loving manner....don't be scared to say enough-they usually are smarter than we thought!
2007-07-30 17:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by gypsylight17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that all depends on the childs age as to what and how much l say..
2007-07-30 17:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by narregirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on the caliber of question they ask, and you tailor the answer to the depth of that question
2007-07-30 17:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how old they are --- we found the best was to get some good children's books --- where did i come from --- is excellent --- it may be a tad old now but it gives a very basic overview of sex for small children ---- best wishes
2007-07-30 17:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋