That is, what about him- or your view of him- caused you to become attracted to him not at first, but AFTER a period of time?
2007-07-30 17:41:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personality, kindness, intelligence and humor can make someone more attractive.
2007-07-30 17:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I learned to overlook his looks because he had an attractive personality, I find the sexiest thing is a guy with a sense of humor someone who is very sweet and caring...so if i'm not physically into him i'll give him a shot in hopes his personality makes up for what he lacks in looks...even with the good looking ones his personality can make him out to be the ugliest person i've ever laid eyes on...the moment where i feel the spark what he looks like no longer becomes an issue in my book.
2007-07-31 00:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by TPete 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say it was his personality and his sense of humor. I was pretty closed minded about guys of my own race (black), because usually a good portion of them do like the chicks with the big butts and boobs. Long hair and acting as gettholicious as possible and stuff like that. But the one guy I talked to over the net was fun and exciting and different. He could even be very silly and had a higer level of maturity than I had ever expected. Which I loved. And that is what changed my mind about him.
2007-07-31 01:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical Appearance;if a guy or a girl is physically attractive,they get attracted to people at first but they might not have good character.
Character;if a guy/girl is not really attractive,people don't really want to know them but once they get closer to them,they see the beauty in them.
2007-07-31 02:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by No Stress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people aren't attracted to the people that they're with, physically I mean, at first. Sometimes, the prospective mates just grow on them. It could be their vibrant personality, their sense of humor that you were first attracted to. Personally, I'd rather be dating someone with a personality, and a sense of humor than with some adonis looking guy. That's my opinion.
2007-07-31 00:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I Once met a man who I just did not fancy he was so not my type yet he was there for me at differnet times, He always treated me with respect and if I walked in a room he looked and looks at me as if am the only one there. He first asked me out in 1998
and in Nov 2003 I said yes...we are still together
2007-07-31 00:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the guy is very thoughtful and always makes you feel that your a "lady" when you're with him.
Many possibilities like discovering that you have so many things in common.
Based on my experience, my fiance is not my greatest crush before.He's just an ordinary friend to me. But it turn out that we both love pets & nature.So that thing made us so close that leads to love.
2007-07-31 00:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by baby C0w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it was an appreciation of his views and values, his humour. The realisation that your day instantly improves after seeing them (while maybe not noticing it at first). and i became aware of them being attracted to me... (it shows good judgement, lol!) then i become more aware of them and interested in them etc... and loud chic gal was right- the twinkle in their eye is a definate turn on... makes you feel like they know something you don't.... or they're lauging at you on the inside and you want to share in the joke....
2007-07-31 00:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well good impressions aren't always the best , sometimes it takes time to get to know someone and realize you have more things in common that what you thought
2007-07-31 00:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, when i first saw my boyfirend i thought he was a thug and is dating 20 girls right now. then after i knew him i find out he was still street but he had a real life. i found out about his personality and **** like that. hope that helps
2007-07-31 00:46:26 · answer #10 · answered by **CAPN CALICO** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋