Family & Relationships - 30 July 2007

Are you more likely to take longer to propose because you are already getting sex?

2007-07-30 15:36:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am finding this to be one of the hardest parts of planning the wedding and am having trouble finding websites to help.

2007-07-30 15:35:46 · 5 answers · asked by Proud Momma 6 in Weddings

My mother and I have always been pretty loving towards each other. We've had our fights but not anything too difficult... Until recently. Three months ago my aunt, her sister, moved into our home. She is going through a separation from her husband and needed a place to go. Now, I just graduated from high school and my parents were supposed to build me a mini-apartment downstairs in our house. Since my aunt moved in the apartment has been built but she's the one living in it. I get annoyed because that was supposed to be MY space. I don't want to sound selfish because I know my aunt needs a place but the apartment isnt the only issue. My aunt is ALWAYS rude to me and my mom is beginning to do the same. My mom and aunt pick on me all the time - My mom even called me a slut today and told me I should be a stripper in front of my best guy friend. It really hurts my feelings when they gang up on me but I dont know how to tell them because when I try it gets worse... What should I do?

2007-07-30 15:34:52 · 11 answers · asked by Shailyn 1 in Family

2007-07-30 15:33:48 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

That are not in a church or has anything to do with religion. I just need it to do a project. thank you and please include website.

2007-07-30 15:30:45 · 1 answers · asked by A_FAST_DUDE 2 in Weddings

Can anyone help me find cheap fireworks that will last more than a mintue for my wedding? The cheapest ones that I have found are $0.54 for 96 sparklers that will last 1-2 minutes. Please help!

2007-07-30 15:30:41 · 6 answers · asked by Kris 2 in Weddings

Because if she is my sister-in-law's cousin(by blood) then she should be my cousin by marriage. Plus we all love each other like we have known each other for years but my brother just married my sister-in-law recently, and my sister-in-law's family are people we will be seeing for the rest of our lives because we all love each other. My sister-in-law's mother who is my brother's mother-in-law and her sisters love me like I was actually related to them by blood, and my mom and my sister-in-law's mother and aunts are like sisters. and when someone like my cousin is geting married we invite relatives like my sister-in-law's mom, dad, aunts, uncles, and her cousins. So is my sister-in-law's cousin related to me by marriage? Is there a name for it? Probably cousin by marriage isn't it.

2007-07-30 15:27:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a white female, and I've been asked out bye 2 african american guys. I said yes but I'm not attracted to them. Does that mean I'm racist? I have nothing against them by the way.

2007-07-30 15:27:54 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k i am wit this guy and he reals amasing but 4 sum reason i still find my thinkin of my ex and talkin to him and i try not to and when we do talk he tell me that he loves me and he wants to be wit me but i always turn him down cuz i love my current boyfriend but i am confused then i ask myself do i really do love him?
any sugestions on what i can do?

2007-07-30 15:26:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay im like 18 now and my parents won't let me stay up after 10, tonight i got lucky since im at a freends house. I can't stay out past 10 either. I mean im legal now, the least they can do is make my curfew 12AM.

How do i change their minds. Im not a bad person or anything.

2007-07-30 15:23:43 · 16 answers · asked by SP. 2 in Family

I'm just wondering

2007-07-30 15:23:40 · 11 answers · asked by dawn 5 in Weddings

She has gotten close to a guy that is married and my wife babysits for him and his wife. My wife says that he is just a friend and there is no sexual attraction. I feel threatend by him and I can't convince my wife that he is getting to close. We have since strated having problems and my wife says she just "needs her space" and in time our relationship can get back to where it was. What should I do? She says that I should not make her choose between her friend and me.

2007-07-30 15:23:36 · 16 answers · asked by Mike 4 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, im just trying ot see what the majority of teenage guys like in a girl. for instance, would you rather have someone who is....

short or tall?
long hair, medium, or short?
popular or normal?
dresses preppy/popular like or dont care?
intellegent [but has a life and doesnt focus on how smart she is all the time], a nerd or clueless?
good with kids or hates kids?
charitable or selfish?
kind or mean?
friends with more guys or girls?
nice to everyone and well liked or not?
gets attention from people or reserved?
outgoing and bold or shy and reserved?
all around PERFECT or sometimes embarasses herself?
gorgeous or average looking [not ugly but not supermodel looking]
average weight or super skinny?

^^^you dont have to choose all of these. they are just some ideas., but feel free to. just describe your perfect girl.

2007-07-30 15:22:03 · 7 answers · asked by yeahxitsxsarah 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is an alcoholic, and I have come to believe that it is only a matter of time before it is over. I love him very much, but I know you cannot help someone who does not want to be helped. He doesn't see what the big deal is, having been raised in an alcoholic family. Anyhow, he has an excellent paying job, and I am disabled. We have two daughters, ages 3 & 2, and I am worried about what we will do financially when I kick him to the curb. He isn't abusive or beligerant at all when he drinks, he just likes to work alot when he has the buzz. I was never raised around drinkers though, and I do not want my children to be. So what should I do about the bills and such when he leaves? I have no family to turn to - actually, my disabled father depends on my husband and I - he lives with us. Any advice would be appreciated.

2007-07-30 15:21:58 · 7 answers · asked by portiaraylee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i was wanting to see my father but my mom is saying no and i really want to and my dad said that she technicly cant say no

2007-07-30 15:21:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do teen boys have to do and have during their"first time"?

Please dont report this question

2007-07-30 15:20:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband and I have been married for two years now. We've been together for five years total. At first, we had a healthy sex life; however, when he got his otr truck driving job only six months after we married, things started to gradually go downhill in the sex department. I'm always innovative and very sexual when he comes home (he drives for three weeks and comes home for 4 days), but through the one year and a half that he's been driving, our sex life has gone from healthy, to pretty much non existent. We'll be intimate the first night he comes home, but afterward, it's foreplay (if I initiate) and that's it. Nothing else during the rest of his stay. He's 28 yrs old and overweight. I've heard that some overweight young men have trouble in this area. But how much trouble can an overweight male have in the peak of his sexual drive? Any honest and mature opinions?

2007-07-30 15:20:45 · 41 answers · asked by sweet_natally 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have never met her but i have talked to her online and seen pics. my friends have met her shes hott

2007-07-30 15:12:01 · 3 answers · asked by Michael R 2 in Singles & Dating

a gift for one of your best friends

2007-07-30 15:07:39 · 20 answers · asked by vanessa f 1 in Weddings

2007-07-30 15:04:43 · 10 answers · asked by replexgirl 6 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i dont have much of a sex life... I just dont have the urge.. like ever! I found out a couple weeks ago that my hormones are all messed up and i dont know if that is it, or what.. Any ideas on what to do to get the desire back?

2007-07-30 15:03:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay this guy is the definition of discusting. he wont clean. and he dosent take the hint. were even getting evicted because hes so messy. hes the biggest packrat and hes very hardheaded. he doesnt want anyone to tell him what to do and he gets his pantys in a bunch any time some one tells him to clean and do it right. for ex. the kitchen is the dirtiest place in the house cuz he cooks and then leaves wrappers and food in the pan and theres always flys. so i scrubbed it but it got gross again so i scrubbed it again. right after i finished i went up to him while his fat but was sitting on the couch with his box of cereal and asked him to mop the floor. he really didnt want to but i gave him the look that said. get your ace up and do it and dont wait until tomarrow. so he got up grabbed the mop and started. he didnt use ay chemical and he basically threw a fit because i told him to go in there and do it again. how can i get him to shape up and clean. hes making problems 4 everyone.

2007-07-30 15:02:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-30 15:01:23 · 11 answers · asked by britty_jane 2 in Singles & Dating

do most people m.....e more these days?

2007-07-30 14:58:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was playing around with my mom and she was playing around with me and i kidda told i hated her i started thinking of all the thing she did for me and i felt horrble

2007-07-30 14:58:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i ask this becuz i might be pregnant and im real scared to tell my mom becuz she over reacts for alot of things,i dont want her to hit me so should i tell her and if she hits me(runaway)??
or dont tell her and just go(and if she finds me tell her why i left?!)

2007-07-30 14:57:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am cute funny and loving and guys say i am hot.. help now really need help lol

2007-07-30 14:57:57 · 4 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Singles & Dating

If that makes any sense. Just about 2 weeks ago I found out she had been going through some "tough times" I soon figured out when I entered her room her living style became much more gothic and reserved. I found the messages on her bed frame to be the most disturbing. Consisting of "**** life", "My scars remind me that the past is real", "I hate myself + *crossed out*" and other unimaginable phrases. I find the most horrifying however the self-inflicted scars on her wrist. I was certain that that was a stereotype of "Emos" that was untrue. I'm not sure how this happened but I fear for my cousin's safety as she also Drinks, smokes illegal substances, and other perhaps unspeakable acts.

And to think 4 years ago we were practically best friends watching cartoons and playing games w/o this problem.
Sometimes I wish I was there to guide her through her problems. I almost feel like we are 2 completely opposite people now and quite frankly It tears me apart.
Any advice is welcome. Thx

2007-07-30 14:57:37 · 1 answers · asked by Draquoir 5 in Family

I feel like I am....I never lived by myself for more than 3 months...
and after being married for 7 years, divorced for almost one I feel like im gonna kill myself one day from being home alone...
I work a lot 7 days a week,,but waking up in the morning and at night I can't stand it....Did anyone try to kill themselves out of boredom???

2007-07-30 14:56:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Seems when I need him, he is not here for me. I don't know if I am really looking for any kind of answer here. Maybe I am just venting. He leaves home occasionally, without saying a word to anyone. Someone will ask "Where's Dad?" We'll look and the vehicle is gone. He doesn't come home till later. If he doesn't help fix my problem tonight, it will probably be too late tomorrow. I am very mad and hurt. I am ASSUMING he is at the bar. But this is how he works it.

2007-07-30 14:55:47 · 7 answers · asked by krymarbet 1 in Marriage & Divorce