k i am wit this guy and he reals amasing but 4 sum reason i still find my thinkin of my ex and talkin to him and i try not to and when we do talk he tell me that he loves me and he wants to be wit me but i always turn him down cuz i love my current boyfriend but i am confused then i ask myself do i really do love him?
any sugestions on what i can do?
2007-07-30 15:26:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to remind yourself why he's your "ex" and stop forgeting the reasons why you broke up in the first place. Don't screw up your current relationship to go back in the past. If your current boyfriend finds out you are still talking to your ex, he may break it off with you.
2007-07-30 15:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by Be me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give yourself a real break from your ex and give your new boyfriend a chance. You could be still talking to him because you feel you can fall back on him if things don't work out with your current BF. Stop talking to the ex and decide whether or not you want to be with your current BF. You need to make a choice and stick with it. If you don't you will lose both of them.
2007-07-30 15:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by Mickey M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about why and how you broke up with your ex. Usually ex's are ex's for a reason. Stick with the dude you got if you really do love him and stop talking to the other guy. Don't let the ex play you.
2007-07-30 15:32:36 · answer #3 · answered by REX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your still thinking about your ex I dont think your all into your current BF.
If you want to get over your ex I suggest you cut off all ties with him. Thats the reason you probably have him on the brain, because you still talk to him and he's sweet talking you. Thats disrespectful to you and your current BF. And your being disrespectful because your allowing it to happen
MAKE A CHOICE GIRL, YOU CAN'T HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT TOO
2007-07-30 15:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by Krys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love the one you are with now just stop talking to your ex , because most likely the only reason he is saying all that stuff to is because he doesn't want you to be happy with someone else. I've just lost a girl that believe her ex and now she doesn't ether one of us . Her ex really didn't want her and I won't take her back. the best thing is just stay away from him. Good luck .
2007-07-30 15:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by nelson88san 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a suggestion. STOP talking to the EX. Imagine how it would make your current bf feel. And honestly what's the point? He obviously wants you back so why put yourself in that position? Have some respect for your boyfriend and stop talking to him.
2007-07-30 15:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With what you are saying, yes its wrong for you to be talking to the ex. It feels good when someone says they love ya, but he is an ex for a reason. Remember. Stop talking to him or stop seeing the new bf.
2007-07-30 15:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by T I 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong to talk to them or even be friends but dont do these things.
1. Mention your ex to your current
2. Do group thing where both your ex and current are there.
3. Dont ever!, blow off your current to do ANYTHING with your ex
2007-07-30 15:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spell check please...it would be easier to make sense of what you are saying. You need to decide which one you want. There is a reason someone is an ex.
2007-07-30 15:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at both of the boys weaknesses & strengths. They're interest & things that thy're not interested in. Compare the two & see which one is right for you & see which one you think you woould have a better & a more fun life with.
2007-07-30 15:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by Yay Area 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋