If that makes any sense. Just about 2 weeks ago I found out she had been going through some "tough times" I soon figured out when I entered her room her living style became much more gothic and reserved. I found the messages on her bed frame to be the most disturbing. Consisting of "**** life", "My scars remind me that the past is real", "I hate myself + *crossed out*" and other unimaginable phrases. I find the most horrifying however the self-inflicted scars on her wrist. I was certain that that was a stereotype of "Emos" that was untrue. I'm not sure how this happened but I fear for my cousin's safety as she also Drinks, smokes illegal substances, and other perhaps unspeakable acts.
And to think 4 years ago we were practically best friends watching cartoons and playing games w/o this problem.
Sometimes I wish I was there to guide her through her problems. I almost feel like we are 2 completely opposite people now and quite frankly It tears me apart.
Any advice is welcome. Thx
2007-07-30 14:57:37 · 1 answers · asked by Draquoir 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you saw my other question it was the 15 yr cousin I'm talking about.
2007-07-30 14:58:11 · update #1
Lol All I do is listen. I guess that is the best remedy. No questions right? I guess that makes sense
2007-07-30 15:33:18 · update #2
All you can do is listen. Don't offer advice, she needs an ear. If she is suicidal, make sure you tell your parents.
2007-07-30 15:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋