Family & Relationships - 30 July 2007

My MIL is very jealous of my mom. My mom and I are very close. I have a 4 year old son and at b-day parties there always seems to be problems. My mother in law instead of being happy that my mom buys my son stuff makes it out like she tries to out do her. Mind you my mother in law won't even buy her own gifts. She makes me go out and do it then pays me back. My mom has done nothing but be nice to her. My mother in law always ask if my mom is getting rid of clothes and stuff and always wants them but then says hurtful things about mom. My mom and dad gave my hubby and I $10,000 for our 1st home then we sold it to move into their old because they bought another home. We didn't have to pay them a dime. Instead of MIL being happy because her son's family has a roof over their heads she gets mad. There is a lot more to the story too. I posted another question about how is won't even visit my son. He is almost 5 and she has only visited 10 times. We visit them alot and invite them but nothin

2007-07-30 19:01:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my parent's dont like know anything about me, what should i do?

2007-07-30 19:01:01 · 7 answers · asked by Chelsea 2 in Family

i am 15 and me and my grandma was going to play a joke on my mom we though bout letting my grandma tell her that she found out that was going to be a dad soon that i meet a girl and bam i am a dad should i do it and what els could i do. thx

2007-07-30 18:59:20 · 5 answers · asked by Johnathan D 1 in Family

I love him and all but I keep wondering if he's bi or somthing. I'd like it if he would just tell me i'll still love him the way he is but...if hes's gonna like guys more than me than he should be with a guy..UGGG its just all confusing. I can't tell if he's just real sensitive or not idk. what are signs of just...not liking girls anymore. He says he loves me and all these things that he wants us to do. He misses me alot and tells me personal stuff but I just gotta ask this.....

2007-07-30 18:55:40 · 2 answers · asked by Chaoticxkidddd 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister was planning a wedding for just a few weeks from now, and then her fiance got word that his leave had been cancelled, and his deployment was moved up to a week before the wedding. Does the army not care about people's plans/lives?

2007-07-30 18:54:59 · 9 answers · asked by Belle 5 in Weddings

My girl broke up with me last Sunday, because she wanted me to see that I could be happy without her. She basically got tired of me complaining about alot of things going on in my life and I can see now where I went wrong. At first, I told her how much I loved her and how I didn't think we could just "be friends." I didn't keep doing that though, I decided to go along with her wish. She changed her status on myspace and facebook to "single." I changed mine to that too, but then to "divorced" and then she changed hers on myspace to "divorced" as well. On Friday we hung out. We went out to eat, went to the park, and went to a movie. I paid for it all. I made a joke at dinner just 10 minutes into our "date", and she said she can't help being sexually attracted to me. At the end of the night I told her I loved her and wanted her to be happy, she said she loved me, I hugged her, and then I left. We have been talking just about everyday through either email or phone and she even said that sh

2007-07-30 18:54:56 · 4 answers · asked by Mint Car 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend got mad and acted pretty rude because we saw each on a night we weren't "supposed too", just to go get some food. He has us on a schedule of when we can see each other, and he gets mad if we don't stick to it because that messes up h is alone time (yes, he really is alone not cheating). Is it possible that getting mad about something like this really is just his personality, like he says?

2007-07-30 18:53:48 · 10 answers · asked by Pamie 1 in Singles & Dating

Well i have a guy friend and we known each other since middle school.And now we both are going into the high school together.But as each day goes by i'm kinda starting to like him.I all ways chat to him on myspace.com IM.But i do not know how to tell him well because i'm kinda new to this and very shy to.But i have no clue if he likes me or not.But the bad thing about me asking him out i am afraid that we will lose our friendship over it.What should i do.When ever i am around i start to shake a little and my hands attend to sweat like crazy and i just can't think right.lol

2007-07-30 18:53:11 · 1 answers · asked by - Allison 6 in Singles & Dating

Im 15. ma 12 year old cuzzie named Amy. She clings 2 me all da time. its obvious 2 every1 dat she tries 2 get ma attention. She even tells her ppl she hates ma dads side of da family, cuz supposibly there takin me away from her.everytime im talkin w/ some1 else she interrupts and starts talkin bout things me and her have in common, like Anime.She nos i LOVE 2 watch anime. She started watchin anime becuz i told her i loved 2 watch it. everythin i like she strats likin. She always wants 2 sleep over at ma house. at night( i have a 2 person bed) she falls asleep and hugs me all da time. i just sigh in da middle of it and go.. oh well guess im sleepin like dis. i woke up cuz she waz sleep kissin ma stomach, SHE WAZ STILL ASLEEP!
s0 i g0t weirded out by her thinkin shes gettin 2 attached. s0 i started actin a lil mean 2 her. then 1 day r cuzzis tried 2 mak us kis when we were talkin and they yell "kissy!" and when i saw dat... i didnt move. i let them. now im confused.Wats wrong w/ me?

2007-07-30 18:52:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my gf's birth certificate has her grandparents listed as her birth parents, but they definitely aren't her biological parents. They adopted her when she was five and raised her. How and why are they named as her parents? Is this legal?

2007-07-30 18:48:57 · 5 answers · asked by shinypony 2 in Family

2007-07-30 18:47:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last summer i met this guy and we were becoming really good friends but then his family had to move out of the state. about a month ago he told me his family was moving back and would im and message me on myspace constantly saying how he was going to come over as soon as he got back and how excited he was to see me again. we talked up until the day he moved back. then he just stopped talking to me. i would comment him asking him when we were gonna hang out but he wouldn't write back. tonight i sent him an im and he was extremely mean to me. like i had done something to him or something. i didn't do anything. i don't understand why he is acting so rude. i know that some of his close friends don't like me, could that be it?

2007-07-30 18:46:43 · 16 answers · asked by :] 2 in Singles & Dating

I never liked wearing clothing. As a little girl, I would often rip off my cloths and say I was a nudist. My mother had to try very hard to get me to wear clothing, but I still don't feel it's natural.

I'll wear panties and tank top around the house, but my husband is rather shy about his body. It took months of my good influence before he'd even walk around without a shirt on! It's funny, because I'd go out in public topless, it's legal where I'm from, but sometimes I wonder is it odd? Would this bother other people as much as wearing clothing bothers me?

So, would you mind if your spouse stopped getting dressed?

2007-07-30 18:36:41 · 17 answers · asked by qwertatious 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I promised my boyfriend i wouldnt go to an alcohol party and drink. So i didnt go, and they cancelled it anyway. I had a few friends over and we went to a friends house to pick up DVDs. While there, they offered a sip of After Shock. I had one because i didn't think it was a big deal, or going against the promise. One of my friends posted on a myspace bulletin about their last drink being friday and he confronted me about it. So, I confessed about having a sip. He got REALLY upset. He says he made a mistake trusting me. and that i broke his heart. I didn't mean to, i didn't know. I've been crying ever since and I dont know what to do. He means so much to me, and I dont want him to leave me. He said he wasnt sure if hed give me a second chance or not.

i dont know what to do ;-[

2007-07-30 18:36:24 · 3 answers · asked by donthaveanickname 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to be a better man and take her back, we broke up not too long ago, she broke up with me, she has many times.. she has bi polar and is unmedicated. she also has alot of pain and sadness in her heart, i feel like when we were together i could not take care of her well enough but i love her more than anything in the world. and just want her back, for a few days she acted like she hated me.. but now she opened up to me saying no one would take her sadness or her for who she is, but i just want her to know that i will and that i can, she invited me to a carnival this week and im going, i want her back so much what can i do?

2007-07-30 18:35:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and baby's daddy is a raging alcholic, and he talks to me like I'm a peice of crap. I feel like he uses me for money, and he doesnt have a job because he can't read or write. He is good with his kids though, but my problem is I hate him so much at times and desperatly want to leave him. For some reason he charms his way back in and I forgive him. I don't know what to do. It sounds stupid right just leave him, but unless youve delt with this its more complicated. He promises to never drink again, and than tells me I'm not his mom I can't tell him what to do. I'm trying to support two children and go to school. He treats me so bad, and yet I still stay...
If anyone has any suggestions on how I can better my situation please let me know. I can't take this any longer.

2007-07-30 18:34:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I AM 47 AND LOOKING. THE ONLY SINGLE, WELL EMPLOYED MAN ASKING ME OUT IS 72 YEARS OLD .WHAT CAN I EXPECT SEXUALLY?

2007-07-30 18:33:45 · 8 answers · asked by utopia264 2 in Singles & Dating

Are we supposed to give the guy credit for doing what he is supposed to do?
Does he sound like a liberal girlly man. I mean why is that something you would put on a car?
Would a woman put "I love my husband on her car" I do love my wife but why do I need a sticker to say that. All that matters is that my wife knows.

2007-07-30 18:33:11 · 23 answers · asked by Parrot Bay 4 in Marriage & Divorce

and......I need to sleep, small bed, no space, big ofe and two dogs, it just doesnt work!

2007-07-30 18:32:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and how she can't fight back or get away from him, than suddenly, you look at your feet and see him standing only three inches tall, staring up at you in fear. He quickly runs across your floor in an attempt to get away from you after you notice him. What would you do and say?

2007-07-30 18:32:32 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Friends

I have 3 types, rednecks, cowboys, and jock. They all have something that I adore about them.what is your type???

2007-07-30 18:31:24 · 15 answers · asked by ♥I_rock_you♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

I was talking to a friend of mine. He's asked me my age on many different occasions. He asked me again, but I wouldn't tell him. He said it was freaking him out that I wouldn't tell him. I asked why and he said, because you're going to say 16 or 17. Does this mean he's interested in me, but afraid that I'm underage? He won't tell me straight out. I haven't told him my age, because I thought it might freak him out, and now I know it will. What does he mean by this? Is he interested? Is there any chance that he isn't? Is there any logical reason for him saying this, besides being interested? Please help.

2007-07-30 18:29:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a man and have had this problem for a while. They are sensitive to the touch and even hurt while running. Please help.

2007-07-30 18:29:51 · 2 answers · asked by manugi20 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife has cheated on me with this other guy that she has been seeing. She says she will never talk to him again, yet I see his number on our phone records more than I see that she talked to me. What should I do?

2007-07-30 18:29:32 · 12 answers · asked by nystateofmind8989 2 in Marriage & Divorce

But when life's got you down, how do you guys actually do these wonderful rosy things? When I'm upbeat, consoling a friend, it's easy to say, 'buck up, man! you'll be okay! time heals!' But does anyone have practical, baby steps style advice for getting your head straight?

2007-07-30 18:28:39 · 5 answers · asked by escapethezombies 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and his ex-wife of 14 years got divorced a year ago. They have 3 children together who primarily live with their mom but stay with their dad 1-2 nights a week (they live 60 miles apart). They never saw a judge for child support/alimony but instead they mutually decided on a set amount that they had notarized so it's legal in court. He's agreed to pay her $500 a week which is nearly 80% of what he makes. The mother refuses to work (she's never worked a day in her life, but not by HIS choice... she just refuses). He pays 100% of everything for the kids and for HER, which doesn't seem right. She stopped making her car payment, so it got repo'd and now his kids have no way to get around town. She is close to getting evicted from her apartment for late rent. We're worried about the kids and want to fight for full custody. The problem is, we have no extra money for a lawyer and either does she. I'm trying to stay out of it but I love these kids too much. Any Advice?

2007-07-30 18:27:35 · 4 answers · asked by Pepper_31 1 in Family

My boyfriend has been through a divorce. But his soon-to-be ex called him suddently and said she changed her mind.
I love my boyfriend and will not give up over some crazy lady.(it is all her fault to break their marrige)
But I sort of disoriented here, I am afraid of the possibility that she will stop us(me and him) being together.
Is she able to be the threat?

2007-07-30 18:26:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in middle school and i'm not a geek or a nerd but somehow i always get a bad rep for being one because of these 3 stories
1. i was on my street and a couple high school kids related to my friend who was not there at the time say that my friend left something for me in there basement. one whips out a camera the other pantsed me and wedgied me my whole school heard.
2.recently} my girlfriend lured me near the bathroom and then i got beaten pantsed and piss swirled.
3. Worst of ALL. i was in these college kids basment [3 girls 2 boys drunk] the girls kicked me in my balls shoved me in the bathroom where i was pantsed told to put on tighty wightys [i said no threatened to show the video to the neighborhood kids] so i do then a wedgie cute girls laghing calling me a nerd and then a piss swirlie for at least two minutes and they put me in a full nelson head lock and shoved my head up one of the girls bare butt.
how do i change and avoid all of this

2007-07-30 18:23:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband drives truck for a living and is almost always on the road. Our anniversary is coming up, and he's really worried that he may not make it home in time. The thing is, I know he's trying like heck to get here in time, but there's a chance things just might not work out. I really don't want him to stress so much about it anymore than he's going to - meaning, I don't want him to worry about my reactions if he can't make it.

All that being said... what can I say to let him know I won't get angry if he can't make it? I tried telling him that already, but I got the impression that he thought I was "doing the girl thing" (act happy on the outside, pouting on the inside). I'm just happy knowing he's trying, you know? I don't know how to word it to make sure he knows I'm sincere. Any suggestions?

2007-07-30 18:20:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am at a dire need of advice or anything PLEASE. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 4 almost 5 months, and all in all we love eachother very much, , It was at the theatre's were everything seemed fine, all it took was a small talk about her moving, and how she was still going to visit, so as it would be natural for me,..I got kinda surprised, and before we both knew it the date was over and our parent's were coming for us. Keep in mind im 17 she's 14.

Ok. But that's not the problem that Im having or had...
It's when she left she called me and asked if I was mad over the little arguement..and I was like no...not at all. Then her phone hanged up. So I got curious, and texted her saying "uh...did you just break up with me?"
I just couldn't help it, but the mistake that had happened was that her mother NOW had the phone in her possesion...oops!
her mom replied with "she's not allowed to date" so later she was forced to break up =[..my chest hurts alot right now should I wait?

2007-07-30 18:18:07 · 5 answers · asked by Andrew R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships