he got mad because?

Question

My boyfriend got mad and acted pretty rude because we saw each on a night we weren't "supposed too", just to go get some food. He has us on a schedule of when we can see each other, and he gets mad if we don't stick to it because that messes up h is alone time (yes, he really is alone not cheating). Is it possible that getting mad about something like this really is just his personality, like he says?

Answer 1

I'd drop him like a dog shedding a bad case of fleas. Tell him to stick his schedule where the sun don't shine because u r a free spirit and he doesn't own u and that god didn't put u in this world to make him happy. I'm a guy. Good luck.

Answer 2

sounds like you are taking this relationship more seriously than him... sounds like the relationship is ready to grow but he is unwilling, but alone time is something that one should be able to have without having to make the partner upset, if one of the persons is unable to respect the others time alone then maybe that needs to be examined also, he could be making schedule just so boundaries are clear.. or responsabilities are not neglected.. intersting, but since you are upset and asking if he could be cheating, i assume you are uncomfortable with it and with that, you either need to examine yourself, in order to better understand your feelings, whether missguided or not, or ask yourself some tough questions abou,t if this is the right fit for you.. and why is it on his schedule anyway, shouldnt that be a collective agreement??

Answer 3

well to me watch out for the signs ,even you know he is not cheating he probably is, if he got y'all on a schedule which i think is stupid, any man will come up with an ex use. say you follow the schedule and you home , he can be out with another chick, if i was you just follow him one night and see whats he doing then you know for real. trust me i did this with my sister and the guy was so nice saying he is not cheating , then at the end of the following he really was, he had another life going on with another chick, think like a dude

Answer 4

sounds like he has some kind of obsessive compulsive problems...that's not a personality thing that's a neurotic ocd thing...i should know, me brother is ocd. if you're really close, talk with him about how it makes you feel that you're slotted time like homework and tv and you want to be a little more to him than a book or a box. if you've only been dating a little while, tell him you want to take a break and if he goes out of his way to meet you at anytime, take him back, if not find a less neurotic guy.

Answer 5

It might just be him, because I'm kinda liek that. If I'm around people too much I start to kinda look for reasons to not like them or just notice more things, so if I keep a lil distance or take a lil break I'll probably stay cool.

Answer 6

He's setting you up.

He doesn't have to be cheating to be mentally abusing you by establishing himself as superior--due to his artificial time constraints.

Suppose YOU decided that you need 'alone time' and it is precisely on the dates and times that he has allowed you to share with him!

Would he change his schedule, or would that be a breakup reason?

Think about it.





Then dump him asap.

Answer 7

he got mad over something stupid!!!!!!!!! My husband and I both have our nights they dont happen very often, only when we can find a babysitter..But I go out with my girls to a club or bar and he goes out with his guys!! If we see each other at the same bar or whatever its cool with both of us!! But tell him HES BEING STUPID!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

The only fear is that when the seed is like that a plant is bound to grow abusive.

Answer 9

this sounds verry strange
sounds like he is cheating
to me

Answer 10

that doesn't sound normal..

i'd ask him about it