I have a question please help me?

Question

Well i have a guy friend and we known each other since middle school.And now we both are going into the high school together.But as each day goes by i'm kinda starting to like him.I all ways chat to him on myspace.com IM.But i do not know how to tell him well because i'm kinda new to this and very shy to.But i have no clue if he likes me or not.But the bad thing about me asking him out i am afraid that we will lose our friendship over it.What should i do.When ever i am around i start to shake a little and my hands attend to sweat like crazy and i just can't think right.lol

But i have his myspace and we chat a whole lot but the problem is i don't want to risk our friendship.But i really like him.What should i do

Answer 1

The whole "I don't want to risk my friendship" is well... IMMATURE!!!! You people, don't be offened adults do this same ignarant thing too, so hopfully I can educated you on the true nature of lovin. See Friendships grow!!! What do they grow in to? Not Super Deluxe Ultra Great Best Friends, nope not at all. Friendships simple grow DEEPER, thats it, you feel for each other the more time you spend with each other and guess what feeling for someone is? LOVE! Thats right, so the way to see it is sort of like a math formula... are you good at math? Ether way

Friends+time+honesty+same sex relationship+no sexual attrativness=Best Friends

Friends+time+Honest+different sex relationshi+sexual attratiness=Lovers!!!

Thats right the natural course of different sex relationship were sexual attrativness is apart of it is to become lovers, sorry see that feeling you feel is the fact that your scared to loss the relaitonship! Not the friendship. Because deep down your not sure if he "sees" it the same way, or "feels" it the same way. Lets just say this, IF your not ready to communicate truly your feelings to this guy, then maybe its time to accept that he isn't the one to do this with because your simple not comfrontable with him. Now if its just your nativness and inexperience thats stopping you, let me just say TALK TO HIM, HONESTLY, ABOUT THE WAY YOU FEEL! At the most you'll loss someone who really isn't your friends, at the most the friendship will grow closer. See I've been that guy.... about 5 times? Were the lady said something to me about her feelings? Toward me. And everytime I was honest back about what I felt. Doesn't gaurentee you'll get the boy because you both have to be past that whole ooo were just friends cope out that are society thinks is fair. But I have a feeling if your honest this well go well and you'll feel stupid about why you didn't do it later, becaue hunnie if you loss him, he isn't a friends, its better you did;) In the end, truth, love always provails! Well If we let it.....