Possible to get back together?

Question

My girl broke up with me last Sunday, because she wanted me to see that I could be happy without her. She basically got tired of me complaining about alot of things going on in my life and I can see now where I went wrong. At first, I told her how much I loved her and how I didn't think we could just "be friends." I didn't keep doing that though, I decided to go along with her wish. She changed her status on myspace and facebook to "single." I changed mine to that too, but then to "divorced" and then she changed hers on myspace to "divorced" as well. On Friday we hung out. We went out to eat, went to the park, and went to a movie. I paid for it all. I made a joke at dinner just 10 minutes into our "date", and she said she can't help being sexually attracted to me. At the end of the night I told her I loved her and wanted her to be happy, she said she loved me, I hugged her, and then I left. We have been talking just about everyday through either email or phone and she even said that sh

She wanted to continue our "meeting at the park some night." I've been talking to her everyday and even last night I said something along the lines of, " I don't think I was given a fair chance." She said something like, "I'm just watching you right now.." I don't know what to think...if I should put the moves on her next time or what. We were together for almost 2 years.

I know for a fact that she had a good time on Friday. She kept talking about other things she wants to do together. Does this sound like someone that might eventually want to get back with me?

Ok, when I say "put the moves on" I just mean showing affection. I don't really mean getting action or anything. I just want her to know how I really feel and sometimes doing that in a physical manner is the best way.

Should I continue to tell her that I love her? I said so in the email I said last night. We use to tell each other that every day, but this last week I haven't really been saying, because of what happend of course. The night we hung out I said it though and so did she. The next few days we didn't however. Also, would it be embarassing for her to all of sudden be telling her friends that we are in a "relationship" again and change her little facebook thingie?

Answer 1

It seems like to me that you two definitely still have a very strong attraction to each other. You may or may not get back together. I don't think you should try to make a move, but I think you need to ask her where your relationship is going. If not, it could lead to a lot of hurt in the long run which I am sure you or her do not want. The next time you are talking, face-to-face, ask her what she sees for your future together.

Best of all and I hope it works out for you.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Looks like you may have a second chance with her , but you have to make some changes if you want to have a good relationship with her.You say she was tired of complaints, well then, it looks like you'll have to find another outlet to release the tension of those complaints instead of loading the girl down with your depressing baggage.Ask her honestly what you could do to make the relationship better,if she wants to give you another chance, she will give you an honest answer .If she gives you some sort of no- good excuse then she probably doesn't want to try again and maybe she's just being nice to you as not to hurt your feelings .Whatever you do, don't "put the moves on her " until you're absolutely sure that what she wants, or you'll just look like you want a piece of action instead of true love.Good luck and best wishes.

Answer 4

Let's see now. You've been dating this girl for 2 years. She dumped you. That hurt you. Now you have a chance to get her back. And your primary concern seems to be whether "to put the moves on her next time". Charming. She's a smart girl to be "watching you right now". And I'd bet she's watching closely indeed. I'd tread very lightly, my young friend.