me and my gf were together for 8 months we've been broken up for 4 and tried to fix things and we also promess

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not to see other ppl we pretty much asked like we are together but there's this guy i hate and she decided to go to the movies with him and stuff and he keeps telling her that he will beat me up so i can leave her leave her alone and to kiss him on when she sees me so i can leave her alone, and shes been giving hr phone number to other guys and stuff but she says she loves me but she lies to me and is always with guys at summer school my english teacher was there teaching and told me she saw her being all ovr other ppl, so what do i do ireally love her im really sad i've kept my end of the bargain :-(

Answer 1

...... love is never enough, its how you use that love buddy. So you just saying how much your love her means.... well nothing. I love money does that mean I'm rich? The reason I say this is because if you actual applied love to your thinking you would 1. understand her, 2. know how to handle her, 3 know were the heck she is coming from. So this going on tells me that 8 months was just a nice romantic partnership that ended when the romance did. Realise that at the center of any deep, meaningful relatinship is a friendship, not romance, not love, but a bond, the love helps you to feel, feelings it isn't the feelings thou. Its an emotion whose job it is to excite response in use both mentally and physically. So if you didn't have the right response well this happens..... not just your fault neither buddy, in human relationships when they fail, all parties fail.....