I have friend who is now getting gigs a model. She has lots of friends and even more now. When she was down and sad and heavy she talked to me often, via email too. And I was there for her. Yet now i am going thru a lot in life and she will not talk to me. it hurts a lot. She has these modeling jobs and magazines now and now she has many people lusting and looking at her. I am now invisible and worthless in her eyes now i guess. It makes me mad because this kind of treatment from women has followed me thru life. i am beginning to hate her and I want her to leave me alone forever. For me, its just another women who has been cruelt to me and then is rewarded for it. She is loved by everyone now. She is married and her husband cheated on her but she went back to him cause of his status i guess.
2007-07-30 16:16:08 · 21 answers · asked by Misunderstood 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay away from her-sometimes we have to say at lease we were loving enough to help...now let it go
2007-07-30 16:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by butterflyfrills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would send her one last email to give yourself closure. I would tell her how hurt you are that you were there for her when she was no one- had nothing - and now, when you're going through things, she just forgets and isn't your friend. I would tell her you no longer wish to be her friend. If she emails you back something mean, don't email back. Just let it be. If she emails you with a genuine apology, then I would start the process of trying to heal that friendship but I'd let her know it takes 2. Although you might feel a little jealous because her life seems so great, it's not - so don't feel jealous. Models are constantly surrounded by people who only see her for how she looks and that's it. Her husband doesn't love her and cheated on her. She's probably very insecure and is very sad inside. Don't feel jealous of her. If anything, she needs a good friend now more than ever but you can't sacrifice your own happiness to help her....
2007-07-30 23:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by bestadvicechick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u may have a chance, but just to tell you, she belongs to the media now. those people take so much time out of her that she is not able to collect her thoughts. by now, she could have new friends and snotty bitches that ask for stuff. casually give her e-mails from time to time, thats all. and if u want, e-mail her to meet up. as a model, she is always busy about her image cause its the source of her job. even though u may hate her, you have to rip her away from her job for a lil while.
2007-07-30 23:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to find the wrong kind of women to be friends with.
Maybe you have a problem finding the right people to be friends with.
Counseling may help you get to the reason why you do this.
2007-07-30 23:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now: take a deep breath: becuase I'm going to tell you something that will change your entire life: FORGET HER!
When she calls saying that she's down in the dumps, tell her to f-off and that you don't deserve to talk to such a celebrity. if she calls you more than four times in a day, call the police, about harrassment.
2007-07-30 23:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I agree that you should walk away, But only until she realizes what she has lost, in other words if she ever asks you why you no longer talk to her then you must be honest with her &very very blunt let her know at that point that she hurt you and don't take no excuses remind her that you were there for her and ask why she couldn't be there for you.
2007-07-30 23:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by Kenneth C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe you should walk from it. You really know who your friends are when you need them. And she is no friend. There are plenty of other people out there that will listen to you and be there for you in the time of need. And she is not one of them
2007-07-30 23:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by Debra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. In a relationship there has to be an equal amount of giving and getting.
It sounds like you're the only one giving.
2007-07-30 23:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by DorisDay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She better make sure these people are legit. I just watched a show on human trafficking and they prey on people like your friend. Its sad. Just tell her to be careful.
2007-07-30 23:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by ArachnidDemon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has done this to you then you have to let her go, i understand because this has happened to me too. maybe one day she will get over herself and try to restart the friendship but if you are nasty to her then you are just as bad as she is. dont say anything to her, let her go and hopefully she will see what a good friend you were in times to come
2007-07-30 23:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by alias_47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont deserve a person like that in your life. You need a true friend.
2007-07-30 23:19:28 · answer #11 · answered by xiandier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋