I am shocked to hear this - girls please help me?

Question

I just read some old questions and it sounds like most of you dont like muscular guys...is this possible? I am somewhat muscular, but I recently have intensified my work out and I just be pretty muscular soon. But how is it so? I dont think you girls appreciate the time and effrot put by us guys who work out just to please you - you prefer fat or skinny guys? I am pretty intelligent as well, so maybe you like that, but please tell me that you dont prefer fat/skinny guys over toned, muscular guys.

Answer 1

You know what? I am shocked at what I hear these girls saying. I tend to think these girls are very young and immature who are answering here. You go ask a real woman what she thinks and she'll say "Damn right, we love MUSCLES on a guy!!!" What is it with these wimpy looking wooooses who are trying to look like that femme Justin Timberlake? Now, men, you wanna look like real men, then get back to the gym and pump those muscles and don't pay attention to what these kooks are saying on here and go for the REAL woman who loves your muscular arms and body!!! Whoa!!!!!! She'll love ya for it!!

Answer 2

Its good to be in shape, but too muscular (like overly muscular) isnt attractive to some girls because it just doesn't look natural and maybe they might think the muscular guy puts a little too much attention towards his own image (in a narcissistic way?)

Lots of girls like intelligent guys, however.

Answer 3

Bulging veiny muscles are disgusting (may be why cartoons sometimes have these symptoms for evil alien characters). They are do not look natural or inviting.
However, a little muscle and some tone is nice. We do appreciate guys keeping in shape, just make sure it is a human shape.
I don't really care if a guy is fat (just not death sex fat) or skinny as long as he is nice. I tend to find that overly muscled guys are very aggresive and think entirely too much of themselves. Not appealing!

Answer 4

they are both ok but i prefer a guy whos just normal, i think big muscular guys are too into themselves. i dont want a guy whos perfect. I prefer brains over body but i dont like skinny or fat guys, just maybe a little muscular and normal body. but hey i dont mind a guy thats in shape.

Answer 5

Well I am 40 years old, and my experience, when I was like betweeen 19 or 20, I met the gorgeous guy in my life, well at that time, and he was muscular, he's second house was the gym, guest what, when we went to a motel,, and I saw that litttle stuff, I told him that I had a big headache, it was unbelievable, and I did a little survey and everybody agrees, that when people lift weighs and stuff like that, that's what happen. (SAD).

Answer 6

Well, you know all that EMO stuff is so popular right now. I have NO idea what girls see in those guys. Anyway, in my own opinion I have never been attracted to guys who were too muscular. I think toned is nice but anything beyond that tends to indicate a guy is too much into himself to pay attention to me.

Answer 7

Strictly speaking of physical appearance, I'm generally attracted to well-defined men more than skinny, chubby or body builder types.

But what I like to look at isn't necessarily what I would want for a boyfriend. There's more to him than his physical appearance and I would take that into account.

But if looking at a group of men who are total strangers who I'll never meet and talk to, the well-defined man is the one I'll look at over the others.

Answer 8

Well, it's been proven that women like muscular guys for short-term dating, but for long-term relationships they don't because muscular guys tend to be players.

Answer 9

I like a guy who's fit. but not too muscular, no six pack but no belly, know what I mean?

Answer 10

I don't like the muscley look, and I'm a chick. I dated muscleheads before and I just don't like muscles on top of muscles. The ones (muscles) behind the neck are espicially gross.