i been dating this guy i really love and the thing is that all of a sudden he channged we use to be hang out together 24/7 but now all he does is leave with his friends to his choaches house to the gym he has practice tues and thurs from like 6 to 9 when he use to go to places he would call me or if he was somewhere i dint know he would call me to tell me that he was going to be home in some mins but he has changed he gets home and goes straight to the computer and im afraid that he is cheating on me or i dont know if its just me or i lost his trust because year a go i found something in his myspace that made me go insane and when ever he goes out somewhere i go crazy thinkink about that he might be with another girl??? help plz
2007-07-30 16:19:27 · 22 answers · asked by CHEEKZ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do not get insane or u will give him an opportunity to look for another woman. talk to him. ask him. spill out whatever u have in mind. u feel much better later. good luck
2007-07-30 16:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Over possessiveness and jealousy are very bad habits to acquire. If you cannot trust your partner then you don't have a very solid relationship to begin with. Sounds like you may benefit from counseling to help work through some of the insecurities you feel in a relationship. This will ultimately help you in the long term to establish a more solidly built and long lasting relationship.
2007-07-30 16:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. If anything he thinks you're to clingy (Boy, I know how that feels). If you're hanging out 24/7 give him a couple days for a breather. From my experience a clingy boy friend is horrible. He probably feels like you are smothering him. No he probably isn't with another girl, but be careful because you might drive him into another girl's arms.
2007-07-30 16:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by Carrots and bunnies 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he has just gotten comfortable in your relationship. You should try to ease off of him and let him be. Just remind him once in a while how much you love him by simply giving him a hug or being a special nighty for him. Just because your relationship is changing does not necessarily mean he is cheating on you.
2007-07-30 16:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by tuckerjess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him be totally honest but dont accuse him of anything to soon. check to see if hes hesitating or avoiding topics if he is you should break up with him because he isnt worth it, but if you can look into his eyes and you know that hes being sincere tell him that you miss him and you want to hang out more and if he still treats you the same after awhile then break things off cause he isnt worth it. Good Luck and I hope everything works out for you ! :]
2007-07-30 16:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by Juicy Couture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your eyes do not lie... Go based on what you have seen not heard... It is possible.. I think your best bet is asking him about it and talking to him about it.. If he gets angry and deffensive most likely he did do something bad... Just pay attention to his reaction after ascking the questions. Remember save the best questions for last...Good Luck!!!
2007-07-30 16:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by redeeddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't spend your life this way. Find someone who you can trust and treats you like you deserve to be treated. You don't want to wake up 2 years from now and find you wasted your time on someone who doesn't deserve you.
2007-07-30 16:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
- let go of the paranoia until you're proven right about the cheating
-sounds like you are smothering him, or he is losing interest
-hanging out 24/7 is boring, and unhealthy
-sounds like he is trying to re-claim his life
-get your own life, or take up an interesting hobby
-wait for him to come to you
-give him space
-he'll come crawling back if it's meant to be, don't sweat it.
2007-07-30 16:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he's lost interest in you. And if that's the way he wants to be, then let him.Go find someone who wants to spend time with you. And why get jealous??????????
That green eyed monster causes problems.
2007-07-30 16:30:36 · answer #9 · answered by shyra w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know.
he could just want some time with his
friends. if he hung out with u 24/7
he might feel like he is abandoning
his friends. just talk to him.
deep conversation.
2007-07-30 16:25:17 · answer #10 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋