Help I am about to commit SUICIDE!!!!!!!!?

Question

I met this guy and we talked for some time, last time I heard from him was over a week ago when I tried to call him back he never answered his phone, I repeteadly try this with no answer. I don't know what happen because we were talking an getting along just great he used to call me every evening but all of the sudden I haven't heard a word from him. Do you think he just doesn't want to hear from me anymore? If this helps I am 24 and he's 34

Answer 1

he's just not that into you. move on

Answer 2

OK, first of all I'll tell you what a lot of girls your age should hear/read...Why would he be worth your life??? Do you not love yourself enough to move on? Do you feel like you're unworthy because your thoughts are getting to you telling you that because he's not answering his phone, that automatically makes him avoiding you? He could be avoiding you, or he could have a very good reason for not answering his phone. Until you find out that reason, don't 'assume' the worse. That's the worst thing you can do to yourself. You constantly think of the 'what if's' until you actually make your brain think it's true. Did you even go out with this guy, or are you all just buddies? You didn't quite clarify that part, and from what I read in your question, you all are just buddies that talk often. Why do you say you want to commit suicide? Really now..is that the only way out? Is that the only way to deal with possible rejection? He could very well ended up having a family emergency, or just plain busy and can't get to the phone right now. There could be days where I don't return a phone call because I get busy. I know guys don't realize that most women hang on their every word and when guys do something for us in the beginning and keep it up, like talking to us on the phone each night....and then break that cycle..it causes us to worry and the first thing that pops in our head is: "What did I do wrong?" Which in most cases it isn't what we did wrong. Guys don't follow a pattern. They may for a while, but they can easily break it without thinking twice about it. It's just how they are. Well, the ones that I know. So don't beat yourself up over this thinking that there is something wrong with you. There are plenty more out there, and next time...make more than one guy friend to talk to. :-) Have you tried talking with one of your friends about this? See what they say. Guys need a lot of guy time. Go have fun, and don't worry about this guy. He'll call eventually and then you can ask him if he's ok, or where he's been the last few days. But don't make it a 20 questionair. Men don't like that. Be suttle. Be gentle. You'll be fine. Take care.

Answer 3

Okay, first off please don't do anything impulsive. Suicide over a guy that seemingly has blown you off is totally a stupid reason for dying...I mean think about all the things that people are dying for (war/freedom) and you want to die for a scum bucket?!

I don't know what happened, or why he is such a big coward and has suddenly dropped off your planet, but remember, as cliche as it is: when one door closes another one opens. Good, now he's out of the way for you to find someone who can really treasure and value who you are.

However, I don't know about you calling and calling...have some self-respect woman! You are an attractive young woman, who has so much life to live...why throw it all away for one guy (one really idiotic guy).

If this isn't your first boyfriend, then you've probably learned that life will go on and so will you. If he is your first, well then learn from others. Most likely, most of your friends are not married to the first guy they ever dated! Hold on there, and I wish you the best of luck. Take it slow, it's gonna hurt, but that's the only way you'll get over it.

Lose the guy no matter what, he's a loser for not even bothering to end it properly, unless he was in a life or death situation etc.,

Answer 4

Well please don't commit suicide over a stupid guy, there are other fish in the sea... but I'm sorry honey if he just dropped contact with you all of the sudden it probably means he's not interested in you... unless this kind of pattern is common with him (has he ever done this before?) in which cause maybe, and this is a real stretch, it is possible that he just needs some space. Quit calling him like crazy. He'll think you've lost it. try just calling him once and leaving a message: say you need to know whats going on here... you need to know if you two are done because you need some closure.

Answer 5

Have you heard of that book entitled; "He's just not that into you....." That is what is going on here. When I initially clicked onto this question I was thinking that you were a young teen carrying on about someone she liked.

I am not trying to insult you, but you should not be carrying on about any guy and talking about suicide, that is ridiculous, no matter how old you are. Since you sound like a teenager, he likely thinks that you are not mature enough for him.

Grow up a bit and find someone closer to your own age to communicate with.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Hey, its ok, you never know whats happened, don't get so worked up if he doesn' t want to talk to you, its ok, its not the end of the world. He might be having problems with his phone, give him some time. Would he want you to commit suicide if he was only having some problems getting ahold of you? I don't think he would, now give hims some time, relax and don't get worked up. Every thing will be fine but theres a bit of an age difference there don't you think?

Answer 7

Look, I hate answering these questions. But I will anyway, dont sweat something like this. If he does not want to talk to you then calling him constantly will not make him want to any more than he already does. Also he could just be buisy, as adults we lead buisy lives and dont have time to talk to people all the time, just relax, leave him one last message to give you a call back and if you dont hear anything for a week then just assume he does not want to talk to you and shrug it off. I know it hurts to have some one do that to you but you cant let it ruin your life, there are plenty more men out there (or women depending on what your into) so just relax, hold your head high and find some one else.

Answer 8

Strange??? And you would commit suicide over this??? Learn to love and respect yourself!!! There are plenty of fish in the sea for God's sake!!! Call Concern Hot-line or go to counseling this is not normal!! Get help!

Answer 9

Grinch it is hardly worth taking your life over. It doesn't sound like he has gone on vacation as I imagine that he would have told you of this during one of your conversations. So sad fact of life is that he may have found someone else and/or lost interest in you. So pick up your boots and get out looking for someone else who you can share some memories with. The human heart is very capable of recovering from a broken heart and like it or not will be broken many times throughout our lives and we will be responsible for breaking others hearts also. Best of luck and if you are talking serious about taking your life then get to the hospital or speak with someone who can help, Telecare etc., and try and get yourself straightened up before searching for another man. Good luck again.

Answer 10

just hope that nothings wrong happened to him. but, if he's not calling just because he finally realized that he's no longer interested in you then i guess, it's time to wake up to the truth. are you sure that this man is worth commiting suicide for? i think not! he's just another man that you can forget about. it's not the end of the world and you'll find someone else who will truly deserve you. and nothing can be further from the truth.

Answer 11

Try ONE more time..just leave a nice message..hey I always had a nice time talking with you, hoping to hear from you.
Hope everythings OK!!

Do not leave messages on his phone that if he doesnt call you you are going to kill yourself, or something along those lines. If you have been, that would be a major reason for him NOT to call you back.

And also, you are NOT going to kill yourself. You're 24??
34 is a bit too much age difference, sorry to say.

One answerer had an interesting point..is it possible that this guy is married???