we like each other but then she had issues with being single (her ex), then (im not aggressive) however i became more assertive, then good signals, then mixed signals. i wasnt sure if she was ready or not. then i had my own problems (work college home etc). i didnt have enoungh time to focus on us. so when i got the chance to discuss she said im dating and were friends ur not for me. i became a little attached and got hurt. i can c us together (we are so much alike 85%) since shes Affectionate with her friends and me , how can i not go out with her and not kiss her for the first time to show i am the one, or even go out? mayb it was bad timing. i dont wanna show her im hurt or act like something is going to happen and its not. there is so much potential between us.
2007-07-30 14:43:54 · 7 answers · asked by ace 2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If that is truly the case, you should have not let her slip away. Either you can allow her to put you on the back burner or you can move on too. It seems like she didn't have any problems moving on. Why should you?
2007-08-07 03:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're getting to know someone, it's good to communicate with a little conversation. Reading signals can lead you the wrong way.
She has already said that ur not for her. She is involved with someone else. Move on.
Why would you want to act in a way that is not what you're thinking and feeling? Be yourself and if she doesn't like it, it's nobody's fault. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
You need to do some straight talking with people. Take time to do that. I know you're busy with work and school, etc., but don't rush your love life.
2007-07-30 22:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by LindaLou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see saving the relationship as it sounds like she has decided to end it. As for still being friends call her ask her about her day, how she is and talk to her without any of your feelings coming through. That's what I did with my ex so that I could try and get her back and it was working really good but then I guess I went too hard and she has not spoken to me in days.
2007-07-30 21:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by not_moes_cousin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say, you can't have it all. You can't be afraid to take a risk and then hope if it doesn't work out that you'll be "friends." Lets face it, you wouldn't really be a genuine friend, you'd be that guy that's stickin' around hoping she'll realize you're the one!
Make a decision, either you're going to try to be with her, OR stop pretending to be her friend (cause you're not!)
2007-07-30 21:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by Techman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you only live once. get to know her friends and just let her be herself. she might not have been dating someone, maybe she just wasn't ready yet. give her space and give her time. stay cool and relaxed around her. date other people. if it was meant to be, it will be. if not, that's okay. there are other fish in the sea and you can always be friends. that just be what she needs; a friend.
2007-08-07 21:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on buddy!
2007-08-07 20:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ronda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it for what it is.... she is not interested in you that way
2007-08-07 12:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋