Want to be herself?

Question

She wants a boyfriend that would be nice and understanding. would give her attention when she needs it? At the same time she wants to be herself??

I used to date a girl and gave her what she needed and even try to understand her. At the end 18 months, she says " she wants to be herself?" Breakup occured weeks later.

She got a new boyfriend...and still tells me thats she tells her new boyfriend the same thing. "She wants to be herself?" too.

Any girls can clarify? What's " I want to be myself " suppose to mean? Arent yourself when you're in a relationship after such a long time?

Answer 1

She sounds a bit confused on how to be in a relationship.
She wants to be herself but tries to be someone she thinks the guy wants her to be, and ends up getting tired of it.

Yes, you would think she would be herself after being in a relationship after a long period of time. But then again, this could be her excuse when she is ready to move on.

~faith