ok so my friend is in love with her neighbor. Hes her age. He has a baby momma and my friend has been sleeping with him. She doesnt know what to do cause she loves him. She tried saying no to him but they still end up having sex. What do i tell her? should she move out of her house so she wont ever see him again? And the worst thing is that she talks to his babys momma!!! PLEASE HELP ME SO I CAN HELP HER!!
2007-07-30 09:40:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is doing all that you say it is too late for you too help her. She has already done the deed.
2007-07-30 09:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not following you. Is he still dating the baby momma? Are your friend and the baby momma considering themselves friends? Move out of her house? how old is she? Why would she move? She just needs to display some self control. I don't think that she is being a whore or anything I think she is just being young. Young people fall in love and do stupid things make bad decisions in the name of love.
2007-07-30 16:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by PuCcI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first you should try to talk to her and then if she knows that she can't convince him to not have sex with her, then you guys may need a lawyer cause maybe he could be a sexual offender or harrasser or something and you guys don't know it! Of course he will tell you that he's not but he may be! So be careful! And second of all if the baby's momma finds out, you guys are gonna be in serious trouble and she gonna get a lawyer on yall or something cause she's gonna be pissed off and she won't like it!
So im just saying, BE CAREFUL!
Good Luck!!!
2007-07-30 16:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's being used by this looser and is in denial. She also needs to get a little self respect. That's not love.
What would happen if the baby-momma found out? Would this help your friend open her eyes? You know what they say... if you can't stand the heat- get out of the kitchen.
2007-07-30 16:46:53 · answer #4 · answered by magikal01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is the baby momma a live in gf, or just seperated... after that your friend needs to look down the road at the future of reality with baby daddy romeo, with him she has at least one enemy for life depending on the status of the baby momma, and will most liekly be taking care of a son/daughter that is not her own everyother weekend depending on hte stability of the momma, so basically tell her to glue her legs shut and at least use like 3 condoms just so she doesn't end up like a statistic
2007-07-30 16:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all having sex is not being a whore. It's her life, not yours. What's a baby momma?
2007-07-30 16:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by Hibbler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to realize that she, herself, could end up being a baby mamma. If she can see how he treats his baby mamma she needs to put herself in her shoes to see where her life could be heading.
I would try to get her to move if she has no self control over herself.
2007-07-30 16:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by Colleen G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are adults there is nothing you can do other than make sure she is having safe sex. Talking to his kids mother is not at all cool. If the kids mother does not know that's what makes it wrong!
2007-07-30 16:45:53 · answer #8 · answered by Meichelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just be honest! Maybe get some other friends to help you tell her. But that is all i have to tell you sorry
good luck!
2007-07-30 16:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by Makena O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she needs to find a way to get out of it. Get a boyfriend, move, get really busy. Something.
2007-07-30 16:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋