Women might get emotional, a bit hurt. But from my experience men take rejections far more seriously than women. They become down right vindictive. I've rejected few guys from the past. One guy wouldn't stop emailing me..calling me crazy, this other guy had anger issues, this one guy was in denial, he couldn't believe that I was rejecting him. He tried to point out my flaws. So why is it that women blame themselves for being rejected and men seek revenge?
2007-07-30 09:36:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this one guy whom I've on a date w/ , after I'd rejected him, he tried to make me jealous..i'm like, no need, I'm not into you at all.
2007-07-30 10:07:22 · update #1
I had one dude curse me out when I turned him down. I told him the truth. He wasn't my type and he just flipped. He called me a fat b***h, called my mom a few names (he doesn't even know her and for him to be 30 years old and acting like that, he must have some mental issues). Now, I would have been wrong if I retaliated and just beat the crap out of him for going off on me for no reason, but I just said "F*** you" and walked off.
I don't blame myself when I get rejected. I just accept it and go about my life. I have rejected a few guys that went off on me. If I don't feel the connection, I tell them so. I don't get their hopes up at all. Maybe the guy has been rejected a numerous amount of times and he just snapped? Who knows? One thing is for sure. rejection is a part of life and people shouldn't get all worked up over it.
2007-07-30 09:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by Caliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Christian woman, and I do know my biblical role. It is not the commentary you have displayed. In fact, I do not believe you quoted a single passage of scripture in your statement. The only part that looked like it might be was the first line, "A young woman's charm is her capital. She must invest it wisely rather than squander it." I could not find it in any of 3 translations, but even if it is in the Bible, it does not support the rest of your argument by itself. There are some passages that appear troublesome, but proper biblical exegesis and study will show they are an attempt by the author to either a) give women a standing, if not equal, at least comparable to men or b) dealing with specific issues with a specific church that are not directly applicable to the church today and only indirectly so in that worship needs to have order and not be chaotic. Your interpretation also ignores biblical people such as Deborah and Esther and the preaching couple Pricilla & Aquilla all of whom had do not conform to the "standards" made by the passages your view is based on. It also ignores passages such as Gal. 3:28 and Acts 2:17-18. Therefore, I reject you biblical interpretation and substitute one that is in better harmony with the totality of scripture.
2016-05-18 00:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't accept something being out of their control very well. That is why they try to put the woman down. Women are just always going to blame themselves and just beat themselves up about everything no matter what. It sticks but it is in our nature. Anyway men can't stand rejection but their are women out there like that too. Just the way you described.
2007-07-30 09:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by PuCcI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a woman after one date track down my phone number and leave me daily hour long messages for months screaming that I 'had to give her another chance'. Then when she saw me in the grocery store she started throwing things and screaming until the store had to call the police to literally drag her away.
Both genders can take 'no' pretty hard.
2007-07-30 09:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by elurle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men take things to a deeper level than women which means when you reject them it causes more psychological grief and pain than it does in us women. Plus, we have healthier ways of dealing with romantic busts (crying to our girlfriends for example) where as men don't have guy friends they can cry with.
2007-07-30 09:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by eternity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't really answer because not all guys look for revenge. I guess it's how you let them down, what do you say? Are you good friends?
2007-07-30 09:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by Camille 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"dent in the armor" if you deface the name or cause of your anger/problem then when word gets around about her/him rejecting you he can act tuff about it... seriously its called immaturity, and it happens even to older people, and its funny
2007-07-30 09:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but we do, and we definitely don't like being rejected...not one bit.
2007-07-30 09:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, is this you Lyn-Marie?
lol
oooooo rejected......
2007-07-30 09:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its not that you rejected them...but HOW you rejected them.
2007-07-30 09:38:23 · answer #10 · answered by Lonely Turkey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋