Cheating with the ugly?

Question

Ok Ok..I deserve everything & then some of what everyone has written. I am overwhelmed by the response from MEN telling me I am a man Ho.
Look I have a GREAT paying job plus I have my own biz. I spent money like running water on ugly woman to make them feel better. They repay me with amazing sex my wife never pleased me like they can. Mind you with respect to my wife she was a virgin in 1980 raised in the bible belt with morals at 19 she was a great catch. I am the only man she has been with.
She says it is MY fault she can't please me since I am her teacher sexually. She is sexy but not naughty. I can not ask my wife to let me f*** in the *** or swollow my c**. She is the mother of my kids. I know the ugly woman are great lovers and are willing to do everything with no questions asked.
She has I think no intentions of letting me in the marriage bed again.
I have informed lovers I need a place to stay but they reused me full time. I am paying their bills.
Depressed & Sad :(

Answer 1

O M G!!!
You have some nerve to go on here and ask for advice. You cheat on me and expect answers? Just go to your UGLY whores and stay away from MY children and me or I will get a restraining order and make sure that you do not ever see any of us again.
Just give me ALL your $$$ and live in your car. You can come by and check the trash can for scraps.
I am so HURT beyond recovery.
I feel so dirty. You desserted your family for a F**K. I hope YOU think it WAS worth it. Ugly woman or not...you are crude, nasty and YOU are CORRECT..I would never allow you to fu** my *** you sicko. You always said affairs was only ENTERTAINMENT sex. Well how about now? Are you getting entertained?
I don't think so. It isn't fun as long as you HAVE permission to go be NASTY or NAUGHTY.
I will see you in court on the day I Divorce you.
I will tell the kids how you spent money on WOMAN and didn't have money for them to go to Disneyland for a summer vacation. How about that!!!!
NO room in MY heart for you or your teaching me about sex. I am fine the way I am. I am the normal one.

Answer 2

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life go ahead a make an ugly woman your wife. Cut your wife lose and let her find the love of a "real" man. No offense but I have always found that a lover is only as good as their partner. If your the only one your wife has ever been with than I would be examining your sexually skills and having your ego take a back seat for a bit.

Answer 3

wow.......
i thought i would never see the day when a man could be such a coward as you.....i am awpalled! look what u need is to get legally DIVORCED and let this poor woman go. i dont think that i could live with someone that i know is not respecting me, and cherishing me for what i am! i admire this woman, ur wife, she is truly a GODS work, and bieng ugly is not the issue here...... u being a sex addict is. i cannot believe that u think all ugly women are better lovers!! if u r making ur wife feel like this, just because u were her first, u got problems . im almost sure she thinks this cheating frenzy of urs is her fault!
depressed and sad... i dont see why.
u have what every peice of sh!t that a coqrd wants!
u need therapy, ur a sex addict!

Answer 4

You make ZERO sense. You say you respect your wife enough for being the mother of your children, yaddy-yaddy, so that you can't bring yourself to ask her to be a little naughty, so you have to CHEAT on her?! Where's the respect in THAT, I wonder?

She's right in the fact that its up to YOU, since you seem so worldly sexually that YOU need to teach HER how to please you.

At the same time, you have an absolute moral obligation to keep your dick in your pants and stop being a jerk to her. She KNOWS about your philandering and she's not killed you, chopped you in little pieces and buried you in the back yard? That woman should be made a SAINT.

So what IS your question exactly? Are you an asshole? Absolutely. Should you stop f**king around on your wife? Absolutely. Anything else? Just use a little common sense.

Answer 5

Sorry sweet, but you kind of made your bed when you married a woman with high morals. When you look for a partner in life they have to be the complete package. If you are a sexual and naughty man, you should have found yourself a sexual and naughty lady. I can understand that you love your wife because in some ways you put her on a pedestal, but she probably wasn't the best choice for compatability. It's up to you what you do now. You can choose to carry on the way you are or begin to be faithfull to your wife and live with the sexual frustration, or you can leave her. You have to make the decision, and just get on with it.

Answer 6

Why can't you ask your wife to let her f*** in the *** or swallow your c**? My husband does, actually he tells me and I love it that way. I'm the mother of his four children and he loves me all the more for it. Teach her how to lighten up and be naughty. Maybe if you focus on her a little and not the "ugly" women she'd be a little more responsive. Teach her how to be a mother when she needs to be and your whore in the bedroom. Makes for a fun marriage.

Answer 7

im sorry but i would never sleep with you again if i were your wife. too many guys say that they cant do that stuff with their wives and i think its a bunch of bs. your WIFE is supose to be your BEST FRIEND. the person who you TRUST in and can ask any question too without feeling stupid or embarassed. you probably thought since she was a virgin when you met her and all that, that she couldnt possibly be up for anything naughty, when infact maybe she was and was too shy to say anything hoping you would bring it up and didnt. and instead you sleep with dirty prostitutes. i have no sympathy for someone like you and if you really have the kind of money you say you have, then you obviously dont need to stay with one of your whores. why dont you go get yourself your own apartment? you should feel sad and depressed for what you did!

Answer 8

YOU STUPID M***** FU****ER!!!
You wife was in love with you and you blew it because of your wallet. Let me tell you something you load of dog shi*. As long as your wallet is open..the ho's legs will be open. YOU are about the dumbest person I ever read about on her.
You are only upset because you got caught. Other wise you would NOT stop. AS I read before in you previous posting, you are pissed she is selling your tools, clothes etc... At least she is smart enough to get paid for things she probably picked out and purchased. I would of burned everything you own or had a HUGE FREE yard sale. YOUR hopefully soon EX wife is a very smart woman and I give her 2 thumbs up for using her head and SELLING your things to bank $$$ for HER family since she will be the SOLE provider for your also EX family. I would NOT let you near the kids for fear you might give them a disease if you kiss them. YOUR gross and you suck. TRY living in a cardboard box under a bridge.
I hope you are sad but seems you are ONLY SAD because you are JILTED by LOVERS. You are not sad because you betrayed, cheated and spent $$$ on whores.
If I was you...I would cash my check and give it to my wife. DO not attempt to apologize to her for what you are NOT sorry for doing and probably still are.

Answer 9

Hopefully you can get your priorities straight. If sex is more important than holding onto a good woman then you shouldn't be with her in the first place. If it's sex u care about be single and leave this decent woman alone so she can have a happy life. Don't keep her around b/c she's a "good deal". It's just not fair.

Answer 10

Well, I guess when you start playing with the heart, you have to expect to lose some time. You are expecting her to feel good about the fact that you have told her she does not please you in bed? Add to that, the fact that you are buying it on the side? You will be very lucky if you do not need your well paying job to pay for you child-support, alimony and lose half your business. As far as the lovers, they do not want you, they just want your money, you are nothing but a John to them and they are nothing more than hookers...