I know i shouldnt be going through his business but Gosh he always comes home late and all that other crap.. Him and Her dont even do anything.. so like.. im really curious..
2007-07-30 09:34:59 · 54 answers · asked by Sniicker D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
AND I KNOW THERE NOT DOING IT BECUASE EVERY NIGHT MY MOM GOES TO BED EARLY BECUASE SHE HAS TO GET UP EARLY IN THE MORNING AND MY DAD WOULD EITHER LEAVE OR JUST STAY UP LATE. pLUS DURING THE DAY MY MOM IS ALWAYS HOME WHILE MY DAD WOULD BE AT WORK.
2007-07-30 09:43:50 · update #1
How do you know that they don't have sex ?
Did your mom tell you that?
2007-07-30 09:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by lovesponge09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do u know they don't do anything? Do u and ur mom talk about that kinda stuff? Are they loving towards one another? Do they care for each other? If so, they might do stuff every now and then. Ur dad's always coming home late and is tired? He might work long hours. He's got viagra...well, if he's tired, then his body needs rest. But his needs, as well as his wife's needs, have to be met...so, he gets some help. OR there could be other things going on with ur dad that he needs the viagra. I'd need more information before I'd say ur dad's cheating on ur mom. Guys take viagra for a variety of reasons.
2007-07-30 09:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a sign he's cheating. It could also just be a sign that he has erectile dysfunction and needs it to be able to have sex with your mom. The best thing to do is be honest, maybe go to your mom first, and let her know your concerns. This might not be the easiest thing to do, but you need to get it off your chest, otherwise you will be constantly stressing about it. All that will accomplish is health problems for you down the road. Just be open and ask questions. If he's not cheating, you'll be completely relieved, and if he is (which most likely is NOT the case) then it's better for your mom to know instead of being lied to by your dad. Either way, in the end, you will have some resolution instead of this huge questiong hanging over you.
2007-07-30 09:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if your dad is staying out later now than he did 6 months ago, if the affection levels between the two of the have dropped, while the tension has risen and if it's a brand new prescription....then your probably not to far off the mark. I've linked some other signs of a cheating spouse, though really it's more the type of thing your mom might know better since some concern money, etc.
Good luck.
2007-07-30 09:50:10 · answer #4 · answered by indigolady1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say this lovingly, I think you're being a little paranoid. Viagra is used for sexual activity in any context, whether it be marriage or not-marriage or affairage (sorry, I was on a roll).
If you're really curious, it's not a bad thing to ask. The status and well-being of your parents' relationship with each other effects you as well, and you'll be better off asking THEM questions before you jump to drastic conclusions or snoop around in their stuff. You might find out there are things you wouldn't want them to find of YOUR stuff and about your personal life.
PS- Assuming they aren't doing "married things";
just because your dad owns viagra it doesn't mean that he just recently bought it. Maybe he's saving it for an occasion of any sort? Or maybe he bought it a while ago and is being a pack rat like tons of other people and isn't throwing it away?
2007-07-30 09:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well him taking viagra isn't in itself a sign that he's cheating..but other behaviors like you said could be. I'm not going to say he is or he isn't, but maybe talk to your dad or your mom...ask if everything's ok and tell them you're a little concerned. I don't know how close you are with your parents so i know it's not always that easy opening up. But just don' t jump to any conclusions. But i know it's hard when there are little signs and odd things happening...and then your stuck in the middle of it.....hope everything works out
2007-07-30 09:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by Scooby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An adult issue--they are doing what they want as ADULTS--none of your business what adults decide to do. Sorry but take care of your own business--Viagra is NOT just for sex--so don't assume too much until you get the facts. And if dad is cheating--he's a big boy and will have to be responsible for his actions. You can't do much about it. Sorry
2007-07-30 11:32:42 · answer #7 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Viagra, coming home late married with a wife he doesn't sleep with, and a daughter that goes through his stuff when he's not home, god I hope at least the poor guy gets laid on the side, every guy deserves a little happiness in his life!!
2007-07-30 10:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Viagra does not equal a cheating dad. Maybe, like a few others have stated, he just needs a little help so he can make love to your mom.
2007-07-30 09:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by Stizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he needs it to have sex with your mom. Viagra doesn't mean he's cheating. What exactly makes you think that he's not having sex with your mom? Face it, your parents are having sex when you don't know that they are. It's not like they are going to let you know every time they score. I'm sure your dad gets a lunch break, and he occasionally goes home for a nooner, or they do it when your mom "is asleep".
2007-07-30 09:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
He might actually have a medical condition.. Just because he needs Viagra doesn't mean he is cheating. His tool just might need a little help due to other drugs he might be taking, or it could be he is so stressed his tool needs a little push to work the right way.
2007-07-30 09:46:55 · answer #11 · answered by Wang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋